Married 18 years, together 22, 1 eleven year old son.
Wife had an affair a while ago. Short lived. Forgave her, we moved forward.
Wife was actually the best ever. Loving, considerate, giving. Perfect right? Wrong.
Wife is a flight attendant, and sometimes will be away from home for several days.
Earlier this month, she came home and I noticed something was wrong. She wasn't acting right.
Checked her cellphone calls and texts, noticed a strange number. Calls and texts to and frow that started after she got home. Checked the number, came back to a pilot she flew with her last trip.
She was sleeping, woke her azz up and confronted her. She admitted calling and texting him. Told her she had a choice, end it or we're done.
The next morning she went and got her own cellphone, stating she wasn't going to stop. She was "confused, needed space", blah, blah, blah. She asked that I move out of our home until she figured out herself. I told her she's lost her f#ckin mind, no way I'm leaving. Told her to get the f#ck out, but I legally can't make her.
Found out last Thursday she met him at our city park while my son and I were at the movies.
Confronted her, she admitted it, told that's it she made her choice, and we were done.
Retained a lawyer on Tuesday, told him to start the paperwork.
Sux cause she still will not move out and I can't make her.
Oh, and flyboy and I workout at the same gym. Went in there today, who did I see? Yep you got it.
I'm in Law Enforcement so I can't just go and beat his azz. Took all I had not to say anything to him (Attorney advised me to say nothing to him).
Did get a 625lb squat today. Take that MF'er.
Sux big time bro's
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Thread: 18 Years wasted WTF
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06-28-2013, 08:07 PM #1Registered User
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18 Years wasted WTF
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06-28-2013, 08:11 PM #2Registered User
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wow that must hurt brah... did you contemplate asking if he needed a spot for his skullcrushers?
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06-28-2013, 08:17 PM #3Registered User
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Fuk dat sloot
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Make sure you retain evidence of infidelity. Don't know what state you are in, but generally that will be relevant to any divorce settlement.Originally Posted by seibert253
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06-28-2013, 08:18 PM #5RIP Takeoff
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wow
leopards don't change spotsOriginally Posted by seibert253
she's in for a rude awakening when this pilot doesn't commit to herpls do not associate my personalities in misc and sports misc
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06-28-2013, 08:21 PM #6
Why did u forgive her? Did u atleast cheat to?....women age horribly, I hardly find any real value in them beyond 23.
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06-28-2013, 08:27 PM #7
Sorry bro.... I'm afraid of that happening some day.. scary chit.
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06-28-2013, 08:32 PM #8Certified Autistic
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must feel bad knowing the guy your wife cheated with probably can't squat 200
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06-28-2013, 08:40 PM #9agree with this fellow. her life is about to take a downward spiral for her incompetenceOriginally Posted by wildchild11
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06-28-2013, 08:45 PM #10Mr. Steal Your Thread
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wow, that sucks man.
Is the kid aware of whats going on?
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06-28-2013, 08:45 PM #11Registered User
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This is horrible. Sorry man. Feel especially bad for your son. I can't fathom how your wife could wreck a family like this.
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06-28-2013, 08:45 PM #12
glad you find out OP
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06-28-2013, 08:47 PM #13Registered User
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should have done an agent 47 when you saw him in the gym (see video below)
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06-28-2013, 08:50 PM #14Jimmy Rustler Expert
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damn bro, I am very sorry.
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This.Originally Posted by demoniclizard
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06-28-2013, 08:52 PM #16Registered User
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it's too bad Aaron Hernandez is in jail
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Keep a record of all this and make sure you get full custody of your son with access times dictated by you and you only.
Have her lick the **** from the bottom of your shoe to see your son. Stupid phucking sloot. Destroy her life.*Cutting for life crew*
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sorry to here that brah
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06-28-2013, 08:58 PM #19
honestly wish you the best of luck OP, that really sucks
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brah, know feels..
all i can tell you is once you are clear of thismess in your life, it will become spectacular. you are just on the cusp of the zenith of your life. stand fast, you will emerge in victory."The more sand that has escaped from the hourglass of our life, the clearer we should see through it."
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06-28-2013, 09:10 PM #22Registered User
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Sorry to hear that bro. Good luck.
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06-28-2013, 09:20 PM #23sursum trahatur
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Originally Posted by seibert253
You did the right thing!
My ex wife did this to me after 8 years married (10 together).
She refused to stop messaging this guy, admitted to getting sexual with one guy.
She left several times and come back.. but one day I found FB messages trying to get this one guy to come over.
I went to work, thought about it.. came home and told her to pack her bags. She did and I left her at her mothers house.
I got full custody of our 3 kids and moved to a new town... life is good.
I've been dating, lifting, moving on with life.
I know it hurts like hell, but you've made an excellent choice.
DO NOT leave the house.... if anything try talk her into leaving. (but your Lawyer will be getting that advice for you anyway)
Including keeping records of all texts, start documenting the phonebills etc. so you can prove when she started cheating.
You have a high likleyhood of getting custody seeing as she's away for days on end.
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Jesus Christ....
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06-28-2013, 10:02 PM #25Registered User
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With threads like this no wonder the misc thinks all women are sloots. Heartbreaking stuff OP, hope it works out. **** the bitch up, you probs know her the best out of most people in her life. Use this to your advantage. Don't show any sympathy.
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06-28-2013, 10:31 PM #26Darknificent
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See.... This the reason why I don't wanna get married. I'd rather mess around with sloots than to give up my life to 1 women who could make me vulnerable. Sorry to hear that.
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06-28-2013, 10:34 PM #27alpha AS FUK broOriginally Posted by bluejay83
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06-28-2013, 10:36 PM #28Registered User
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Would fukin key his car so hard he'd need new panels.
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06-28-2013, 10:43 PM #29Registered User
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This.Originally Posted by copiusGains
That's why I found a hot 19 year old gf HBB.
Leave ur old ass sloot wife n find a younger hot one
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06-28-2013, 10:45 PM #30Registered User
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Why do husbands always get mad at the guy? The guy is nothing to blame for, IT'S THE FOCKING WIFE THAT'S TO BLAME.Originally Posted by coppb
It takes a lot of responsibility and discipline to be a married couple. The cheater needs to be punished, not the dude that's just out there looking for pussy like every other straight dude...
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