Marriage sucks brahs. (I been married for 4 years, i know)

[Ronceiro]

Wow marriage sounds like fun...NOT

[SmashR]

I see things as, you get bored of the person if you live with them every single day . Man is essentially required to do the same thing every day and provide...blah

Marriage is a trap door to failure brah and an old cliché . I think less are occurring tho compared to yrs ago

[c0vjek]

Been married for 4 years today (been together for 8 years now) and things just keep getting better. Srs.

Always doing fun chit together, taking trips, experiencing new things, or just chilling at home doing nothing. We have fun no matter what.

Congrats


Another thing that pisses me off about my wife is that since she had the baby she got into reality TV and stopped being fun. srs


Me: Hey babe, lets go jet skiing, my mom said she will watch the baby
Her: no, new episode of General Hospital is on and I got to watch Housewives.
Me: oh, I'll see you in few hours.

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Her: I need to get out, relieve some stress
Me: ok, where do you want to go? Central Park? Time Square? Niagara Falls
Her: the mall
Me: What about Poconos? Aspen? Florida? South Carolina? for the weekend
Her: let's just go to the mall


WTF man, most women would love to be in her situations. I can take few days off when ever and go away and have fun for few days while my mom watches the baby, but no.


She changed too fast and for the worse. I honestly tried so much but there is only so much stress I am willing to live through. At some point everyone has to decide if its worth it, at this point for me its not.

[lucidz]

Congrats


Another thing that pisses me off about my wife is that since she had the baby she got into reality TV and stopped being fun. srs


Me: Hey babe, lets go jet skiing, my mom said she will watch the baby
Her: no, new episode of General Hospital is on and I got to watch Housewives.
Me: oh, I'll see you in few hours.

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Her: I need to get out, relieve some stress
Me: ok, where do you want to go? Central Park? Time Square? Niagara Falls
Her: the mall
Me: What about Poconos? Aspen? Florida? South Carolina? for the weekend
Her: let's just go to the mall


WTF man, most women would love to be in her situations. I can take few days off when ever and go away and have fun for few days while my mom watches the baby, but no.


She changed too fast and for the worse. I honestly tried so much but there is only so much stress I am willing to live through. At some point everyone has to decide if its worth it, at this point for me its not.

She sounds depressed bro.

[Nessa1]

what happens is that woman turns into a different person over time. people change.

So in other words he married the wrong woman.

[BetaThanU]

So in other words he married the wrong woman.

No true Scotsman fallacy right there.

[bchap05]

Was married 3.5 years, no kids. I think kids are the key. Kids are boring, require too much attention, and annoying. I liked being married still had lots of sex until the last 6 months. I have more sex now though, but being its always some random chick I don't give a **** about its not as enjoyable.

[Trinity1216]

I didn't read all the responses, just the OP.

Maybe you should try marriage counseling before kicking her out. Or maybe you just married the wrong woman, or got married for the wrong reasons.

Trust me, not all marriages are meant to be. I have an ex husband, we were no good together, but now that we are divorced we get along fantastic, and he is an amazing dad to our two sons.

My husband now is my soulmate, and I truly believe this. I am truly blessed with a wonderful husband and a great life. If certain circumstances did not happen when I was younger, we would have probably met at that time and still have a happy marriage.

[agc1]

Stay safe op.

[aesthetique]

lol at marrying at 21

you married the wrong person

[jamestown0101]

Wow marriage sounds like fun...NOT

Wuddup? WHat is the stat in the UK? Been to London, Liverpool, I hear from my boys, the divorce rate of women there is pretty ****ing absurd too. Maybe not quite as bad as America as women here go full retard but, pretty ****ing bad still.

[jamestown0101]

Been married for 4 years today (been together for 8 years now) and things just keep getting better. Srs.

Always doing fun chit together, taking trips, experiencing new things, or just chilling at home doing nothing. We have fun no matter what.

Congratulations brah.

I haven't crossed that bridge and given my choice in women combined with my lifestyle that read: SMASH OR DISREGARD BUT NOT BEFORE TROLLING &&& the simple fact, I do not believe its in our nature as human beings (male or female). Human nature being polygamous moderately and even that is putting it eloquently.

My parents been married forever. They did it right but, it looks like WWIII growing up. I hear from older men, my old man's age, most are cut off by their wives. Cheating ensues and the man is taken to the cleaners (usually). Regardless, good luck to you both.


Do not let my projecting on something I have never experienced before effect your decisions. 100% CEREAL

In a decades time, I could post, and be called out for contradicting everything I ever said. As of now, I have no intent risking 50% of my worth on "I'M A WOMAN && I VICTIM!" Laws would have to change significantly here in America. Even then, it just sounds absurd since, I have a high sex drive, and I like to pork sloots.


For instance, nailing this young girl right now, and she is a complete freak. I dig early 20s. Late teens (assuming legal in my state). You tell bishes 30+ or even late 20s, &&& they ****ing rage. HILARIOUS!

Serious, if you want to rustle a woman's jimmies, aware them about banging 20yr olds. They literally go hulk &&& want to smash ****.

PURE ****ING GENIUS!


Contraru to the misconception that is me, if a woman is cool, keeps it real, I wont lie about just wanting sex. Relationship revolving around just animal humping like wild neanderthals. I simply mirror the women back. If she doesn't like whats going on:



Own my own house, car, business... its not about right or wrong. What I say goes. Don't like it? climb out the window like the animal you are!

It is simply not up for discussion!

[jamestown0101]

The only way to make a relationship last is to be unconditionally unselfish. Unfortunately, as humans, we ultimate look out for our own best interests. Because of this, in order to be unselfish, our needs have to met by our partner, so we are free to look out for their best interest. If your needs are not being met by your partner, that person is being selfish, which in turn forces you to be selfish and stop meeting his/her needs. It's a vicious cycle.

If you can find a way to be completely unselfish and meet all your partner's needs, even though your partner is not meeting yours, then you have done everything you can to save the marriage. Otherwise, you are just being selfish yourself and giving up.

Married brah, closing in on 10 years and been through two 6 month separations and years of counseling. Still learning, still trying to make it work, and I don't regret a minute of it.

Relationships are 50/50, and you need to take 100% ownership of your 50%.

^^^ Mentally tough. Respect brah. Good for you man. That is awesome. I find it more commone in reverse, the same ones that raged for it &&& made ultimatums in the first place (note red flag) are the first ones checking it out.

[Kraken]

"Marriage" does not suck, YOUR marriage sucks. Mine is awesome. Been married 9 years.

You know what is lacking from marriage these days? Setting an ultimatum before you get married. I told my wife that I have needs and desires, and as long as she meets those, I will meet her needs and desires. She wants me to be faithful, be a good father, continue being a Christian, and support her career, while I want her to give me sex at least every other day, and obviously stay faithful and doesn't argue when I continue my lifting lifestyle and all that it comes with etc. I am now a stay at home father with two amazing children. They are so well behaved and sweet kids.

People seem to get married for the wrong reasons, or are blind to the person the are marrying. I knew exactly what I was getting in to, and we still have to work through some of the issues, but they aren't issues that I didn't know about before we got married. Of course we hit bumps in the road, but that's just part of marriage, or life in general, for that matter.

[Darknightbegins]

"Marriage" does not suck, YOUR marriage sucks. Mine is awesome. Been married 9 years.

You know what is lacking from marriage these days? Setting an ultimatum before you get married. I told my wife that I have needs and desires, and as long as she meets those, I will meet her needs and desires. She wants me to be faithful, be a good father, continue being a Christian, and support her career, while I want her to give me sex at least every other day, and obviously stay faithful and doesn't argue when I continue my lifting lifestyle and all that it comes with etc. I am now a stay at home father with two amazing children. They are so well behaved and sweet kids.

People seem to get married for the wrong reasons, or are blind to the person the are marrying. I knew exactly what I was getting in to, and we still have to work through some of the issues, but they aren't issues that I didn't know about before we got married. Of course we hit bumps in the road, but that's just part of marriage, or life in general, for that matter.

Stay at home father? Lol. Brah you know the studies about bishes cheating on stay at home dads? They lose respect because you in an apron is beta as fuk cuz.










































Bro I got sum bad newz

[Kraken]

Stay at home father? Lol. Brah you know the studies about bishes cheating on stay at home dads? They lose respect because you in an apron is beta as fuk cuz.
Bro I got sum bad newz

Well, I wouldn't have married a woman I didn't trust. There are things that I know about my wife that tells me she would never cheat.

BTW, its a myth that women cheat on stay at home fathers frequently. It's made up by insecure men who don't know how to satisfy a woman in all ways

[SHELIFTSBRO]

At what point as a man do you stop blaming women and actually acknowledge that YOU made a poor choice in a life partner?


I got two baby momma's and have been divorced once. If anyone should be making these lame ass threads it would be me. But that would mean that I was a "victim" and not a man who made a conscious decision when shacking up with the wrong females.

If you want to be happy... you want to move forward in your life and want to actually have a healthy relationship in the future I'd suggest ditching the effeminate attitude and own the fact that you either picked a terrible partner or got married too young... cuz it's one or the other.

This

[Amelia1987]

Oh noes.

Well marriage ain't easy (I've been married for 4 years also).

If you've tried your best to make things work and things are not getting better or if you're just done with it, don't stay married only for the sake of your kid (growing up I wished my parents would just divorce instead seeing them fight yet again...maybe I'm weird) you might cause him some trauma. Anyways, I think you know deep down what you should do in this situation.

I wish you the best of luck and happiness

[Ratfish]

old fukker here

i will never marry since there is simply no upside. no logical man would ever do it. both of my brothers have and I feel really bad for them.

as soon as a chick tips her hand and reveals that she wants to parasitize me, i dump and reactivate my okcupid profile. had several who started out anti-marriage and anti-kids and then changed their story after a while. they can only handle so many FB sonogram pics apparently before they crack.

after dumping, i then meet a new chick with a new body, new stories and new personality and have fun until she turns to sh!t as well.

i enjoy long-term, monogamous relationships and would date the same chick forever if she didn't turn to sh!t. I'm generally single for 1-2 months before i get another one.

never in my life have i been in a fun relationship bound my mutual affection and thought, "you know what would be a great addition to this? the state. let's bring the state into this so that you have power over me...that'll be hot as fukk...i'm getting hard just thinking about it." no fukking thanks, jeffina

i'm not a good looking dude either. i'm ugly as fukk and balding pretty bad but am i afraid of dying alone? hahaha! i will never bow down on bent knee to a woman as though she is a conquering warrior who vanquished me.

i'm glad the word is getting out to young brahs that you have options, that you can avoid this almost certain doom. sure, there are some guys who are happily married. there are also a lot of people who have made money from gambling in vegas. neither one is a safe bet.

[Darknightbegins]

Well, I wouldn't have married a woman I didn't trust. There are things that I know about my wife that tells me she would never cheat.

BTW, its a myth that women cheat on stay at home fathers frequently. It's made up by insecure men who don't know how to satisfy a woman in all ways

Oh brah I'm sure you are able to detect the type of woman who won't cheat while the legions of men cheated on by sloots are just idiots.

BTW: Individuals who work outside the home while their partners remain in the home also express higher rates of extramarital sexual involvement

http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/...n-women-cheat/

You mad?











































Yeah you mad

[hublife]

Btw... I've gotten something like 25-30 different posters repping me in this thread... Just wanted to give you guys a heads up that I've got a book coming out in about 10 days dealing with much of what we're discussing.

I'll be starting a thread for it once I have the exact date I'll be releasing it. It'll be available on Amazon in digital as well as paperback.

[darkninja67]

It's funny to watch a dude like you projecting your misery onto other, younger guys in the form of a tough guy persona. I'm not buying it bro... whatever it is that made you that way, let go of that sh!t because it's transparent as fuk.

Just saying that you do not need to get married to complete your life as a man. The young guys can make their own life decisions, I made mine.

[roddypiper12]

Well, I wouldn't have married a woman I didn't trust. There are things that I know about my wife that tells me she would never cheat.

BTW, its a myth that women cheat on stay at home fathers frequently. It's made up by insecure men who don't know how to satisfy a woman in all ways

Of course you love your life/marriage... you get to stay at home and "be a dad" lol and work out everyday. You have no stress/fatigue from a job so you expect sex every other day. Living a fantasy bro, it won't last forever no matter how good of a con artist you are. One day you will read this and realize we are right....she's cheating on you.

[RedSoxfan1978]

The bottom line is that people are fallible. We all make mistakes or make changes.

The problem with marriage is this. When she decides she no longer wants you or the marriage then you will lose. Now you may also decide you don't want her as well. Either way, you're going to pay dearly.

Divorce and child custody almost always goes against the man come time for court.

We end up paying alimony and child support. That's if we're lucky. Get behind on your court ordered payments or refuse to pay, then they have entire divisions of enforcement agents to treat you like your John Dillinger.

Everyone says marriage is great if you "get a good one." However, you won't KNOW if you've got a good one until it's far too late.

Marriage is a generally poor idea if you're a man brahs. Good luck.

[tehczar]

You need Jesus OP. Did you forget the vows you took?? Once you heard those vows, you should of said no thanks JEFFERSON!

[Trinity1216]

I went back and read some of the posts in here.

I can't believe the amount of negativity on here. If this is the true feelings of most of the men out there in real life, I feel bad in the direction society is going.

[Darknightbegins]

I went back and read some of the posts in here.

I can't believe the amount of negativity on here. If this is the true feelings of most of the men out there in real life, I feel bad in the direction society is going.

Not liking the bed that feminists made for you? U mad?

[lucidz]

I went back and read some of the posts in here.

I can't believe the amount of negativity on here. If this is the true feelings of most of the men out there in real life, I feel bad in the direction society is going.

Its the misc. Hardly a proper examination of reality. People still get married. People still have lives. The misc is made up of mostly 16-22 year old recovering fatties who treat women as tools of masturbation that want to get married just so they can plump out, eject crotch trophies and divorce, thereby stealing the CEO/10K per day's pop tarts and 94 honda civics that they've worked so hard to earn.

The rest of the world will move on, as it has for thousands of years.

[Trinity1216]

Not liking the bed that feminists made for you? U mad?

First I am not a feminists, nor do I believe in the feminist movement. It is nothing but a bunch of dike bitches that hate all men.

Secondly, there are a lot more women out there today that believe in marriage in the traditional sense. The problem is that men expect to find women with those values in clubs and bars.

But when they come across females that have those qualities that they seek in a wife, they get labeled as uptight dikes because they won't have sex with them, and after all when you are in your late teens and early 20's it's all about f'king as many sloots as you can. You can't have it both ways. Do you want a sloot or do you want wife material?

Men and women have acted in this manner for centuries, the only reason it is more evident in today's society is because of the Internet and ********.

Its the misc. Hardly a proper examination of reality. People still get married. People still have lives. The misc is made up of mostly 16-22 year old recovering fatties who treat women as tools of masturbation that want to get married just so they can plump out, eject crotch trophies and divorce, thereby stealing the CEO/10K per day's pop tarts and 94 honda civics that they've worked so hard to earn.

The rest of the world will move on, as it has for thousands of years.

Excellent Post!

[TheCaptainA]

After the shyt i have gone through...

marriage..ehh i dont know..

marriage before 30 NO THANKS JEFF