If your GF would leave you for a richer/better looking/ famous man...

[Bunpitsu]

I don't worry about it, as I am not a beta *******.

But seriously, I have several 'assets', let's say, that are filled by very, very few men in the same package. If my girlfriend, for whatever reason, wanted to upgrade, she'd have one hell of a difficult time doing so.

[scullin]

There is no loyalty left in the world. This is true for the workplace, love, and the mafia. srs

People used to work at a single company for their entire careers now they jump ship every 2 or 3 years.

Women (or some men) leave at the better opportunity or first sign of hard times. Marriages used to last 40 or 50 + years, now you're doing really well if you last 10.

And the mafia sells each other out to avoid lengthy sentences. Back in the day they'd rather die than be a rat.


brb the only loyalty is a dog and its owner

[PlayTheGameBRAH]

but what if my girlfriend already had plenty of opportunity before me to pick something better looking, richer, better status than me.

brb below average facial aesthetics
brb on that poverty time
brb no degree
brb chitty job
brb working to get everything turned around, but the closest point where things get just a little better will be nearly 4 years away

least i got some sick abs though i guess

Well, do you agree that your girlfriend would almost certainly leave you for Brad Pitt?

Because that's just my argument, taken to its extreme.

Oh and I bet she never had any real opportunity

[syth1230]

I don't worry about it, as I am not a beta *******.

But seriously, I have several 'assets', let's say, that are filled by very, very few men in the same package. If my girlfriend, for whatever reason, wanted to upgrade, she'd have one hell of a difficult time doing so.

Disregard sloots, acquire aesthetics, money, confidence etc.

[PlayTheGameBRAH]

There is no loyalty left in the world. This is true for the workplace, love, and the mafia. srs

People used to work at a single company for their entire careers now they jump ship every 2 or 3 years.

Women (or some men) leave at the better opportunity or first sign of hard times. Marriages used to last 40 or 50 + years, now you're doing really well if you last 10.

And the mafia sells each other out to avoid lengthy sentences. Back in the day they'd rather die than be a rat.

This is true.

However it would've been the same at any time in human history.

If there was a higher reproductive quality partner available you wouldn't be with you GF or you wouldn't have chosen your GF.

Even if he or she liked your personality better, you must realise that personality is a reproductive quality.

[masud]

people will tell you that NAWALT (not all women are like that), people will tell you that sacrifices need to be made in relationships etc.

I say that long-term relationships are anti-human, the only time you should stay with a woman is if you have children with her and this is only until the child has grown enough to be able to function by themselves.

Love between a man and a woman IS fake, the only real love is between blood. Mothers, Fathers, Sisters, Brothers, Sons, Daughters.

You sound like those type of people who will do the exact opposite of the norm to show that you're not part of the norm. Basically a hippie.

[syth1230]

There is no loyalty left in the world. This is true for the workplace, love, and the mafia. srs

People used to work at a single company for their entire careers now they jump ship every 2 or 3 years.

Women (or some men) leave at the better opportunity or first sign of hard times. Marriages used to last 40 or 50 + years, now you're doing really well if you last 10.

And the mafia sells each other out to avoid lengthy sentences. Back in the day they'd rather die than be a rat.


brb the only loyalty is a dog and its owner

we are no more loyal than before, the only reason marriages used to last so long is because women had no choice but to be married or suffer a drastic drop in standard of living.

Now that women can be financially independent marraiges will become more and more irrelevant.

You sound like those type of people who will do the exact opposite of the norm to show that you're not part of the norm. Basically a hippie.

1 v 1 me ***it.

[DeltoidGod]

become the best. srs

[FitnessCPA]

I wouldn't trade my girlfriend for anybody else. Dead serious. I can find other women physically attractive, sure, but I could never imagine myself being in a relationship with anybody else but my girlfriend.

I wouldn't trade my mom or dad or brother for anybody else, and I feel the same way about my girlfriend.

[Jayczzz]

That's why we should work hard and crush any goals we want to accomplish. If someone rejects or trades you off, it should be because of stuff you can't control or because she's stupid.

Work hard, play hard.

[lovetomacwife]

true the supposed "found my soul mate" is completely irrelevant now a days

The belief could be a self-fulfilling prophecy. I think true love exists, as do soul mates - but you both have to believe in it, and you both have to want it. I've found both and I wouldn't leave my husband for the hottest man in the world.

[Kaybee93]

and most men would leave their wives for a 20 year old skinny blonde girl. It is what it is. People are always looking to upgrade if they see an opportunity.

Cold harsh world brah, damn

[PlayTheGameBRAH]

You sound like those type of people who will do the exact opposite of the norm to show that you're not part of the norm. Basically a hippie.

Apart from the fact that he is correct.

[wiles454]

Love doesn't exist in the concept that people describe it as. Love is selfish and self serving in the real world. We only love people because of what we can gain from them.

Wrong. I do things for my gf and expect nothing in return. Love is about serving the other person.

[d3lf]

What Disney movie told you this?

Since when was love not an incredibly strong reaction by chemicals in your brain which were caused in the first place by being attracted to someone with a high reproductive value?

lmao. good luck with your unsuccessful relationship goals of 2013



Love is about compassion and putting someone else's needs over your own. OP you're talking about ordinary love, which I'm sure you'll have the pleasure of never escaping

http://viewonbuddhism.org/attachment.html

[PlayTheGameBRAH]

become the best. srs

You will never be better than Brad Pitt or Christiano Ronaldo in your life.

Invest in something more rewarding than that brah.

[WhiteKnight4U]

IDK
I've been happy wih every girl I've been with.
Been approached by girls who are prettier, had other girls make me laugh etc but it's nbd cause I know I'm going home to someone who makes me happy

cliffs: never had that problem

[PlayTheGameBRAH]

I wouldn't trade my girlfriend for anybody else. Dead serious. I can find other women physically attractive, sure, but I could never imagine myself being in a relationship with anybody else but my girlfriend.

I wouldn't trade my mom or dad or brother for anybody else, and I feel the same way about my girlfriend.

Ok. But if before you decided to start dating her, had a 10/10 told you she likes you, you would've chose her over your current GF.

Meaning that the entire premise of your relationship is somewhat fake.

[crowe15]

Since when was love not an incredibly strong reaction by chemicals in your brain which were caused in the first place by being attracted to someone with a high reproductive value?

In psychology they would describe what you just said as a/the biological perspective of love.

Thats attraction, I feel an attraction to them because the primitive parts of my subconscious identify physical qualities that would make her a good mate for reproduction and sex. I.E large breasts, physical fitness, appealing facial aesthetics, good health, muscular physique, other appealing sexual features.

But you can't love someone if they back stab you, hurt you, lie to you, cheat on you, disrespect you etc. That would generate the opposite of love, hate.

Love comes from someone that cares about you, is honest, smart, intelligent, shares your interest, is like you, similar to you, both of you enjoy doing things together, both of you have strong empathy and compassion for each other. Its seeing someone, not as a stranger, but as family.

[LeoDaVinci]

I wouldn't leave mine for any woman, famous / rich / model, whatever. And if I believed she would, I'd leave her first and good riddance. I could never be the nan a woman settled for, nor could I be second place even to celebrity. Fuk dat.

Good thread topic, OP. (srs)

[PlayTheGameBRAH]

lmao. good luck with your unsuccessful relationship goals of 2013



Love is about compassion and putting someone else's needs over your own. OP you're talking about ordinary love, which I'm sure you'll have the pleasure of never escaping

http://viewonbuddhism.org/attachment.html

I take a scientific view, not some emotional, illogical view.

[d3lf]

I take a scientific view, not some emotional, illogical view.

show me where I'm being illogical. sounds pretty straightforward to me:


- "Love with attachment consists of waves of emotion, usually creating invisible iron chains." Ordinary love tends to create bonds that may turn very unpleasant.
- Ordinary love is based on selfishness: attraction to others because they help us.
- Ordinary love is often based on opinions like beauty and status, which may be quite irrelevant or even obstacles for being able to live happily together with the person.
- Exaggeration and projection are the main reasons that ordinary love leads to disappointments


- Attachment based on selfishness: if you are good to me, I am good to you. Altruistic love is based on equanimity: one realises that others are like me and want happiness. It is wishing others to be happy just because they exist.

[Ampedlift]

You will never be better than Brad Pitt or Christiano Ronaldo in your life.

Invest in something more rewarding than that brah.

Why the fk not?

I always hated when people said chit like this. They are human. So are you. It's not easy, but you can.

[FitnessCPA]

Ok. But if before you decides to start dating her, had a 10/10 told you she like you, you would've chose her over your current GF.

Meaning that the entire premise of your relationship is somewhat fake.

There are over 3 billion women on this planet. That means that if anybody but the hottest one showed any interest, the premise of my relationship is fake.

I think that's what you're saying, and therefore saying that all relationships are a farce.

On a side note, it's not all about looks. I don't care if a 10/10 showed interest, if I couldn't coexist with her then it's pointless. Sure it'd be fun to fuk for a while but over time this relationship would suck.

So unless I get the one girl on Earth with the best combination of looks, personality, frugality, and whatever else my parameters are, then my relationship is a farce.

[PlayTheGameBRAH]

I wouldn't leave mine for any woman, famous / rich / model, whatever. And if I believed she would, I'd leave her first and good riddance. I could never be the nan a woman settled for, nor could I be second place even to celebrity. Fuk dat.

Good thread topic, OP. (srs)

I don't want to sound like I'm attacking you, but if when you and your GF started dating an ultra high status male also asked her out, she wouldn't have picked you.

There's just no way. Out of all the men with the combination of good looks, riches and good personalities who are famous, there would have been at least one (and likely tens of thousands) she would've picked over you.

It's a harsh reality. But it's true.

[SkylineCrash]

This is true.

However it would've been the same at any time in human history.

If there was a higher reproductive quality partner available you wouldn't be with you GF or you wouldn't have chosen your GF.

Even if he or she liked your personality better, you must realise that personality is a reproductive quality.

personality is not a reproductive quality. personality is just an arbitrary thing humans made up because of how advanced we are compared to other species. we basically have nothing better to do other than make chit up since its so easy for us to survive.

[scullin]

we are no more loyal than before, the only reason marriages used to last so long is because women had no choice but to be married or suffer a drastic drop in standard of living.

Now that women can be financially independent marraiges will become more and more irrelevant.



1 v 1 me ***it.

Disagree. My parents have been married some 46 years and counting. I've been married about 10 and getting divorced. My mother could have made at least as much money as my wife makes, probably more.

[PlayTheGameBRAH]

Why the fk not?

I always hated when people said chit like this. They are human. So are you. It's not easy, but you can.

Because they were born with the genetics and had the luck.

You can't have Brad Pitts facial structure or luck or Ronaldos incredible athletic genetic ability.

[FitnessCPA]

OP, the big part you keep leaving out is that maybe in the initial selection, people would have chosen somebody else, but if those two people don't click, then it wouldn't work and that relationship wouldn't last.

[d3lf]

op why you trying to see yourself through everyone else's eyes?

reality is not objective, and it's a logical fallacy to assume that your past experiences apply to everyone else

in YOUR experience, bishes leave for "better men"

So, logically, every single girl in the world will do this to every single man?

You != everyone


drop your ego, man.. your life will be much more fulfilling without it



Maybe there are actually people out there who, *GASP* see people for who they are beneath the surface