I spent my entire summer off in that hellhole of a city and am glad to be back in the U.S. Any man who has lived here for extended period of time and is honest with himself as well as experienced other cities of Canada and the world will find my assessment of Toronto accurate.
Firstly, I was born and raised in Toronto. I had a fairly middle upper class lifestyle and was content with my life for the most part. Had the top grades, was very active in recreational sports (hockey, basketball, soccer, etc), and had a great group of friends. Then around high school, things started to change. People started to become more insular, unfriendly, and started to form their various cliques usually based on their ethnic group/religion. It's natural for people to self-segregate, but usually they tend to be friendly to other people not apart of their "group" if they share things in common/have similar interests. But in Toronto, if you're not apart of someone's insular and limited social circle, you're a dangerous individual who should be avoided at all costs. Given nearly everyone has this mindset, it's almost impossible to make longstanding friendships with people outside of those you knew since middle school. If you're new to this city, I hope you like the loner lifestyle because you better get used to it fast. It's almost impossible to meet new people for the sole purpose of getting to know them. In Toronto, that type of behavior is seen as "unprofessional", "a waste of time", and you may even be perceived as low class because no professional man would ever waste his time on such "frivolous pursuits".
Secondly, the women are absolutely cold and ruthless. Growing up, I was led to believe I was an ugly guy who would never get any. Why? Because girls never made eye contact, always avoided me physically, and would generally look very unapproachable. These weren't just the typical 8s or 9s with major egos. There was mostly 4s and 5s who are acting like this. It wasn't until I went to the U.S for university that I realized that I'm a relatively decent looking guy (7/10 according to the misc). Girls were a lot more warm, receptive, and appreciative and nothing like the stone-cold gorgons of Toronto. And they were attractive too. I honestly couldn't believe it, and I still really don't understand it.
I'll go into more reasons in future posts so this post doesn't become a wall-of-text (assuming it isn't already), but these are the main problems.
If you want other legitimate experiences that further prove this post:
15 reasons why Toronto is the worst city in North America for men
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