Help please misc (found out girlfriend cheated the day we started a euro trip)

[iBROmar]

honestly you are the man for just leaving her like that. some guys would've stuck around. Don't contact her at all costs and enjoy your damn trip, you deserve it.

[Hobbsyy]

Bro you have 3 months in europe.. just go do whatever the f*ck you want, stay at hostels, meet people and have heaps of fun!!

You won't even remember her in a week! Best breakup scenario ever.

Whatever you do don't be a ******* and let her ruin your trip or go back home!

[Ownejj]

alpha move on your part OP gj, fuarkin sucks though brah, we're all gonna make it, enjoy your holiday man

[placrosse]

Forget her OP srs. I know exactly what you're feeling. Cancel the hotel room you got for both of you and get another for yourself and this new girl Nina. You're in italy dude. Have a great time and forget her. Cut all contact, don't answer her texts or anything. No matter how badly you want to. Don't. She's a sloot. You will find a girl one day that will be able to be straightforward with you and where they won't act shady. trust me dude. get out of there asap. She knew she was doing something wrong which is why she left the name unmarked.

[amm165]

Good job on leaving her...but breaking her phone, pretty beta

In b4 she dies before she makes it home. This is about to be a movie

[sketchyaf]

I always wanted to hit up Prague. The guy I knew that went there had an awesome time there, and it was cheap too.

[eldermisc]

welcome to life son........this is one of many ****overs......enjoy the ride....and exit to the left 3monthslaughing.jpeg

[Brahsohard]

Op you did the right thing. Please keep us updated on your poon-slaying vacation. Stay safe.

[muximus]

Where are the juicy pics?? PM brah

[musD]

bang her mom. that'll show her

[ironeagle145]

You *******, you shouldve not invited her in the first place. Duncan is not the *******, duncan was laying pipe, while you were spending tons of money on a bitch that you've known for three months. What you should've done is went yourself, saved the money that you spent on her, bought a hooker in Vienna and had a ball.

I give it too you for leaving her, but you better phuck some European strange or I will find you and rape you myself *******.

[thtguy22]

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[ne12o]

Alone in a foreign country without a phone. Lol.. i hope she had some money on her

[Charnell]

Ain't that about a bitch...sorry jefe

[Ratfish]

did you fukk Nina or what?

[Ted1122]

Sorry to hear that chit brah. Had a similar experience, left a girl stranded at a party after I found her blowing some dude. She had an interview in the am that she missed. It tore me up pretty good but it was my drive for getting in shape for a long time. Just build off it man.

[QuickNutkus]

Sloots gonna sloot.

Can't ignore those red flags. You just can't do it.

[J1n]

fukin sloots man.... sorry OP.

[ajctennis]

Dude, you are in europe. You should be glad you found out at the beginning of the trip. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BTW0GqiQew0

[ANumber1]

bang her mom. that'll show her

This. She sounds vulnerable and sympathetic. Do it, Opie.

[MusicalHam]

Good move leaving the sloot there.
I'll be in vienna in like a month, if she turns into a prostitute to get home Ill bang her good for you.

[ajctennis]

I think there's some other miscer in Vienna right now if you search the "We're going to europe this summer" bodybuilding thread. Live it up

[Redis]

Might sound cheesy, OP, but I have a feeling you're on a incredible, life-changing adventure. That bitch had to be out of the picture first.

[anonymous]

I wouldn't have smashed her phone in a foreign country, that might come back at you. But other than that sounds like the break up I had once. Found out my GF who had said she loved me, etc. Was dating another guy for well over a month before I finally found out.

Don't ever talk to her again, trust me it will tear her up if she ever cared about you (if not it doesn't matter anyway). I messed that part up and went full beta for a week after I found out(also a few other times, sadly) until I snapped out of it. Just stay strong and ignore her no matter what. Time will make you feel better and will make it burn in her if you ignore her.

Edit- forgot you are in a foreign country. **** that, live it up then OP. Forget about her, she is trash that doesn't deserve you. Have as much fun as you possibly can, especially in a foreign country.

[Robochrist]

might i suggest a trip to bratislava?

[aestheticmiscer]

Gjdm if I lived there I would join and travel Europe with you in a snap.

Seriously though, this looks like something you'd get out of a movie.

Guy finds perfect gf
They go to Europe
Find out she's a sloot
They separate while in Europe
Guy travels Europe by himself meets interesting people, bums , CEOs , locals,
Everything goes better than expected
End scene OP and his ex meet up at a club.
Ex gf sees OP hanging out with celebs he meets and group full of sloots, ex is just hanging out with girls .
OP wins

[Brahsohard]

Gjdm if I lived there I would join and travel Europe with you in a snap.

Seriously though, this looks like something you'd get out of a movie.

Guy finds perfect gf
They go to Europe
Find out she's a sloot
They separate while in Europe
Guy travels Europe by himself meets interesting people, bums , CEOs , locals,
Everything goes better than expected
End scene OP and his ex meet up at a club.
Ex gf sees OP hanging out with celebs he meets and group full of sloots, ex is just hanging out with girls .
OP wins

Lmao I really hope this happens.

In b4 Lukens The Movie.

[Quibble]

I'm mightily drunk in Vienna as I write this, so keep this in mind when requesting pics and or cliffs, my misc brethren.

I'd been dating this girl named Lauren for 3 months up until yesterday. The seemingly great girl - super nerdy, the kind who played fallout, skyrim, made me sandwiches, blowjobs on demand. The perfect girl, in my humble opinion. And, for many of you, I suspect even that basic criteria and description would be a huge bonus.

Everything was going great. Despite only having dated for 3 months, I decided inviting her on a euro-trip was a great idea. I thought I'd analyzed and scanned for any red flags - past relationships, honesty, family problems, etc. etc. Two things stood out. Her family issues (especially in telling the truth to her father, who it turns out was a horrible role model and cheated on her mother), and in regards to her shockingly high number of "guy friends". Despite this, she was a seemingly very socially awkward girl, the sort who didn't foster guy friends for the attention and slootiness factor, but rather for actual sincere friendship.

One guy in particular, a guy named "Duncan", was an issue. He'd text and text her over the course of the summer, and, from what I witnessed, she'd ignore him. Skype, text, e-mail, etc. She wouldn't respond. Keep in mind, we'd both discussed our dating pasts. We both said we'd only slept with a few other people (2 each, to be exact).

Fast forward to yesterday. 9/3/2013. We've finally landed in Vienna from the JFK and Frankfurt airports. Finally, after a month of preparing and separation, united. Kissy, flirty, happy. Both authentically in love. But she pulls out her phone...an otherwise innocent meaningless gesture. I, in my natural curiosity, peek a glance.

It's Duncan. Except the number is unmarked - simply a string of numbers rather than a name. However, I can tell, just from the language, that it's Duncan. Something pathetic and weepy about "I miss you so much - it was great to see you, please text me when you can".

Naturally, and at this point, without proof of who it was, I confront her. She says its some guy named Sean (who she'd previously mentioned had moved to Oklahoma). I say if that's the case, show me the text. We're on a train to Vienna from the airport, and she says she'll discuss it with me once we arrive at the hotel. I nod, but don't consent. I say I want to know, and that I hate her acting shady.

As soon as the two of us arrive at the Vienna central station, I confront her. I demand she shows me her phone and spill the beans - who is it, why is the number unmarked, and why is this guy sending such a weepy message? She refuses to show me. I instead opt to take her phone from her pocket and look at it, at which point she cries and begs I don't. Upon opening the text, I see the phrases "I love you Duncan, I'm so glad you still care about me" and all this other bull****. One particular phrase, "Lauren, I'm not just going to be your fairweather boyfriend when you're back from Maine" really stuck with me.

It was pathetic. The girl I loved and had invited to travel the world with me, had ****ed this supposedly beta guy named "Duncan" before me, lied about it, and then continued to tell him that she loved him. And he know she was dating me. The shame I felt for being conned into such a situation was immeasurable.

I asked a few questions. She admitted she was pathetic. Admitted she had ****ed him, and that they were more than friends at one point. The lies killed me. I threw her phone at a wall, told her point blank to never speak to me again, and walked off into Vienna to buy a bottle of whisky and meet up with a girl named Nina who I knew from a few years ago (who I'd otherwise never planned on contacting directly).

In a rather drunken haze, I informed her father and mother of the fact she'd cheated on me, emotionally, and likely physically (she confessed they saw each other at a party while in California). I have no idea where she is, or if/how she got home, and frankly, I don't care. She admitted and (as I saw with my own eyes), said she loved another man while dating me. She admitted how pathetic she was, how she'd understand why I hate her. The ****ed up thing is, this same girl I'd jokingly show misc. threads about **** like this, and she'd rage and rage and rage. Now this same thing happens. I even absently mentioned that, and she started crying.

Why, misc? This same chick loved me. The ****ed up thing is, I truly believe that. Despite every logical part of my mind saying otherwise, I know she did. Or does. I just can't ever, and will never, forgive her for cheating/loving another guy while in a relationship with me. I threw her phone at a wall and walked away, saying to never contact me again - leaving her to her own devices in Vienna, and on her own to get back home.

Semi cliffs:

- **** you, read the whole post
- Left ex girlfriend in Vienna central station at start of euro-trip after finding out she'd emotionally and physically cheated on me
- Told parents (and dad, who'd said I was a great guy and maintained e-mail connection with me) that their daughter had cheated on me and explained she was a slut and that I was leaving her in the Vienna train station.
- she weeps and apologizes and says shes pathetic and understands why I'd hate her but "wants me to at least take her to hotel" (which i'd paid and booked) before I leave.
- What the **** do I do know since my whole 3 months was planned around us being together (I have to message every host telling them it won't be two people as they expect). Totally change plans? Bang lots of hot euro broads? Change my countries that I visit?
- Miscers please get me drunk in central europe?
- Fuarakrarrkkrkrkkkkk

You seem to have a pretty good idea of how the world works. That is good. The problem is that you are blaming yourself in some way for her cheating on you. Stop it. Women will cheat for all sorts of nonsensical reasons. I think a lot of guys on here think that if a girl cheats on you, you slipped up at some point and weren't 'alpha' enough. Sure, being dominant will lower the chances of a girl cheating, but it will NOT eliminate them.

In short, never talk to her again and f*ck sluts. Enjoy Europe my man.

[mingzie]

guarantee that OP is going to take her back

[letshavebabies]

fuuuaarrrrkk

sloots gona sloot