Update Post #78, Pic of her sister post #117, post #154 for crazy part of story I totally forgot about
Asked her out just now after spending 12 hours at the library together.. just asked "would you like to go on a date with me on sunday night?"
she goes "umm.. potentially" I then say I need an answer right now.. and she says "well I have to see how much studying I get done by then for finals... so potentially" then I just say ok let me know soon.. FUARK.. i should have said the date or time isn't important they can always be changed. I just need a yes or no.
but of course i couldn't think of that until I was already walking into the house..
just some background on me and her:
-known each other for 2.5 years, really good friends, but imo there is something more there
-both had a thing for each other at the wrong times
-I fukked her sister 6 weeks ago(srs)
I'm only posting pics if she somehow says yes. If she says no, I'm going to tell her that I'm not gonna be "the friend" straight up
Granted this is the misc, but could I get some constructive advice instead of bashing please? In terms of what to do now/what I did wrong.
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12-12-2013, 09:52 PM #1
Asked out my One-itis.. done goofed
Last edited by jakeeck; 12-14-2013 at 07:26 PM.
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12-12-2013, 09:58 PM #13
Well disregarding the sister thing (I assume she doesn't know) I think you are overthinking the conversation. You asked her out romantically, which was good, and she didn't say no. We don't know what her tone was in her response to you but she could be totally interested or potentially interested. Once she finds out you banged her sister it's game over tho. You made your own bed with that one.
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12-12-2013, 10:00 PM #17
fukked her sister strike one. If the sisters are close and not ghetto that's a huge NO and nothing like fukking her best friend which would make you more desirable.
Being friends with her for 2.5 years then asking her out strike 2. You dug yourself deep in the friend zone level Quasimodo. That never works, she has you as a friend which to some women is pretty similar if not better than dating. Why would she want to change that? If you were not her friend she would have to choose to have you in her life or not, now she has all the power. Why mess up a good thing?
You said you need and answer now strike 3. Desperate, her answer is so intelligent I applaud her. "umm potentially" how powerful. Then you say soon? lol like she gives a fawk what your idea of soon is. She is going to string you along for as long as she wants.
Sorry bruh too many mistakes, you are never dating this girl. Cut ties and make it seem like it happened naturally then text her after 8 months to a year.
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12-12-2013, 10:03 PM #22Sometimes you just have to stop and think that everything around you created by man, was once just a thought in the imagination. Then from the imagination it was created into what we consider reality. I have a strong believe that we greatly control our futures with our imagination (visualizing you reaching your goals, etc).
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12-12-2013, 10:06 PM #30
OP, sorry to tell you this. but that was not the answer of a girl who wants to go out with you. If she wanted to go out with you, she would have said this:
"I have to study for finals this night this night and this night, but we can go out this night!"
sorry man.Neg "Neat" posts on sight. *******s.
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