Cliffs, no need for long story
-gf has tumor on pituitary gland
-zero sex drive, doesn't get horny. Vagina dried up
-cliffs of pituitary tumor
-secretes massive amounts of prolactin which make her body think she's beginning/ending stages of pregnancy which cause the body to not want sex
-body in menopausal stat
-haven't had sex with 9/10 gf in six months because of it
-she feels terrible and cries all the time about how she can't give me sex because it hurts her vagina/she bleeds if we have sex
Anyone know this feel or have advice
Basically I just want someone to talk to outside irl about this, gf is amazing and I love her and I'm sticking through it because she's not a sloot and my personal 10/10
Anyone got any advice or anything to help me get through this?
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10-23-2013, 10:52 PM #1
Gf with tumor no sex, need advice (NO PICS) (need someone to help me)
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10-23-2013, 10:56 PM #9
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OP, do you wanna be that guy or not? You decide.
Personally, I'd break up with her. If you can get a 9/10, you can get another one that you can actually phuck.
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10-23-2013, 10:57 PM #13
Prolactin blocks gonadotropin which contributes to horniness levels. She's basically not turned on at all.
Hope she's alright with that tumor brah. Before it starts compressing her sella turcica and causing bitemporal hemianopsia
OP has she taken anything like bromocriptine?Canadian American dual citizen
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10-23-2013, 10:59 PM #14
Good man. I respect you for this.
Just make sure you have sh!T going on in your life..
I have only had a few major major relationships in my life, and both of them went downhill/eventually ended within 1-2 months of some event involving me becoming supplicant or putting the girl too much before me.
In other words, I recommend you support her through this but don't become a pushover - I know she has cancer so that seems really harsh but hopefully you understand what I mean. It seems to me that when you are the most supportive of women and when you dedicate your lives to them is when they throw it in your face in the cruelest way possible
Stay safe, OP
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10-23-2013, 11:00 PM #15
Yeah tried it all, lube doesn't help because she doesn't have a sex drive so sex feels like "taboo" or wrong mentally for her. Plus the tumor caused her weight gain so her mental stated got destroyed by that. She feels terrible when giving bjs to me cause she wants to have sex with me but her body doesn't want it, if that makes sense. Sorry idk how to explain but basically the feeling you get after you fap to pron is what she constantly feels if I try to feel her up or if she gives me a bj, it's a unwinnable situation
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10-23-2013, 11:04 PM #18
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How do you know she's not a sloot if she has no sex drive?
Let's pretend she never had this issue. Within the past 9 months she may have cheated on you.“Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will.” - Mahatma Gandhi.
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10-23-2013, 11:05 PM #19
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10-23-2013, 11:05 PM #20
The doctor prescribed medicine which started to work for a week but then the tumor got used to it, and she's allergic to latex/silicone when we did have sex we only could use water base lube. It's a mental thing for her so like giving her massages, cooking her food or other **** that would make a normal girl wet her pants has no effect on her cause of the tumor. I am sticking with her but after six months I needed an outlet and I thank the misc for providing me with that. Thank you brahs
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10-23-2013, 11:05 PM #21
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my prolactin is like 18 on a scale where 1-17 is normal range though
my test is average and sex drive is also
didn't really do anything except give me pubertal gyno before
edit: I'm actually not sure if the doc said I have a tiny benign pituitary tumor or she was going to check if I had one. I should probably aware myself.Last edited by jazi; 10-23-2013 at 11:10 PM.
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10-23-2013, 11:07 PM #25
I live with her/we do everything together except when she's in class and I'm at the gym, trust me she's no sloot. She's sleeping next to me atm, I go to every doctor appointment with her etc.
Edit- she had her "slooting phase" freshmen year of college, she told me all about it and tells me everything and shows me when random dudes will text her and she doesn't respond. One thing I learned is every girl has a slooting phase just catch the one that has a short one or is over it.
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10-23-2013, 11:08 PM #26
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