Anybody else have a beta dad? (srs)

[rocky09]

It's the shiniest ****ing feel man.
brb doesn't give the talk while growing up
brb doesn't push you in sports
brb wife has destroyed spine(what was left at least)
brb watches ****ty reality shows instead of local sports teams
brb it's like having two moms

Don't get me wrong I'm thankful to have a father take care of me while growing up(and one whos sperm made me male), but I feel as if I had to become my own man rather than learning from his wisdom.


/dear diary

[basedxgawd]

When you have 2 dads one is gonna be beta

[Overqualified]

lol at thinking watching sports makes you alpha


taking care of a 22 y/o female makes you a man

[Reclinate]

My dad is a big time beta *******

[b5lover]

he has been a truck driver for construction company. got offered to be a foreman, stayed a truck driver.
against me working on my own paid for car (trying to do maintenance on my own), saying chit like "take it to a mechanic before you break it"
"stop lifting weights, you're going to hurt yourself"
"do you think those vitamins are going to help you?"
"only raise the parking brake 3 clicks, otherwise you will mess it up"
"stop going to college and go work for minimum wage", at this point i had quit my job and was paying for college on my own.

[TuffNipples]

I know this feel

brb dad doesn't try to get me into sports
brb dad just throws me and my brother in front of an xbox while he gets wasted
brb never gives me the talk when growing up

I didn't learn much from my dad.

[blahblahwer]

know dees feels OP, but hey at least we will raise an aplha master race son because we know what we shouldn't do

[SwampRash]

i think you are just delusional and think you are not less beta than him, its a common trait of people who care too much about lifting weights, "OOLDD MAN TAKE A LOOK AT MY LIFE IM A LOT LIKE YOUUUU"

[MikegordonV]

My dad is Alpha male! Captain and been around the world past 30 years! Fearless and Confident!

[Bandingo]

Sorry op. Did.you dad put food on the table? Does he care about you? Is he there to help you? If he does this i would not complain too much brah.

[TheQod]

Dad was blind and had a broken spinal cord so was paralzyed from waist down. Died when I was 14. Fuk you *******s for even thinking a father can be "beta" or "alpha". At least he loves you and is in your life in some sort of manner.

[OfficerJimLahey]

sorry OP, I really can't complain about my Dad much at all. My dad is solid.

[JoSmoBN]

Do not know these feels....Dad is alpha as fuk.

[Kapetan]

My dad is Alpha male! Captain and been around the world past 30 years! Fearless and Confident!

I can confirm, I am Captain.

[Alt3rnate]

brb never gave a chit while me and my bro grew up
brb never had the "talk"
brb never was a model for how to treat women properly (treated my mom like chit, tons of arguments, they should have divorced tbh)
brb he is somewhat of a beta *******, yet was more succesful with women when he was my age
edit: Then again he did and does still put "food" on the "table" so I will stfu.

[mferrandi]

My dad was extremely alpha, my mom obeyed everything he said and treated him like a king

[Condyle]

Yeah, my dad was pathetic as fuark. He was aesthetic (no homo) from working in the fields/labouring and was covered in army tatts etc but he had zero coping skills and was pretty crazy, so we'd move average once a year, sometimes way more. Things would get too much or the boss would be on his back or the neighbours had a barking dog and he'd get all fuarking whiny and run. Got his first wife pregnant and ran away to join the army. Then he met my mum and had me, was totally browbeaten by mum and cleared out AGAIN leaving me with that crazy bitch when I was like 8, mum sent me to live with him when I was 12 cause I was cramping her style (she totally bitched him out with that one - here, take this I'm out)... and he'd gotten back together with the first wife! And she had him bitched out too - she hated me and he totally toed the line with that chit. Thanks for the help and support, *******.

In fact, having written all that he was a total beta ****. Embarrassing, man.

[Incitatus37AD]

Brb dad is narcistic
Brb never really had a conversation with my dad
Brb lived together for 20 years in the same phucking house
Brb dad is a 6/10 and my mom is a 9/10

Dad uses people and only thinks off himself.

Alpha as phuck.

[PHXNick]

Do not know these feels....Dad is alpha as fuk.

This.

[Bongos]

it's often a cycle - you have to wonder how his dad treated him.

maybe your kid will think you're beta for making him do sports, giving him the talk, obsessing about local sports teams, and being too stern with his mother.

who knows. at least he provided for you.

[theAShole]

Thought dad was beta, got into **** and he had a choice to live with a possibilty (slim) of recovering or a life of just being a veg)

His first answer fking let me die like a man.

And he did.

[MrAkshat]

My dad has a short fuse and often gets angry. However, he is incredibly smart. Finished at a top Physics/Science school in Russia after coming from a small village in the middle of nowhere and I can always ask him questions about EE, physics, math, and chemistry and he seems to know all the answers. Feel like a moron next to him.

[copiusGains]

Dad does watch sports, but is overly sensitive, over protective, always hints that we don't love him(wtf?), gets nervous when out in public, hermit, destroyed both social lives of my sister and I, lectures when ever I go out, no ambition, no adventure, boring, only talks politics, thinks family gatherings twice a yr is "getting the kids out the house for a bit"(I'm 21), sucks/rant

[Meatros]

Sorry op. Did.you dad put food on the table? Does he care about you? Is he there to help you? If he does this i would not complain too much brah.

THIS.

Is any Dad perfect? No, of course not. Some are better than others.

OP, be thankful your pops is not an abusive alcoholic.

[TheMarshall]

My dad is alpha as phuck, and always talks about how beta his dad was. Feels good to talk about hot girls and sports with your dad like he's your best friend, but when you phuck up he'll beat the sht out of me.

[anonymous]

My dad was beta, but I wish that I could see him again and hug him.

He never spend time with me when I was younger but when I got older, he wanted to spend time with me but I didn't want to. This kills me inside. Think about it daily.

[IJustPost]

brb not giving me the vitamins I needed to grow so I could be his height.
Phucking 6'3 piece of chit.

[liore22]

yea i haven't talked to my dad in a long time

wish he disciplined me and made me more focused rather than just saying yes to everything when I was in hs.

glad to see im not alone.

[MountainMan320]

My dad is Alpha as phuck, hard worker, strong as hell from years of physical labor, knows everything about automechanics, loves guns and hunting, and has always provided for our family.

[Rayzor84]

Well lets see...


Served 2 tours as a marine in vietnam.
Knows how to fix anything including home repair and machinery.
Has threatened unruly neighbor with ass whoopings and firearms.
Alpha as fuk tool collection.

Nope sorry op don't know those feels.