GF might be going on holiday with whore friend... (srs replies please)

[holysht]

Help Misc my mind is full of fcuk right now, here's the situation...

This is first year with gf, she goes on holiday at Christmas time every year.

Gf has two close friends, one is good moral etc and the other is a complete and utter whore. The good friend can't go this year because she's going with her boyfriend so that leaves gf and whore.

I cant afford to go.

Famous last words but I don't thino gf would actually do anything but 100% her friend will be trying to fcuk strangers at every opportunity. The friends of the guy the whore is getting with will obviously try it on with gf or whore will go off and leave gf on own or whore will bring men back to hotelection and there will be naked fkn men in the same room as gf... I'm cringing so hard at all of those prospects...

So ****ing angry, feel incredibly disrespected by the fact that she'd even contemplate this. The only thing in her defense is that she loves her holidays and she really wants to go but I can't.

Srsly feel like breaking up with her if ahes actually being serious... I wouldn't mind if it was her other friend but she knows how I feel about her whore friend...

Am I being irrational misc?

[poolshark472]

Break up with her, unless of you course you seriously believe she'd be okay with you going on a vacation with a guy friend who is a known player, just the two of you, where girls will be coming and going from the hotel room you're sharing with fukking going on the same room as you.

[FU3L]

Yeah, this probably won't end well. Have you told her how you feel about her going? If you did and she's still adamant about going away, I have some bad newz..

[novawildcat25]

you're being totally rational, i heard some study said women are 80-90% more likely to cheat while one holiday without their man. not sure if those statistics are accurate, but there's definitely a HUGE possibility.

it's not a certainty, but it's pretty likely she will cheat, especially if she is with her sloot friend, so give her an ultimatum. you might have to break up, but so be it. at least you won't be getting cheated on, doing nothing, while she is having a grand ole time.

[shqiptare]

Break up with her, unless of you course you seriously believe she'd be okay with you going on a vacation with a guy friend who is a known player, just the two of you, where girls will be coming and going from the hotel room you're sharing with fukking going on the same room as you.

^^ I would present that point to her.

From my point of view if I was digging a dude it wouldn't matter what was going on with my whore friend..I would also tell a dude to kick rocks if he didn't have enough money to go on a vacation and he didn't want me to go. lol
Just comes down to whether or not you trust her..
but where are they going? Cancun or PCB or some other singles/sloot friendly location makes it more understandable to have a problem with it

[Alphatraz24]

Slooty friends are a nightmare for boyfriends srs.



They don't want to be the only one waxing poles in the parking lot so they convince their other friends to do the same.

[maxnas]

^^ I would present that point to her.

This

[Apeus]

So you haven't yet been with her a year, and she goes on a holiday around every Christmas.

I wouldn't say you should break up with her just because she plans on taking this vacation.

The fact that you don't have enough trust in her though, could definitely be a reason to break off the relationship.

[shqiptare]

I doubt she would be cool with it if the tables were turned.

[ThatKindaGuy]

If you don't trust her, break it off. But don't do it because she goes on vacation and your insecurities are flaring up.

Almost every girl has that whore-ish friend that boyfriends don't like her to be we with. What you gonna do with the next gf? Break up again? And again? And again?

[HayZues Christi]

why would you want to date somebody you do not trust in the first place?

If you don't trust her, then break up with her regardless of her vacation. If you trust her, then you should have no issue. If she violates that trust while on her vacation, then dump her ass. You wont lose **** but a cheating whore.


lol @ all the people saying she should break her holiday tradition because she has an insecure bf who doesn't trust her friend... You people who act like somebody should no longer live for themselves at all when they get into a relationship are ridiculous.

[kickblake]

I think you're being irrational. In all the trips to Vegas with my player friends, I've never felt once like I wanted to be in the room while they were smanging randos............let alone join in.


That kind of stuff happens in porn, not real life.

[PervedOut]

Slooty friends are a nightmare for boyfriends srs.



They don't want to be the only one waxing poles in the parking lot so they convince their other friends to do the same.

Sadly this.

Dont expect this to end well

[maxnas]

I doubt she would be cool with it if the tables were turned.

This again & coming from a woman... smart girl, listen up OP.

[Manc33]

Go to Amsterdam for Christmas OP.

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[mgillette1]

^^ I would present that point to her.

From my point of view if I was digging a dude it wouldn't matter what was going on with my whore friend..I would also tell a dude to kick rocks if he didn't have enough money to go on a vacation and he didn't want me to go. lol
Just comes down to whether or not you trust her..
but where are they going? Cancun or PCB or some other singles/sloot friendly location makes it more understandable to have a problem with it

Lol @ pcb. The feels..

[jeffl1980]

but it's pretty likely she will cheat.

Beta ***got with trust issues I'm assuming?

[mgillette1]

It depends on if she invited you OP. If she invited you then you can't blame her for still going. You can't afford to go but that doesnt mean she cant.

[Boffothe]

I wouldn't exactly be doing the Happy Happy Joy Joy dance but I wouldn't date a girl I didn't trust supremely, even in tempting situations.

[jeffl1980]

It depends on if she invited you OP. If she invited you then you can't blame her for still going. You can't afford to go but that doesnt mean she cant.

Very good point...reps

[ghettocandyman]

^^ I would present that point to her.

From my point of view if I was digging a dude it wouldn't matter what was going on with my whore friend..I would also tell a dude to kick rocks if he didn't have enough money to go on a vacation and he didn't want me to go. lol
Just comes down to whether or not you trust her..
but where are they going? Cancun or PCB or some other singles/sloot friendly location makes it more understandable to have a problem with it

Who let you out of the kitchen?

[Ronnie87]

Lol @ guys letting their GFs go on holiday without them. Oh yeah I'm sure your girl is gonna turn down that guy she fancies while shes drunk and her boyfriend is in a different country

[StfuandLiftPHAG]

I'll go OP, ill phuck sloot friend and keep surveillance on gf, srs.

[g152013zicam]

She will cheat, it happens all the time. Girls for some reason do not have will power to say no to their best friends/ party friends. The whore friends always ends up wanting her to have fun with them, that's when the cheating starts. Ive seen whore girls purposely try to get their girl friends to start cheating when they are out with them so they can all do the same thing and have fun.... this sh*t has been going on for many years now.

[shqiptare]

Who let you out of the kitchen?

But im done cookingggg /whine

[Aviex]

I think you're being irrational. In all the trips to Vegas with my player friends, I've never felt once like I wanted to be in the room while they were smanging randos............let alone join in.


That kind of stuff happens in porn, not real life.

Dude your a dude. Sloots gonna sloot.

[Xinroth]

Simply ask her;


"Are you okay with me going on a holiday with one of my manwhore friends while sharing a room?"

[TheJizzler]

Let her go. If you're skeptical of her morals and willpower, you're a dumbass for being in a relationship with her. Standards.




Slooty friends are relationship poison for girls who lack conviction, though. It's like a cycle

- Slooty girl starts hitting up casual acquaintance: 'OMG the single life is soooo fun!!! Come out drinking with me!!!'

- girl dumps boyfriend and goes out drinking

- slooty friend runs through a bunch of guys, gets boyfriend and drops friend

- girl now lonely. tries getting boyfriend from party crowd. Gets pumped 'n' dumped a lot. Hits up other friend. Tells her that the single life is fun and she needs a drinking buddy.


Meanwhile the slooty one is back on the market because she can't do relationships.

[SimmerDownBrah]

When you met her, how long did it take for you to get into her pantses? Because if she's like that for you, she's like that for everyone.

Also OP, if she loves you, she won't do dat shiet.

[DasPhilosopher]

in on first page.. but, she will mpst likey cheat... end it before she elaves