Been reading how to win friends and influence people.
first thing it says is that have the genuine desire to meet and talk to people.
I honestly could care less about anyone else. It's not because I hate them, its just I'm not interested in what you have to say or what you are doing with your life.
Like oh hows school? what's your major? what do you do at your job?
all these small talk phrases piss me off because I'd rather not talk to you at all.
to be honest, I'd be more interested in playing with a dog than another person.