WonderPug why are you saying everyone have eating disorder ?

[Funkdubius]

When you dont even know have all the infos on the poster.

Even if you are right and that person need help, dont you think a better, less aggressive approach would be much better if your actual goal is to help in this forum ?

When I made this thread http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showth...post1073106011 , I received 5-6 PMs basically saying : dont pay attention to people who people in the nutrition forum they are ******.

I really dont like this forum and I hope one day it will be a good place to seek help and advice.

Right now its not.

Thread made by a guy that clearly needed help but hey lets just say hes sick !!!




Edit : Im making this thread because I tried to PM WP but hes not answering yet I see him active in the forum.

PM I sent him:

Eating disorder

Hello Im wondering why you say everyone have a eating disorder when they dont fall under your macros/calories recomendations.

Even if sometimes you are right, I think that saying that right away is scaring people that actually need help and would probably listen...

Take a min and think how quick you said he needed medical help :


Check out my first post experience in the nutrition forum and see how everyone is mean and quick to judge :

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showth...post1073106011

Best regards,

Funkdubius.

[lee__d]

Well,

1. in on callout

2. it is fuking weird that 100g of liquid makes him so full.

[Kevin71]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orthorexia_nervosa

A lot of typical bro's have this. (Referring to the post in the thread you posted, not the screenshot)

[MrBillson]

Honestly not sure if serious.

[Funkdubius]

Well,

1. in on callout

2. it is fuking weird that 100g of liquid makes him so full.

weird : yes

medical help needed with only that info ? Hell no

[InItForFitness]

Well,

1. in on callout

2. it is fuking weird that 100g of liquid makes him so full.

This!
Not too often you get two bigger/respected members of the forum going head to head.

Brb getting popcorn for the show.

[psychodiver9]

Op I think you created this thread due to your insecurities about your eating disorder. You should seek help

[Funkdubius]

Honestly not sure if serious.

? You think Im trolling. Explain which part of my post you think is a joke.

[Funkdubius]

Op I think you created this thread due to your insecurities about your eating disorder. You should seek help

I am fine thx, this forum need help tho.

[KayPS]

[psychodiver9]

This!
Not too often you get two bigger/respected members of the forum going head to head.

Brb getting popcorn for the show.

Wut? When did punkdubious become respected? Never seen him before today. Hes a miscer

[ironwill2008]

medical help needed with only that info ? Hell no

You're entitled to your opinion.


WP is entitled to his.


What's so difficult to understand about that?

[Funkdubius]

Wut? When did punkdubious become respected? Never seen him before today. Hes a miscer

You are calling me a punk and quoting you : Never seen him before today. Hes a miscer .

You will never see me say something like that. I dont know you.

What I know from you is from 2 posts, and in the second one you insult me.

[Funkdubius]

You're entitled to your opinion.


WP is entitled to his.


What's so difficult to understand about that?

Its not difficult, I am always open for a debate and sharing different views/opinions.

My point is: to really help someone, you cant be as direct and say : your sick.

Its scaring people away from this forum, even if its good advices.

[softpounder]

Op I think you created this thread due to your insecurities about your eating disorder. You should seek help

10/10

[Funkdubius]

10/10

begging for reps ? gjdm.

[KayPS]

You're calling out one of the most respected members of this forum. One who has helped countless people with their nutrition and bodybuilding goals. And you choose to highlight two of his posts and call him out for them.

Don't expect this post to be well received, OP.

[MrBillson]

? You think Im trolling. Explain which part of my post you think is a joke.

Pug always gives sound advice, and if someone is potentially developing (or has already developed) an eating disorder it is important that they seek professional help. - So when Pug (or any other poster) recommends seeing a doctor about a potential eating disorder, they are simply doing what they can to help them.

In the screenshot you posted (twice) he is expressing genuine concern for the OP as there is no reason why 100g of protein shake should make you feel so bad. So he suggests seeking medical attention - which indicates that he is concerned for OP's well being.

In the first thread you linked to, he gives a genuine response - even works out the macros for your weight, and then finishes off with a remark concerning the potentially harmful habits you could be heading towards.

The reason people tend not to like the nutrition forum is because people don't spoon feed them answers, and they don't always tell posters what they want to hear.

It seems pretty obvious to me that you posted a thread, Pug told you something you didn't want to hear, and you want him to agree with you.

[moosedahgoose]

I do not think there is any malice when WP posts regarding potential ED, rather concern.

More importantly, just as you showed in your first post in these forums, everyone is entitled to their own opinion. At least 5 of us told you that your fats were low and your diet bland, but you insisted otherwise.

Welcome to the internet.

[Funkdubius]

You're calling out one of the most respected members of this forum. One who has helped countless people with their nutrition and bodybuilding goals. And you choose to highlight two of his posts and call him out for them.

Don't expect this post to be well received, OP.

I am not Kay, I know exactly how I will be received, but I can still share my opinion right ? Im not being rude or disrespectful...

[Funkdubius]

I do not think there is any malice when WP posts regarding potential ED, rather concern.

More importantly, just as you showed in your first post in these forums, everyone is entitled to their own opinion. At least 5 of us told you that your fats were low and your diet bland, but you insisted otherwise.

Welcome to the internet.

Pug always gives sound advice, and if someone is potentially developing (or has already developed) an eating disorder it is important that they seek professional help. - So when Pug (or any other poster) recommends seeing a doctor about a potential eating disorder, they are simply doing what they can to help them.

In the screenshot you posted (twice) he is expressing genuine concern for the OP as there is no reason why 100g of protein shake should make you feel so bad. So he suggests seeking medical attention - which indicates that he is concerned for OP's well being.

In the first thread you linked to, he gives a genuine response - even works out the macros for your weight, and then finishes off with a remark concerning the potentially harmful habits you could be heading towards.

The reason people tend not to like the nutrition forum is because people don't spoon feed them answers, and they don't always tell posters what they want to hear.

It seems pretty obvious to me that you posted a thread, Pug told you something you didn't want to hear, and you want him to agree with you.

In the United States, the meaning of "guru" has been used to cover anyone who acquires followers, especially by exploiting their naiveté.

[MrBillson]

In the United States, the meaning of "guru" has been used to cover anyone who acquires followers, especially by exploiting their naiveté.

Is that supposed to be relevant?

[PhiSig2298]

I'd like to meet the person who doesn't have some sort of eating disorder..

[adam247]

I agree that a less aggressive and empathic approach is the best

If you are truly here to help and you have more knowledge on a subject then passing that knowledge on while making sure the reader does not feel inferior in any way is how the reader will be most likely to take on that knowledge .....


I am not personally calling anyone out as I have not been here long enough , but there is a environment as here as on most forums of a power relationship .


A lot of bodybuilders and people who are into body transformation do have issue with food but it's freeing them from it rather than categorizing and contemning and the best way is to lead by example and actually care how others 'feel'

[moosedahgoose]

In the United States, the meaning of "guru" has been used to cover anyone who acquires followers, especially by exploiting their naiveté.

In the United States the meaning of "insecure" has been used to cover anyone who is not confident, not firmly fastened or fixed, especially as beset by fear and anxiety.

[Funkdubius]

Is that supposed to be relevant?

Everytime WP say something, 5 person like you follow and agree.

[KayPS]

I am not Kay, I know exactly how I will be received, but I can still share my opinion right ? Im not being rude or disrespectful...

You're entitled to your opinion. But you blast Pug for his approach, and then proceed to say things like "if your actual goal is to help in this forum" and "I really dont like this forum and I hope one day it will be a good place to seek help and advice." Basically implying that he's not here to help, and this is a bad place to seek advice because of him. I wholeheartedly disagree. This is the perfect place for people to be told exactly how wrong they are about what they think they know about nutrition. And if they take their health seriously, then they'll stick around and learn. If not, then why waste his time on those people? It's not like he gets paid to help them.

[ironwill2008]

My point is: to really help someone, you cant be as direct and say : your sick.

Its scaring people away from this forum, even if its good advices.

Trying very hard not to laugh at this reply, and give you an honest reply in return.



How about this: you give advice as you see fit (although I don't think I've ever seen you post in this forum before),

and let others do the same.






And as far as "scaring people away from this forum," that's their problem; sometimes, facing the truth hurts.

[psychodiver9]

I'd like to meet the person who doesn't have some sort of eating disorder..

Hi.

[KayPS]

Everytime WP say something, 5 person like you follow and agree.

So what?