so what if it's "easy" to you? I'm content with it.
the vast majority spend their college years partying it up, smoking, drinking all the time, gaming, sleeping late, waking up late, dont even lift, suffer from depression, etc. i'm none of those things
you only grow when you come out of your comfort zone, and that's all i've been doing. so for me, its not easy.
for example:
lifting at the begining was hard as hell, i was inconsitent as f0ck and heavy weights took a beating on me mentally. i would come close to barfing when i was bulking. but it was all worth it when i saw progress.
last year i didnt read at all. i couldnt focus, i was agitated and had anxiety most of the time. but i made it a goal and although it was hard to keep on reading, i did it. and i do truly enjoy it now. even though my "peers" view it was a waste of time/nerdy
i do things that are challenging and develop me as a person I WANT to become. its not easy but I do enjoy it.
edit: i had to type that all over again because my interent froze up for a sec
I hate to sound cliche and stupid but you have the mentality of a sheep. consistency is key and many people complain of a shortage of time(includign me) but if you are truly focused on it 24/7 and you want it bad enough it is possible. if i truly wanted to do all the **** he wanted as badly as i could possibly want it, i probably could (and so could you)
coming from an asian background, I was 4 years ahead in maths, and read at a 12th grade level in 7th grade. I know about hard work and dedication in academics, and it just doesnt really appeal to me
it boils down to how bad you want it and if you're consistent enough you can do it. might just be my naive teenage mind saying this. but I've grown and developed more than a lot of my peers by being consistent on what I think would make me a stronger/better person. i've grown beyond my expectations.
so i leave you with this :
maybe sounds stupid and optimistic, but thats all im about positivity and consistency
seems like the general argument of the thread is enjoying life vs working hard (preferabbly something in science)
you guys(including me) are exaggerating on some of the things. you critisize people who want to enjoy life: that they party too hard, drink all the time, smoke, no ambitions. and the others critisize people who work hard to having no life (no social life, etc; miss out)
what I have to say about it is: life is waht you make of it, sounds stupid but its the most simple way i can put it. for me moderation of both is key but I'd say im more on the "enjoy life" side
cliffs:
would you rather spend 5 years living as a lion? or 50 years living as a sheep?
note: i typed all this before and had better ideas but i had to retype it (internet froze) and forgot a lot of it. IDGAF about spelling and grammar cus this is the misc
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