My gut is telling me she cheated on you OP, that means she cheated. My gut is never wrong.
If she starts talking about breaking up say "So this isn't about you getting drunk on vacation and fcking another guy? Because I already know everything that happened."
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08-20-2013, 04:02 PM #481We Dig Crazy Chicks Crew
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OP don't take first step and break up with her, just let her end it with you. This way you don't take the chance of being wrong and she didn't cheat OR her flipping it all on you and then her telling everyone youre an a**hole. Just take the loss.
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pretty hard to change the course in a positive way after she says this:
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"all my friends are hating on me for being in a relationship, etc. They think we are moving too fast/can become unhealthy""
they're hating on GF because they all banged during the trip, and they're basically giving her the nod that she should be slooty as well. precaution Op
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-Op's gf leaves for Miami with her friends
-Op is not with her
-Gf comes back, they bang, but she keeps talking about how Op is "the best friend" she's had (could be guilt-sex srs)Gabber Crew since 2005
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it's gonna turn bad sooner rather than later. I'd just burn rubber on her at a steady rate and stop calling her a gf, since she doesnt seem like gf material anymore she's already on her way to "damaged goods" or is. That's exactly how it tends to begin for all intents and purposes, if it dont feel right, it probably aint right nomsayin? think about it and read the tea leaves, Miami, out with her slooty friends away from their relationships, perfect time to just have a 1-night and pretend like she missed the bf, but then she brings up they're going too fast, red flag city
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08-20-2013, 04:51 PM #500
I tried to clean up my original cliffs.
OP (who is Asian) makes thread about GF going to Miami with her slooty ass friends without him.
MISC tells OP that she's gonna cheat on him with big black cawk.
OP then says GF texted him saying she was at friends house in Miami. and like 30-50 people are there
The slooty friend who is throwing the party is known to love black guys.
GF texts OP saying that she drank too much
OP says he feels betrayed b/c she promised him she wouldn't get wasted
OP doesn't respond for a while (srsly wtf)
OP updates thread stating that when she got back she was extra friendly
OP states GF actually hit on him and picked him up and took him home first night they met.
OP states GF originally picked him up bc all her friends do it all the time (pick up guys) and she wanted to try it.
OP states GF told him, "you're such a good friend to me." When she got back from Miami.
OP states GF also said, "you're everything I want in a BF." Really weird/awkward thing to say after a trip to Miami. OP thinks his GF cheated on him and is trying to cover it up by being extra nice.
OP and GF DO bang when she gets back tho.
MISC responds that her behavior after the trip points to her cheating and trying to be nice to cover up any signs of it.
OP then posts that she texted him and said that her friends think their relationship "is moving too fast."
Most of the MISC thinks this is a pre-emptive strike to a breakup.
OP is meeting with slutty girlfriend tonight to talk to her. Pretty much a guaranteed breakup at this point."I've walked across the surface of the sun, seen events so tiny and so fast that they hardly can be said to have occurred at all. But you, Adrian...are just a man. And the world's smartest man poses no greater threat to me than does its smartest termite."
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08-20-2013, 05:03 PM #501
Op, you ever hear girls saying stuff like, "All girls like _____" or "All girls do _____"? They say all girls, but they really mean themselves. This is the same scenario, but replace "all girls" with "my friends"... She's projecting bra. What "her friends" are thinking, is really what she's thinking.
You two should be broken up by the end of the hang out tonight. Whatever way you like, either being you breaking up with her or her with you. There is a pretty good chance she will end it within the next few days, if not tonight, so do what you'd like.
On a positive note, sounds like she could be down for a fwb if you can detach yourself.Forever steps : jamestown0101, kineticforce
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Girl is getting drunk, the joocy stories are coming out
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She asked if I missed her, I pretended to cough to change subject.
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