Do you have a problem with your GF texting other guys?

[xes17]

My girlfriend tells me she texts other guys that are just 'friends' or their friends boyfriends, not seen anything sexual or anything but it does make me wonder.

Would you call your girlfriend out for this?

[.aeterna]

she cant text nobody if she has no fingers

nomsaiyan

[AIGHTTTTTTT]

Depends brah, if my girlfriend was a hbb 9/10 that all the dudes want, then hell yeah I would call her out cause no guy, unless he's gay, would not flirt with a hot ass bish.

But 8/10 and lower she can go ahead lol as long as I don't see sexual flirty ****.

Edit: if you're deciphering whether or not you should call her out, we're gonna need pics (srs)

[NonSmoker]

every guy she's texting is looking to get it in brah. I see no other point otherwise.

[OiPrick]

Before I split up with mine 4 days ago, yeah she always had lads creeping on her and pm'ing her on fb and she would always respond then pretend to be naive about what flirting is and what lads want.

Don't fall for that ish brah she's just trying to get attention off other lads, maybe because you're not giving her enough?

Sloots gonna sloot.

[xes17]

Depends brah, if my girlfriend was a hbb 9/10 that all the dudes want, then hell yeah I would call her out cause no guy, unless he's gay, would not flirt with a hot ass bish.

But 8/10 and lower she can go ahead lol as long as I don't see sexual flirty ****.

Edit: if you're deciphering whether or not you should call her out, we're gonna need pics (srs)

I know this feel, once dated a legit 9/10 misc standards and she constantly had wk's trying to get into her, didn't last long. Current GF is a solid 7/10 and says I'm only her second, doesn't seem like the cheating type so don't know what to think.

They are gonna text other guys whether you like it or not

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every guy she's texting is looking to get it in brah. I see no other point otherwise.

This is exactly what I'm thinking.

Before I split up with mine 4 days ago, yeah she always had lads creeping on her and pm'ing her on fb and she would always respond then pretend to be naive about what flirting is and what lads want.

Don't fall for that ish brah she's just trying to get attention off other lads, maybe because you're not giving her enough?

Sloots gonna sloot.

Hmm good point man she does like validation and attention and I am a black knight so could be why.

[NotANun21]

Doesn't bother me in the slightest, keeps me on my toes if anything.

Feels good to know that of all of the people she talks to, I'm the one she wants. If she cheats on me and I can't compete then someone else can have her and I'll find someone else who likes me the most out of all her options.

I wouldn't want to be someone's second choice anyway

[OiPrick]

Another thing, I was with mine for 5 years and every time I had a go at her about it it would get turned round on me, they will never change if that's what they like to do, if you don't like it then don't put up with it and get out before your life becomes a stressful misery like mine did, gl brah.

[DoUEvenMire]

Before I split up with mine 4 days ago, yeah she always had lads creeping on her and pm'ing her on fb and she would always respond then pretend to be naive about what flirting is and what lads want.

Don't fall for that ish brah she's just trying to get attention off other lads, maybe because you're not giving her enough?

Sloots gonna sloot.

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[RomBrah]

I met my girlfriend when I was in my bar days (20) and she was in a relationship. When we got together, she thought I banged a shtload of chicks so I told her if she texts guys I'll just text the girls I knew, that was the end of that.

[veggie530]

as long as she knows that the other dude would hit that **** given the opportunity.

I have plenty of female friends I consider only "friends"

but if they were like, veggie530, let's get it on?

they wouldn't be friends for like 2-6 minutes, lol

[DasPhilosopher]

Hmmm, well the best thing you can do is just tell the truth

[HIIT]

Basically everyone is saying the same thing and they're right.

My opinion is that GENERALLY these are "orbiters" - guys she keeps close if she wants to cheat...or in the event of a breakup, an easy rebound. Plus it gives validation, makes her feel desirable.

Sometimes these can be good friends who she has had for years, BUT generally speaking girls text girls much more often, and the best friends will all be girls. Men and women CAN'T be friends - she might not think anything of him, but he will of her...there are limited exceptions to this.

[StrongNameDM]

If i was you OP, I would be concerned but it depends on whether she is a sloot or not. If she isnt, then dont worry, chicks can have guy friends.

[BossDonn]

Know those feels OP

had a pretty gf and she insisted texting her male friends was nothing at all, even though I would tell her they are only texting to flirt/try to get some sex.

anyways fast forward a while and she tells me she made out with some dude at a bar (probably one of her male "friends"), so i dump her about a day later because I can only assume this was not the first or last time. she just ended up feeling bad and admitting because I actually liked/cared about her a lot

feelsbadman but youll get past it too

[KahunaBF]

Does he lift?

[BlackStudmuffin]

Doesn't bother me in the slightest, keeps me on my toes if anything.

Feels good to know that of all of the people she talks to, I'm the one she wants. If she cheats on me and I can't compete then someone else can have her and I'll find someone else who likes me the most out of all her options.

I wouldn't want to be someone's second choice anyway

remind me to rep you on recharge

21 and got the mentality of a boss

[veggie530]

Basically everyone is saying the same thing and they're right.

My opinion is that GENERALLY these are "orbiters" - guys she keeps close if she wants to cheat...or in the event of a breakup, an easy rebound. Plus it gives validation, makes her feel desirable.

Sometimes these can be good friends who she has had for years, BUT generally speaking girls text girls much more often, and the best friends will all be girls. Men and women CAN'T be friends - she might not think anything of him, but he will of her...there are limited exceptions to this.

this.

I call them vultures.

Circling relationships they think are in mortal danger.

[coozapalooza]

It probably depends, I'd have to say. If it's a friends boyfriend I'm pretty much totally fine with it, or if it's something like a friend she's had since they were little or something I guess I'm more okay with it, especially if I see that guy having similar relationships with other girls.

But if it's some random dude from class or one she met at a party or some ****, no, I'm not really okay with that.

[Bongos]

check her phone everyonce in a while brah

girl i used to text told me she deletes all of her texts quickly so her boyfriend wouldn't see them

[xes17]

Doesn't bother me in the slightest, keeps me on my toes if anything.

Feels good to know that of all of the people she talks to, I'm the one she wants. If she cheats on me and I can't compete then someone else can have her and I'll find someone else who likes me the most out of all her options.

I wouldn't want to be someone's second choice anyway

I know what you mean brah, I do look at it like that but can't help but think the alternative.

Another thing, I was with mine for 5 years and every time I had a go at her about it it would get turned round on me, they will never change if that's what they like to do, if you don't like it then don't put up with it and get out before your life becomes a stressful misery like mine did, gl brah.

Yeah man I know what you mean, probably going to call her out about it and if she doesn't like it then I cba, this is why being single is so much easier.

Basically everyone is saying the same thing and they're right.

My opinion is that GENERALLY these are "orbiters" - guys she keeps close if she wants to cheat...or in the event of a breakup, an easy rebound. Plus it gives validation, makes her feel desirable.

Sometimes these can be good friends who she has had for years, BUT generally speaking girls text girls much more often, and the best friends will all be girls. Men and women CAN'T be friends - she might not think anything of him, but he will of her...there are limited exceptions to this.

That sounds like what it is, but to think she is texting them must mean she is considering breaking up with me.

If i was you OP, I would be concerned but it depends on whether she is a sloot or not. If she isnt, then dont worry, chicks can have guy friends.

From what I know and see she isn't a sloot and says I'm only her second, she is 17 and can't go out to bars and clubs anyway so idk what to think, I know she would have a go at me if she saw me texting other girls though.

Know those feels OP

had a pretty gf and she insisted texting her male friends was nothing at all, even though I would tell her they are only texting to flirt/try to get some sex.

anyways fast forward a while and she tells me she made out with some dude at a bar (probably one of her male "friends"), so i dump her about a day later because I can only assume this was not the first or last time. she just ended up feeling bad and admitting because I actually liked/cared about her a lot

feelsbadman but youll get past it too

That must have sucked, can only think this is what will happen to me but idc, have loads of other options and she knows that so would be her loss.

[Reveen]

One of my ex GFs, yes. She had one of her ex's in her phone as a girls name in hopes I wouldn't find out. . . . I did.

my wife, no.

[LukeLissen]

only acceptable if its about business

If she's texting other guys just to chat, thats unacceptable. Its either be in a relationship, or dont.

[WINDSOFCHANGE93]

You gotta give her, her space brah...

[HunchBack]

No problem because I wouldn't let happen full stop.

Trust starts getting taken for granted these days in relationships and one side of the trust will eventually start to push the boundaries and see how far they can take it...soon enough she'll be riding someone else's dick.

[spillmouse]

no problem

[Chrome Face]

My girlfriend tells me she texts other guys that are just 'friends' or their friends boyfriends, not seen anything sexual or anything but it does make me wonder.

Would you call your girlfriend out for this?

why dont u just wear a shirt saying "I'm an insecure fuking loser"????

who gives a fuk what ur GF does on ******** or texting... quit being such a pussy

[Fozzy13]

I met my girlfriend when I was in my bar days (20) and she was in a relationship. When we got together, she thought I banged a shtload of chicks so I told her if she texts guys I'll just text the girls I knew, that was the end of that.

LOL...and why are people so surprised when their gf cheats on them and does sketchy chit?

lmao.




retards of peace

[LukeLissen]

No problem because I wouldn't let happen full stop.

Trust starts getting taken for granted these days in relationships and one side of the trust will eventually start to push the boundaries and see how far they can take it...soon enough she'll be riding someone else's dick.

Yep, and some guys here dont realize it. If you give a girl 'space' to converse freely in regular one on one conversations with multiple other guys for pleasure, she will eventually take more 'space' than you originally wanted - ie cheat on you. It will happen with nearly 100% of girls given that much 'space'. She can have all the girl friends she wants, but the guy thing stops.

Its either be in a committed relationship or not!

Part of being in a committed relationship is giving up certain freedoms, and that includes giving up having lots of private conversation with multiple potential sex partners(which is what it is).

If you want to continue to maintain that freedom, then you do not get in a committed relationship! Period. Neither of you can have it both ways. You cannot have your cake and eat it too.

Those of you letting your girls who you are in committed relationships with text all these guys, you are letting her have her cake and eat it too, and you will fail in the long run.

[.aeterna]

Yep, and some guys here dont realize it. If you give a girl 'space' to converse freely in regular one on one conversations with multiple other guys for pleasure, she will eventually take more 'space' than you originally wanted - ie cheat on you. It will happen with nearly 100% of girls given that much 'space'. She can have all the girl friends she wants, but the guy thing stops.

Its either be in a committed relationship or not!

Part of being in a committed relationship is giving up certain freedoms, and that includes giving up having lots of private conversation with multiple potential sex partners(which is what it is).

If you want to continue to maintain that freedom, then you do not get in a committed relationship! Period. Neither of you can have it both ways. You cannot have your cake and eat it too.

Those of you letting your girls who you are in committed relationships with text all these guys, you are letting her have her cake and eat it too, and you will fail in the long run.

so much this

i can confirm

thought it would be a good idea to not establish boundaries with my most recent ex-GF. Had this delusional belief that being insecure about her texting other guys didnt matter because at the end of the day, she was in my bed and not theirs.

relationship ended because she ****ed another guy

before that (with GFs before her), I used to be strict as phuck and establish boundaries. Of course, I would abide by them as well. Never ran into issues.