RH Chat 23: The cock carousel and boner buffet are only a glory hole away!

[kickblake]

i guess it rustles my jimmies slightly that she expects im gonna orbit.

Y? You DID orbit. No one expects a drastic change in personality. She's expecting you to do exactly what you used to do. It's a totally reasonable assumption.

[b0yer2]

This is code for "I'm open to being a last-call casualty because I struck out at the bar." the larger number of y's attached to the hey, the easier it is to get the smang.

I'd hit it if I got that text at 2am.... No effort at all, hell yeah. Why would you pass on it. Who cares if you're not #1 if you get the gushy wet wet.

[novawildcat25]

This is code for "I'm open to being a last-call casualty because I struck out at the bar." the larger number of y's attached to the hey, the easier it is to get the smang.

doubt that'll happen she doesn't go to the bars

she isn't super attractive looks wise (cute at the most), i thought she had a good personality and she didn't act like a sloot so that's why i was interested

Y? You DID orbit. No one expects a drastic change in personality. She's expecting you to do exactly what you used to do. It's a totally reasonable assumption.

i suppose that's true. first time she was acting flaky i should have nexted her. no more second or third chances just because they have redeeming qualities

[kickblake]

I'd hit it if I got that text at 2am.... No effort at all, hell yeah. Why would you pass on it. Who cares if you're not #1 if you get the gushy wet wet.

Who said anything about passing on it?

[digitalbath11]

There's a quote from the book "Love in the Time of Cholera" by Gabriel Garcia Marquez that goes:

"But when a woman decides to sleep with a man, there is no wall she will not scale, no fortress she will not destroy, no moral consideration she will not ignore at its very root: there is no God worth worrying about."

Ya'll talking reminded me of that.

[Alchem]

There's a quote from the book "Love in the Time of Cholera" by Gabriel Garcia Marquez that goes:




Ya'll talking reminded me of that.

thanks for the quote grandma

[Kaptn Krunch]

Hahaha never heard it called the "bad girl machine" I just call it the pussy machine.

I always called it the yes/no machine. Bishes always be working out on that thing. I'm going to open up a gym for only women and it will only have the yes/no machine & the ass blaster machine. Dat dere spot reduction theory. If I use the yes/no machine, it'll get rid of my cottage cheese thighs.

[OhioStateBucki]

I always called it the yes/no machine. Bishes always be working out on that thing. I'm going to open up a gym for only women and it will only have the yes/no machine & the ass blaster machine. Dat dere spot reduction theory. If I use the yes/no machine, it'll get rid of my cottage cheese thighs.

Would join and wear a banana hammock while staring at you and smiling the entire time.

[Punisher1012]

You're a *******, go back to IG

lol my only entertainment lately

[bitty_bish]

^^You crack me up! Most of the time, I'm like....ooooohhhh, DAMN! lol

[MrSilverback]

There's a quote from the book "Love in the Time of Cholera" by Gabriel Garcia Marquez that goes:

Ya'll talking reminded me of that.

What's your interpretation of that?

lol my only entertainment lately

Wow the old lady is really cracking the whip?

[OhioStateBucki]

There's a quote from the book "Love in the Time of Cholera" by Gabriel Garcia Marquez that goes:




Ya'll talking reminded me of that.

Doesn't seem relevant to them - that girl doesn't really want to sleep with him from my interpretation. She just wants the attention.


But that saying is true 99% of the time IMO. Look at the amount of women in love with men who have done absolutely crazy sh*t and they seem to let it go by the wayside - whereas if a stranger did those things they'd be appalled. A girl in love is a girl in love, and it overrides her normal response to a lot of things. I'm not saying she will ignore it if she comes home and the kids have been axe murdered, but girls wear rose-tinted glasses for men they love and will rationalize/justify a lot of things to maintain that view.

[MrSilverback]

Doesn't seem relevant to them - that girl doesn't really want to sleep with him from my interpretation. She just wants the attention.


But that saying is true 99% of the time IMO. Look at the amount of women in love with men who have done absolutely crazy sh*t and they seem to let it go by the wayside - whereas if a stranger did those things they'd be appalled. A girl in love is a girl in love, and it overrides her normal response to a lot of things. I'm not saying she will ignore it if she comes home and the kids have been axe murdered, but girls wear rose-tinted glasses for men they love and will rationalize/justify a lot of things to maintain that view.

The sex dichotomy between men and women is very interesting.

The old lock/key analogy applies.

"What do you call a key that opens many locks? A master key. What do you call a lock that's opened by many keys? A sh*tty lock"

I always came away with the philosophy of once I bang a girl, I won. She could never talk to me again. Doesn't matter though. That notch is in my belt. I got the goodies.

I take from the quote: Once a girl sleeps with a guys, she'll go to no-end to preserve any sort of relationship to justify it.

[kickblake]

The sex dichotomy between men and women is very interesting.

The old lock/key analogy applies.

"What do you call a key that opens many locks? A master key. What do you call a lock that's opened by many keys? A sh*tty lock"

I always came away with the philosophy of once I bang a girl, I won. She could never talk to me again. Doesn't matter though. That notch is in my belt. I got the goodies.

I take from the quote: Once a girl sleeps with a guys, she'll go to no-end to preserve any sort of relationship to justify it.

but..but..but, we're all the same! Males are sluts too!

[Tiffany Wantsmore]

I usually neg on sight for the lock/key analogy. But I never neg anyone ITT.

I saw a guy in Iceland earlier who looked so much like my bestest online friend (he's a Miscer, lives in the US but would husband/10). He caught me checking him out three times. Third time I smiled but sadly to no avail. Ah well. Hot as fuark though. Massive guy, full bearmode, milk chocolate skin.

[MrSilverback]

I usually neg on sight for the lock/key analogy. But I never neg anyone ITT.

I saw a guy in Iceland earlier who looked so much like my bestest online friend (he's a Miscer, lives in the US but would husband/10). He caught me checking him out three times. Third time I smiled but sadly to no avail. Ah well. Hot as fuark though. Massive guy, full bearmode, milk chocolate skin.

Yeah but you can't deny it exists as a social concept.

Just like anything in life.

Predator vs. prey
Man vs. woman

[Navillus13]

speaking of improvement, im thinking of joining pof and seeing what comes from it. would be a good way to improve my skills. i am kind of ambivalent about the whole online dating scene though. i'd feel like joining pof means i failed at dating in the real world. in other words, it'd be taking the easy way out to encounter women. on the other hand this could help me IRL with approaches / being comfortable around really attractive women. thoughts?

If you do it.. make sure you are doing it for yourself, not to just meet random chicks to fill a "void" in your life.

I stand by the notion that improving yourself via other means in life, will attract other women to you no matter what. think of one of those bug zapper lamps. That motherfukker is bright as fuk.. glowing.. electric.. confident, just sitting outside enjoying the night. All the bugs come to it and fuk it, not vice versa.

be the bug zapper bro..be the bug zapper.

[Boffothe]

I generally cringe at the lock/key analogy on here too but I admit it's exactly where my mind goes when push comes to shove. I've literally said "I don't have to listen to you, I've already phucked you" in a blowout argument with an old hookup

[Navillus13]

Yeah but you can't deny it exists as a social concept.

Just like anything in life.

Predator vs. prey
Man vs. woman

yes it exists as a social concept. I personally think its a flawed concept created by a bunch of insecure men trying to validate their hatred of promiscuous women.

[Tiffany Wantsmore]

yes it exists as a social concept. I personally think its a flawed concept created by a bunch of insecure men trying to validate their jealousy of promiscuous women.

Fixed.

[MrSilverback]

yes it exists as a social concept. I personally think its a flawed concept created by a bunch of insecure men trying to validate their hatred of promiscuous women.

To each their own. I'm not necessarily saying I embrace it. Still exists.

It's like saying racism doesn't exist. Racism, classicism, antisemitism, etc are ALL wrong but they exist.

[Navillus13]

Fixed.

probably both.. "man that chick didnt bang me. .but banged my friend. oh well lock n key lolol"

[digitalbath11]

What's your interpretation of that?

Doesn't seem relevant to them - that girl doesn't really want to sleep with him from my interpretation. She just wants the attention.


But that saying is true 99% of the time IMO. Look at the amount of women in love with men who have done absolutely crazy sh*t and they seem to let it go by the wayside - whereas if a stranger did those things they'd be appalled. A girl in love is a girl in love, and it overrides her normal response to a lot of things. I'm not saying she will ignore it if she comes home and the kids have been axe murdered, but girls wear rose-tinted glasses for men they love and will rationalize/justify a lot of things to maintain that view.

This^^^

Exactly as OSB put it.

If a girl wants you, you'll know it.

Not to say a girl cant be ambivalent to her feelings towards a guy, but for the majority of times, a chick knows if she wants you or not. Ambivalence, imo, is a long-winded way of saying 'NO' to someone.

[MrSilverback]

This^^^

Exactly as OSB put it.

If a girl wants you, you'll know it.

Not to say a girl cant be ambivalent to her feelings towards a guy, but for the majority of times, a chick knows if she wants you or not. Ambivalence, imo, is a long-winded way of saying 'NO' to someone.

I generally agree. There are exceptions though.

I pursued a girl when I was younger for like 2 years. Went from friend zone, to not talking, to her telling me she would have sex with me every day if she could, to her telling me she hated me and never speak to her again LOL.

So yeah, sometimes women don't know what they want.

Granted, i would never do that again. No chick is worth pursuing for 2 years

[Navillus13]

I generally agree. There are exceptions though.

I pursued a girl when I was younger for like 2 years. Went from friend zone, to not talking, to her telling me she would have sex with me every day if she could, to her telling me she hated me and never speak to her again LOL.

So yeah, sometimes women don't know what they want.

Granted, i would never do that again. No chick is worth pursuing for 2 years

you're worth pursuing for 2 years.

[MrSilverback]

you're worth pursuing for 2 years.

swoon! :d

[Punisher1012]

Wow the old lady is really cracking the whip?

Nah just work keeps me a little busy and occupied

[Punisher1012]

So my birthday is coming up on Tuesday and I have no idea what to do. Well I do I just don't want to have to clean up my mess the next week. I should go trash the neighboring town

[OhioStateBucki]

I usually neg on sight for the lock/key analogy. But I never neg anyone ITT.

I saw a guy in Iceland earlier who looked so much like my bestest online friend (he's a Miscer, lives in the US but would husband/10). He caught me checking him out three times. Third time I smiled but sadly to no avail. Ah well. Hot as fuark though. Massive guy, full bearmode, milk chocolate skin.

The lock/key thing exists as a social concept for sure, that's undeniable. Whether it's good or not.

But I think it sticks with some people because it hits a much more primitive chord at a biological level.

Men are more geared toward spreading their seed everywhere, while women must carry the child and seek a male with the best genes and one who can protect them. While we have become a monogamous society - and I myself prefer one awesome girl over new sloots all the time - I think there is a very deeply ingrained subconscious message of "mission accomplished" once you have sex with a woman. So even if you liked her and things went south, you at least got a primitive satisfaction out of it. So it's easier to let go. But woman have the opposite biological impulse - I slept with him so he is potentially a lifetime provider - that's their "mission." Even though on a logical level they just did it for fun and didn't think they'd care. Which is why I think it's easier for a man to be promiscuous and still mentally stable, while it's rare for a promiscuous woman to be stable (rare, not impossible) because she struggles more with it emotionally.

Basically, men have an advantage in that if everything falls apart, we at least have a sort of "victory" so to speak that can make it very easy to walk away if the girl didn't also offer a good personality. Ideally we all have more "missions" than our biological ones, and can supersede those desires in order to gain a long-term benefit out of creating a family if we so choose. But it seems many cannot overcome the biological urges, or simply don't want to.

That's my broscience psychology of it

[MrSilverback]

Nah just work keeps me a little busy and occupied

Life seems tough in the public sector. Especially with all those benefits, paid time off, overtime, etc.

So my birthday is coming up on Tuesday and I have no idea what to do. Well I do I just don't want to have to clean up my mess the next week. I should go trash the neighboring town

Plans?