Why does every girl have a rape story(srs)

[bubba289]

Had an ex tell me her rape story once. Years later I found out that this was the exact story detail for detail of how her mom had actually been raped. She just told the same story with her as the focus instead of her mom. The whole thing was a complete lie.

[Midgetkiller]

Next time a girl tells me she got raped, Imma one-up her and tell her I got gangbanged.

[MadeItBro]

dude girls always tell you the stories at the most inconvenient times too

[ZenZoe]

Don't know about the statistics on this but i was almost raped. Luckily was able to fight my way out, scary situation to be in. Hope your gf can get past it OP.

[hfinmyblood]

I feel violated already.

Whoever posts below me is too close for comfort


Brb will have nightmares

[F2.]

I can confirm, every girl I have ever sexed has been "raped". I actually do believe one of them though.

[hundieMachine]

gf got drunk as phuck a few months before we met and passed out and only woke back up to a guy fingering her.

Granted she was with 3 of her friends and this creep was her friends roommate, but seriously, play stupid games win stupid prizes :/.

[yarisdriver86]

in for feels. i work as a security guard and almost every homeless women has a rape story. multiple ones.

[EssexBrah]

Women are attention seekers, don't take anything they say seriously

[PMyougood]

Retarded misc as usual

[ZenZoe]

gf got drunk as phuck a few months before we met and passed out and only woke back up to a guy fingering her.

Granted she was with 3 of her friends and this creep was her friends roommate, but seriously, play stupid games win stupid prizes :/.

Care to share what about my comment offended you ? You forgot to write it in your neg *******.

[TremblingEagle]

I think it's like how every white dude I know has a big-nig story:

"yo bro me and Tommy where just coming out of the 7-11 when all of a sudden this HUUUUUGE black dude comes around the corner and then and then...."

or many black people have the racism out of nowhere story:

"yeah we were just chilling about to go around to the store then you wouldn't believe what this old white mawfuka did!"




part of it may be based in something that really happened but because of cultural expectations and conditioning, you filter all your experience through these stories.

Humans are story making machines our brain natural orders and puts things into context to form the story of ourselves, why we get freaked out when we see someone we haven't seen in sometime unexpectedly or get a call from someone we haven't heard from (I WAS JUST THINKING OF YOU!)

[davesterrr]

Ex gf told me she was raped by this guy once.
Week after we break up i see her liking the guys instagram pictures.
I call her out asking why the fuk she likes the pics of a guy who raped her.
She then tells me, she filed rape cuz her parents didn't approve of the guy but that it never happened and simply had to ''keep the story''
Guy only got a warning or something since they were both under 18 when it happened.
She then fukked him when our relationship was over

Cliffs: Sloots are fukked up.

[hundieMachine]

Care to share what about my comment offended you ? You forgot to write it in your neg *******.

You're probably a dude so...you know. If you were a real girl you'd have 10k+ reps.

[TremblingEagle]

[TLTrooper]

I think it's like how every white dude I know has a big-nig story:

"yo bro me and Tommy where just coming out of the 7-11 when all of a sudden this HUUUUUGE black dude comes around the corner and then and then...."

or many black people have the racism out of nowhere story:

"yeah we were just chilling about to go around to the store then you wouldn't believe what this old white mawfuka did!"




part of it may be based in something that really happened but because of cultural expectations and conditioning, you filter all your experience through these stories.

Humans are story making machines our brain natural orders and puts things into context to form the story of ourselves, why we get freaked out when we see someone we haven't seen in sometime unexpectedly or get a call from someone we haven't heard from (I WAS JUST THINKING OF YOU!)

Great explanation / theory. I srsly be leaf it. I was just thinking today of how people alwayd have a crazy story to tell. I'd rep you but I'm on mobile n I'm too lazy lol.

[strunz]

they don't loser go phuckin dildo ur gay lonely ass

[smvdz]

yup... definately know these feels... ex gf lied to me that she lost her virginity to her ex bf who spiked her alcohol and proceded to rape.....

in reality she is just guilty that she didnt lose her virginity the way she really wanted to.

she also lied to me that she was a virgin and made me wait 2 weeks b4 i cud hit it.... when i finally hit it she made sure that she was on her period so she cud bleed.... trying to make me beilive i took her virginity...

wut a dumb sloot...

[TremblingEagle]

Great explanation / theory. I srsly be leaf it. I was just thinking today of how people alwayd have a crazy story to tell. I'd rep you but I'm on mobile n I'm too lazy lol.

I was doing it to myself today
I saw a dude I was stationed with in the military it was rather random because I almost didn't go in the store I was gonna go into, then I see the guy. All of a sudden my brain started concocting stuff like, "what if God is putting this person in my life to teach me some lesson or fate is making it so I think about when I was in the military?" all kinds of magical BS when the logical truth is we live in a 150K person city and the dude was doing a pickup and delivery job, it's not that freaky to run into him.

[shogun1dog]

damn

[Shysty021]

I know 4 that i messed with said something like this, girl I messes with in high school said she got raped by some spanish dude, girl in college said she was molested by step father, girl in a community college i went to said it too when I started to get physical with her, and then my ex said she got raped by her neighbor.

But for some reason they were all the best fuks I had.

[conceptions]

Well...

Myth: Women often lie about rape or falsely accuse someone of rape.

Fact: Statistical studies indicate false reports make up two percent or less of the reported cases of sexual assault. This figure is approximately the same for other types of crimes. Only one out of 10 rapes are actually reported. Rapes by someone the victim knows are the least likely to be reported.

...

Here are some data collected from a national study of college students:

One in four college women have either been raped or suffered attempted rape.
84 percent of the women who are raped knew their assailants.
57 percent of the rapes occurred on a date.
Women, ages 16-24, have four times higher risk of being raped than any other population group.
One in 12 male students surveyed had committed acts that met the legal definition of rape.
16 percent of male students who had committed rape took part in episodes with more than one attacker's gang rape.
75 percent of male students and 55 percent of female students involved in date rape had been drunk or using drugs.*
33 percent of males surveyed said that they would commit rape if they could escape detection.**
25 percent of men surveyed believed that rape was acceptable if the woman asks the man out, the man pays for the date or the woman goes back to the man's room after the date.<-- strong miscers

http://rwu.edu/campus-life/health-co...-myths-and-fac

Statistically speaking, it seems likely that you would encounter women who have rape stories.

[yougonnaeatthat]

Don't know about the statistics on this but i was almost raped. Luckily was able to fight my way out, scary situation to be in. Hope your gf can get past it OP.

I almost gave a chit, Lisa.

[Humungus]

[OtterManlet]

dont know this feel, gf told me she had an abortion though. not sure if thats better or worse

[Setarcos]

Well...


http://rwu.edu/campus-life/health-co...-myths-and-fac

Statistically speaking, it seems likely that you would encounter women who have rape stories.

See I'm curious how they derived this statistically? How is 'rape' defined, and did all (what I'm assuming survey participants) understand this definition when answering? How many are predicted to lie (or is everyone taken at 100% face?), what's the geographic spread (is this 'survey' clustered around low-economic areas?), what was the methodology in selecting participants? (random vs non-random).

Don't get me wrong - I'm of the belief that it is largely an under-reported phenomena, but because of the largely 'subjective' nature of the injury (coming from a legal perspective - it is the violation of a woman's/man's privacy that is in fact the crime), compared to ones which are more 'objective' such as assault etc, its far harder to substantiate claims at all. Whether substantiation is legitimate or not is irrelevant (aka if 100 people said they were raped, and were raped, but had no way to prove it, the only a certain amount of people may believe it, this is why substantiation is an issue, because empirical method is ingrained in society - thereby requiring 'evidence' for claims, the same comparison can be drawn to offences such as Defamation/Conspiracy). Further I've got to say that as a person meant to be innocent until proven guilty, the 'subjective' nature of rape becomes even more of an issue.

Largely I think it's a socially motivated phenomena, one either has to concede that 'rape' has been accepted by society traditionally and this has changed (for example legally speaking, at least in English common law - a Husband was 'able' to rape his wife without fear of the law), so largely this 'rapish' urge was accepted and kept under the carpet. Given the 'freer' sexuality of the populace, but the fact masculinity remains aggressive sexually it is inevitable that this may overflow into regular society.

Finally this isn't helped by the fact that the tension between 'sexual assault' and a guy having to approach a girl is increasing, and subsequently producing weaker attempts.


Cliffs:
- stats can be manipulated
- legal/social development of civilisation creates tension between masculinity's nature as an individual and society's standards

[Yero91]

Thinking the same thing lately. Seems like every girl i get close to has some type of rape story. Girls will be girls, i guess.

[MainSane]

See I'm curious how they derived this statistically? How is 'rape' defined, and did all (what I'm assuming survey participants) understand this definition when answering? How many are predicted to lie (or is everyone taken at 100% face?), what's the geographic spread (is this 'survey' clustered around low-economic areas?), what was the methodology in selecting participants? (random vs non-random).

Don't get me wrong - I'm of the belief that it is largely an under-reported phenomena, but because of the largely 'subjective' nature of the injury (coming from a legal perspective - it is the violation of a woman's/man's privacy that is in fact the crime), compared to ones which are more 'objective' such as assault etc, its far harder to substantiate claims at all. Whether substantiation is legitimate or not is irrelevant (aka if 100 people said they were raped, and were raped, but had no way to prove it, the only a certain amount of people may believe it, this is why substantiation is an issue, because empirical method is ingrained in society - thereby requiring 'evidence' for claims, the same comparison can be drawn to offences such as Defamation/Conspiracy). Further I've got to say that as a person meant to be innocent until proven guilty, the 'subjective' nature of rape becomes even more of an issue.

Largely I think it's a socially motivated phenomena, one either has to concede that 'rape' has been accepted by society traditionally and this has changed (for example legally speaking, at least in English common law - a Husband was 'able' to rape his wife without fear of the law), so largely this 'rapish' urge was accepted and kept under the carpet. Given the 'freer' sexuality of the populace, but the fact masculinity remains aggressive sexually it is inevitable that this may overflow into regular society.

Finally this isn't helped by the fact that the tension between 'sexual assault' and a guy having to approach a girl is increasing, and subsequently producing weaker attempts.


Cliffs:
- stats can be manipulated
- legal/social development of civilisation creates tension between masculinity's nature as an individual and society's standards

Also,

Well...


http://rwu.edu/campus-life/health-co...-myths-and-fac

Statistically speaking, it seems likely that you would encounter women who have rape stories.

Did you just list an article from a liberal arts university with references from surveys(not statistics)in the 80's(that I can't even check to verify) as indisputable proof that all these women have actually been sexually assaulted?

[AlphaAF]

You can take my gf OP, she always give her consent

[conceptions]

See I'm curious how they derived this statistically? How is 'rape' defined, and did all (what I'm assuming survey participants) understand this definition when answering? How many are predicted to lie (or is everyone taken at 100% face?), what's the geographic spread (is this 'survey' clustered around low-economic areas?), what was the methodology in selecting participants? (random vs non-random).

Don't get me wrong - I'm of the belief that it is largely an under-reported phenomena, but because of the largely 'subjective' nature of the injury (coming from a legal perspective - it is the violation of a woman's/man's privacy that is in fact the crime), compared to ones which are more 'objective' such as assault etc, its far harder to substantiate claims at all. Whether substantiation is legitimate or not is irrelevant (aka if 100 people said they were raped, and were raped, but had no way to prove it, the only a certain amount of people may believe it, this is why substantiation is an issue, because empirical method is ingrained in society - thereby requiring 'evidence' for claims, the same comparison can be drawn to offences such as Defamation/Conspiracy). Further I've got to say that as a person meant to be innocent until proven guilty, the 'subjective' nature of rape becomes even more of an issue.

Largely I think it's a socially motivated phenomena, one either has to concede that 'rape' has been accepted by society traditionally and this has changed (for example legally speaking, at least in English common law - a Husband was 'able' to rape his wife without fear of the law), so largely this 'rapish' urge was accepted and kept under the carpet. Given the 'freer' sexuality of the populace, but the fact masculinity remains aggressive sexually it is inevitable that this may overflow into regular society.

Finally this isn't helped by the fact that the tension between 'sexual assault' and a guy having to approach a girl is increasing, and subsequently producing weaker attempts.


Cliffs:
- stats can be manipulated
- legal/social development of civilisation creates tension between masculinity's nature as an individual and society's standards

The link includes citations to the articles where the stats are found.

The current legal definition (mentioned in the article) is: “the penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim.” How is that subjective?

Not sure where you're going with bolded. It seems like you're saying that it is in man's nature to rape...