Hey xxxx. Its xxxxxx. Youve been on my mind a lot lately and I think its because Ive been waiting to say this to you: I am soooo unbelievably sorry for the way I acted and for what I put you through the last month or so that we were together. I had absolutely no right to act or treat you that way and I will be forever regretful of the decisions I made during that time. I know a text message seems kind of lame but I didnt think youd accept a call from me and I also couldnt remember your house address number, otherwise I was set on writing you a letter. Either way, xxxx, I need you to know how incredibly sorry I am for the things I did to you. I know how well you treated me and would have treated me, had I given you the chance. But I screwed up. So badly, I know I will never deserve to be with you again but I need you to know that I do love and care about you so much, despite what I might have shown the last time we spoke.. And, honestly, whatever girl is so lucky to end up with you, I sincerely hope she treats you as good as you deserve to be treated. Be good, stay good. xoxo
So basically this girl just cut me off after being together for 5 months and I found out after I left and went out to sea that she had ended up relapsing on drugs and went back to her scumbag ex boyfriend who ended up going to jail for a long time. She is now clean and i can sense she is regretting everything she did. We were on and off for 6 years but never made it official until that time. I do love this girl still and it is very hard to read this and not want to respond to her. Give me some help on how I should respond or not respond or what I should do.
No pics so don't ask, the only ones I have are not PG and she does not have a ********. Thank you all for any serious answers.
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10-14-2013, 08:56 PM #1Registered User
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So my ex just texted me this.......How should I reply/not reply?
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10-14-2013, 08:57 PM #2Renegade
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Who is this?
I was gonna rip his heart out. I'm the best ever. I'm the most brutal and vicious, and most ruthless champion there has ever been. There's no one can stop me. Lennox is a conqueror? No! I'm Alexander, he's no Alexander. I'm the best ever
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10-14-2013, 08:57 PM #3Lurking since 89
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look here you dumb broad, I have a fukking mad crush on you, and I think we need to get together asap. Srs, I've felt like this for a while, I'm not surprised you never noticed, your to busy doing your fukkin hair and makeup, listenin to Ke$ha n shiit.
Hit me back when you get this and let me know what you think.
Peace, bitch
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10-14-2013, 08:57 PM #4Registered User
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'u want sum fuk?'
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10-14-2013, 08:58 PM #5Registered User
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move on, even if you get back together with her... that dent will always remain.
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10-14-2013, 08:59 PM #6
So she's a druggie who dumped you for her convict ex?
Delete her.
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10-14-2013, 09:00 PM #7
Just say its all good dw about it
and move on.
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10-14-2013, 09:00 PM #8Registered User
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no contact
inb4 contact on no contact
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10-14-2013, 09:00 PM #9Registered User
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I have already moved on. I want to hit her where it hurts tho. I want her to know that I have moved on and that im not looking back and that she is going to have to prove so much to me for me to even talk. I just dont know how to say that in a dominate way.Originally Posted by Maz911
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10-14-2013, 09:01 PM #10Duke of New York
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^^^ This.Originally Posted by JonnyCasino
Srs, though, it sounds like she might have BPD or something. Erratic behavior, periods of lucidity, shows remorse, self-medicating. Don't be mean to her, just tell her you appreciate the message and that you're glad she's doing better... but keep your D out of her.Nah, fukk that. I’m not doing that.
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10-14-2013, 09:01 PM #11Registered User
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this would crush her soul lolOriginally Posted by JonnyCasino
but either this or no response at all OP, choice is yours
or just a simple, "apology accepted" and nothing else
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10-14-2013, 09:01 PM #12Registered User
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Exactly, move on in a way of responding back with "no****sgivin" response but not too rude.Originally Posted by HighTide11
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10-14-2013, 09:02 PM #13Registered User
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Shes doin the 12 step program.
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10-14-2013, 09:02 PM #14Registered User
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I would have done this but she stated at the beginning...Hey xxxx its xxxxxxx.Originally Posted by JonnyCasino
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10-14-2013, 09:03 PM #15unregistered user
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Don't reply.
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10-14-2013, 09:03 PM #16Registered User
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Reply with: 'this has been thrilling Ruth'
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10-14-2013, 09:04 PM #17NEEEEIGHHHHHH
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"Sorry. This number is unavailable. A fee of $5.00 will be charged to your (x) account for any future text messages. Thank you for using (x), Goodbye!"
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10-14-2013, 09:04 PM #18Registered User
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This is my first instinct. It's going to be hard but I want her to know I got the message and dont give a ****.Originally Posted by bertishere
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10-14-2013, 09:04 PM #19Registered User
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The Misc will just say be alpha and don't reply and it will be better in the long run. But it's up to you really. If you think you'll be better off not replying, don't reply. If you think replying is the best way to go, then go for it. But don't take the misc's advice, go with your gut. If you want to reply just to start drama it's probably best to leave it alone. If you know you should leave it alone but just have a temptation, just ignore it and move on to something else. Stay safe tho brah
Edit: Just saw above post. Best way to show that you don't give a **** is to just not reply.
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10-14-2013, 09:05 PM #20🇷🇺🇧🇾🇵🇸
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this.Originally Posted by ChorizoFit
Make Europe Germany Again
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10-14-2013, 09:05 PM #21Black Judas
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Since she basically says she fuqed up and you deserve better, try just saying " I agree"
Then cut contact
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10-14-2013, 09:05 PM #22Fitness Anarchist
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maybe reply "lol ok" and then no further contact?
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10-14-2013, 09:05 PM #23R[̲̅ə̲̅٨̲̅٥̲̅٦̲̅]ution
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Reply with this
Honestly, that's what I call a cool story bro. Such a riveting tale, I honestly copy and pasted it to word, saved on my hard drive, backed it up on a jump drive, drove to the bank, put the jump drive in the safe deposit box, and will leave it there until my kids turn about 12 (when they can actually state their age, and ask what it is I'm showing them), when I will pick it up, put it in an old USB drive reader and relay this cool story to them and tell them, "kids, this is what a cool story should look and sound like...not like the stories your generation tells.
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10-14-2013, 09:05 PM #24Registered User
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"k"
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Neg on site for reddit and tiktok threads dedsrs
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10-14-2013, 09:05 PM #25Banned
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Get out off there OPie, seriously. Get out now and stay out. Drug abusers suck people dry and use and abuse, they're selfish and have no thoughts or concerns for other people. She may have had a moment of clarity, but it will be some temporary. You can try help her through it, but never, NEVER GF one or wife one, it just turns to sh!t. I've seen it plenty of times, just remain her friend, nothing mores, nothing less. Don't be stupid OPie.
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10-14-2013, 09:07 PM #26Kobe The GOATBE
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Don't say anything. Don't be a pussy.
"ERMUHGAWD Crew"
"ERMUHGAW LOL...."
"Oh you, ERMUHGAWD!"
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10-14-2013, 09:07 PM #27Registered User
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this.Originally Posted by ChorizoFit
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10-14-2013, 09:08 PM #28Registered User
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I want to just say one thing and leave her wanting me to say something more but im not gonna give it to her. I just dont know what to say.
"Its all good, dont worry about it. Hope all is well." seems like the mature thing to say
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10-14-2013, 09:08 PM #29Registered User
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don't reply bro...but hey, we've been saying this for years and you *******s OP still reply so I guess you will too.
always pick #4
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10-14-2013, 09:08 PM #30
Tell her, yeah its alright. We weren't meant to be. Good luck.
or yeah its all good, hope you're doing well too. Take care.
No use being all pissed off or replying 'who's this'? It just shows how mad you are and how much it affected you. Stop being mad and let go.
Also if you take her back she's gonna dump you again, that confused byutch doesnt care about you, I know 6 years is a long time but sloots gonna sloot brah you know it, so enjoy while it lasts and if it doesn't move ahead and enjoy new things in life.
Peace brother. Lel
or yeah its all good, hope you're doing well too. Take care.
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