Is it weird if your gf won't add you on FB

**TechnoRaver** · 07-13-2013, 05:33 PM

Here's the deal. Gf and I have been dating over a year. I know all her best friends that live here and her family. We went a trip recently as she posted a bunch of pics from it and of her and I so I asked her if she'd me so I could see the pics . Boom she flipped out and got so mad saying she wouldn't add me and that we didn't need to have each other on there. I'm not even looking to detective her page or nothing but I don't think it's a weird request to want to have her as a contac on there. I'd have been more ok with it if she disnt get so mad right off the bat. What do y'all think. And she adds like everyone as a friend

**stevey1234** · 07-13-2013, 05:34 PM

Yes, she's obviously hiding something else I wouldn't see why she would flip. Stay safe.

**TechnoRaver** · 07-13-2013, 05:36 PM

Originally Posted by stevey1234

Yes, she's obviously hiding something else I wouldn't see why she would flip. Stay safe.

She said we just don't need to be friends in there butbitbpisses me off when she refuses to add me but goes on it right I front if me etc

**awhite93** · 07-13-2013, 05:38 PM

I would take that as a red flag dude. Sketchy business

**ODSN** · 07-13-2013, 05:43 PM

My ex bf did that

a) he didn't want to get too close, didn't want our circles of friends to add each other
b) turns out he was VERY friendly with some of his female friends

Just some life experience. Doesn't mean it's gonna be yours.

**TechnoRaver** · 07-13-2013, 05:47 PM

Originally Posted by ODSN

My ex bf did that

a) he didn't want to get too close, didn't want our circles of friends to add each other
b) turns out he was VERY friendly with some of his female friends

Just some life experience. Doesn't mean it's gonna be yours.

That's the weird part I know her friends family etc and I for the most part she is upfront. One thing I cannot stand is cheaters and she really doesn't seem like that kind of girl but still why get so mad you know?

**Manc33** · 07-13-2013, 05:49 PM

Because it is "her place" to talk about you without you knowing, srs.

Most GF's just bitch to their moms about their BF's with their moms usually just telling them to keep grabbing the money etc, but we have ******** now and she obviously dun goof'd by not remembering if she posted anything bad so best to just block you, or not join up or whatever the terminology is for the fuking thing.

**onedayall** · 07-13-2013, 05:50 PM

Send her a friend request anyway and if she doesnt accept ask for a VALID explanation.

If she cant provide one, then either she doesnt want you to see something or doesnt want people to know that she is in a relationship with you.

Dont jump the gun yet and start accusing her of anything. Play it cool and dont drop the subject. Youre in the right here and either she'll add you or the truth will come out eventually.

**stevey1234** · 07-13-2013, 05:54 PM

Bro, she's hiding something from you and it's a fact. I'll give you two PERSONAL experiences.

One, when I was dating some chick who was clearly a clinger I didn't want her to be friends with me on face because I had other plans.

Two, an old ex of mine didn't want me on face either because she wanted 'privacy' and turns out she was still in contact with some guy.

It's a red flag, if people hide something in a relationship it's always a red flag and if she isn't open I would be very wary, because from my experience women cheat like that.

good luck OP, don't be a beta on this one.

**Manc33** · 07-13-2013, 05:57 PM

Thats my theory, she is only reluctant because she can't possibly remember every last thing she has ever said about him on there and best play it safe by blocking him. I doubt she is cheating OP, but stay safe.

**TechnoRaver** · 07-13-2013, 06:05 PM

Originally Posted by Manc33

Thats my theory, she is only reluctant because she can't possibly remember every last thing she has ever said about him on there and best play it safe by blocking him. I doubt she is cheating OP, but stay safe.

I think she said something about having added boyfriends in the past and it not being good but idk. She will add anyone on there but me and its annoying as he'll.

**YungJocx** · 07-13-2013, 06:06 PM

Hahahahahaahhahaha literally lol'd

**northernlights7** · 07-13-2013, 06:13 PM

Originally Posted by TechnoRaver

I think she said something about having added boyfriends in the past and it not being good but idk. She will add anyone on there but me and its annoying as he'll.

That's straight bs, nothing more, bro. That's a lousy explanation without any elaboration. Why was it not good when she had exes on there, because they could see her suspicious behaviors on ********? It's not like you asked her for her password to crack into her account to keep tabs. I had a buddy whose insane gf/now wife (as far as I know) made him do that. But, I really can't think of any legitimate couples I've ever known who weren't ******** friends, assuming both had accounts. In fact, if she's not willing to list herself as "in a relationship" with you, she's almost certainly not as serious as you are about things.

**deadliftdang** · 07-13-2013, 06:18 PM

Originally Posted by Manc33

Thats my theory, she is only reluctant because she can't possibly remember every last thing she has ever said about him on there and best play it safe by blocking him. I doubt she is cheating OP, but stay safe.

Sounds about right... just be really cool about it OP. If shes cheating on you, I highly doubt she's openly doing it on FB. Just bring it up again and be like "soo is the reason you won't add me on fb because you've been talkin **** about me" in like a really playful tone and go from there.

**northernlights7** · 07-13-2013, 06:25 PM

Originally Posted by deadliftdang

Sounds about right... just be really cool about it OP. If shes cheating on you, I highly doubt she's openly doing it on FB. Just bring it up again and be like "soo is the reason you won't add me on fb because you've been talkin **** about me" in like a really playful tone and go from there.

Honestly though, even if it's only about her "talking ****" about him, that should be a problem with him unless he is a complete omega runt in life and should be cause for him to get rid of her unless she has a sincere apology and immediately opens up and becomes honest about the matter. I don't see her doing any of that though, as she is already making up bs excuses.

**willysmilly** · 07-13-2013, 06:49 PM

red flag...

**Beararms** · 07-13-2013, 07:00 PM

FB strikes again.

**Schwheyze** · 07-13-2013, 07:07 PM

She is definitely hiding something brah. Women especially love to show off the person they are with, she maybe is ashamed of you? She could be banging someone else? idk man, but if her family already knows you wtf is she buggin out over an add on fb. Best advice is that you can either be blind to something for fear of whats really going on, or you can wake up and face the reality of a situation. Were all gonna make it brah

**Chrome Face** · 07-13-2013, 07:07 PM

i never add girls i date... too much possible drama

**TechnoRaver** · 07-13-2013, 07:56 PM

Originally Posted by Schwheyze

She is definitely hiding something brah. Women especially love to show off the person they are with, she maybe is ashamed of you? She could be banging someone else? idk man, but if her family already knows you wtf is she buggin out over an add on fb. Best advice is that you can either be blind to something for fear of whats really going on, or you can wake up and face the reality of a situation. Were all gonna make it brah

That's the dumb part she has her status as in a relationship and talks about me slash post pics of me all the time on there. But won't add me? Idk I think she is just worried someone will tell me sonethig or make something about her which is bs

**KayG92** · 07-14-2013, 02:57 PM

Yeah, she doing something she isn't supposed to be doing....

**cmcfrenchie** · 07-14-2013, 03:51 PM

That is a major red flag. You definitely need to figure out what is truly going on because that is too sketchy. Been down this road with my ex who I dated for two years. Found out after the fact that she was so crazy about privacy because she had a lot to hide, she was talking to another guy and her ex, and she cheated on me with said ex. A relationship can only thrive if there is communication and honesty, figure out the truth before you wind up getting hurt.

**NickA44** · 07-14-2013, 03:53 PM

shady as fuark

couldn't be more blatant and obvious shes hiding something

**RougeProdigy** · 07-14-2013, 03:53 PM

Make a fake profile of someone else, add her as a friend and see if she accepts. If she does, then you can see the pics.

**AgentLemon** · 07-14-2013, 03:59 PM

1. Make fake profile, add a bunch of people. If a few report you, it'll stop you from adding people for a few days. After you have a few friends go and add your gf. The trick is add some of her friends, so some mutual friends show up. -> profit.
2. Maybe she is afraid some of her friends might hit on you, or could just be plain hiding something.
Good Luck.

**SuperShamou** · 07-14-2013, 04:01 PM

your probably not her only bf... definately not her "real" bf.

**illesBKLYN** · 07-14-2013, 04:30 PM

lmao ******** ruins all relationships

but srsly, how have you been dating for a year and never had her added is beyond me

**TooOld4thisSHIT** · 07-14-2013, 04:59 PM

yeah, she's hiding something for sure. could be something significant, like flirting with other guys. Or it could be something petty like she uses FB to vent about YOU. maybe she's said somethings about you or your guys' relationship that she doesn't want you seeing..

but like i said, it could be something small, or something HUGE. either way, she's still hiding something.

**RayneyDay** · 07-14-2013, 11:07 PM

******** ruining relationships since 2006

**hublife** · 07-14-2013, 11:09 PM

If it were the first few months I'd say don't worry about it. But over a year and the bitch still won't add you!!???

She's fukking someone else or at least trying to.

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