Few days ago, my GF(1,5 years) went to this party, where things got out of hand and started texting me if she can make out with a female friend of hers. They already made out a few times before i even met my GF.
The texts went something like this:
A : Hey honey, can i fool around with Nina a bit today?
B : Do you want to?
A : She wants me
B : But you?
A : Yea, i want it a little too :$ ...since you are not here.
B : Do what u think is right
A : So i can fool around? :P
B : Do what you think is right for us
A : Okay, you don't want me too, i won't :* My kisses are just for you! :* :*
We have a strict policy regarding trust and respect for each other. We already talked about her making out with another girl and i said it would be alright if i was there also (to enjoy the action, i do find it kinda sexy), but it would bother me if she would act this way without me there(so other dudes can enjoy my GF acting all slutty).
Had a blast at the gym that day, so i decided to join the party later and i went there to say hi to the ppl i know and to escort my girl home, when cuz it was getting a bit late. Anyway, when i arrive i see her full on making out with her friend and i do was shocked, wanted to approach and confront her, but she somehow got into the V.I.P. and i'm on dat dere poverty time and didn't wanna blow cash unnecessary. Went to get a beer insted to cool off and called her that i'm at the party and want to see her. She immidiately came down to me and in a drunken stance explained how she made out with Nina. She was happy about it, not realising how i felt and what we were texting before....
To the drunken part now, before i could ask anything more, she started grabbing feeling me up, grabbing my dick, telling me how she loves it, wants it and how horny she is....altho sounds good on paper, i did not like this kind of behaviour(she is not usually like that at all), so i decided to take her out for a breath of fresh air....this is where i saw the stance she was in, she could not walk more than 15 meters on her own without leaning on object/almost falling down, she did not answer anything i ask, just some not understandable blubberish.
Basicly she did not know what she was doing and maybe if i haven't arrived, who knows what some other dude could make of the situation, use her (in the most black scenario)
Anyway...all my friends say its no biggie, all girls ( age 23) get drunk and like to party and the making out with another girl is hot and i should be happy.
I am a man of strong morals and i don't like to drink/despise druken people and we never had any problems in our relationship yet, so i can't just brush this under the carpet. The more i think about it, the more it worries me, she told me one thing, did another, she made out with another person after 2 years of only me, she was drunk out of her mind, not knowing what was happening. I do admit i find the image of the two girls making out damn sexy, but it bothers me, cuz i wasn't there and there were many other dudes, who prolly jacked off to the image the next morning and blasted a huge load with my girl in their mind.
I can not help, but be angry at her, cuz she destroyed the pure image i had about her. I don't think same of her after this experience and i want to forget about it, but it just keeps popping up in my mind. Maybe i just need some time, she is really a great girl, everything is great about her and i love her, altho i haven't told her the big L word yet. Anyway, i am looking for some advice from you fellow brahs on this situation. Also, the next day she cried and told me how sorry she is and she'll do anything to make it right again.
Also, i am on dat dere souther europe balkan time, such things are not common here and traditions are still quite strong(cant be compared to murica).
Cliffs:
-GF drunk texts me she wants to make out with a girlfriend
-I let her know i wouldn't like it and she agrees she won't and "save her kisses for me"
-I decide to pick her up at the club
-Surprise, surprise, catch her making out
-She doesn't know whats going on, can't walk, grabbing my dick while i tell her i'm sad for what happened
-Feel bad about it, can't look at her the same as before
Just read the whole thing to undersand
Will provide pics if requested, but want a few good replies first.
EDIT: Aight, appriciate the replies, i don't have much pictures of them together and don't wanna really show my GF on here, heres one i found from a college event the two went to together
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06-21-2013, 05:09 PM #1
GF made out with another girl, was drunk out of her mind
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06-21-2013, 05:11 PM #3
***** how da fuk is u finna be angry she made out wit anotha broad?
***** is u gay? da fuk mang... chiiet da things i would do to have my sloot make out wit anotha slootpm me ur pics and ill rep u haha jk no homo lol haha no but srsly pls pm me ur pics haha just glutes and maybe face haha no homo again lol just kidding kinda not rly lol pls send them
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06-21-2013, 05:12 PM #4
Girls act like gigantic sloots when they drink. Tell her to watch her boozing, or tell her to make it up to you and rope her into a threesome with Nina (srs)
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06-21-2013, 05:13 PM #6
"Will provide pics if requested"
Dafuq is this ****.
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06-21-2013, 05:17 PM #12
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I can understand where you are coming from brah.
I've never had a gf, just "things" and girls I hook up with, but I personally would be mad if my gf did that, simply because she said she wouldn't.
And I also hate sloppy drunks, which is what you described your gf to be like when you took her out of the club"So there I am sitting in the waiting area of the hair salon with my niece and Keanu Reeves walks in. I was nervous as ****, but too scared to say anything to him. Then my niece started crying, and I’m trying to quiet her down because I don't want to bother him. Pretty soon he walks over and asks what's wrong. I replied that she was probably hungry. He put down his magazine, picked up my niece, and lifted up his shirt, and breastfed her right there in the salon. Chill guy, really nice about it."
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You're gonna have to come to your own conclusion with this. You're gonna get one side of the misc saying you're gay because you're unhappy about girl on girl time, and you're gonna get the other side saying set up a threesome.
Me personally, I'd call her out on her drunken behavior and make it clear I'm not happy with that level of drinking. She'd probably hold back on the drink for half a year or maybe a whole year, but she'd be back in that state eventually. It's just a case of whether you love and trust her (no homer) when you decide what you're gonna do.**Hates own username crew**
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06-21-2013, 05:19 PM #17
Dude same here on the moral parts, have a talk with her about this. It will turn into a fight because multiple things are going to be talked about. She promise something and did another, got too drunk and made a fool out of herself and could have or probably gotten taken advantage of some other dude.
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06-21-2013, 05:20 PM #18
I have two things to say:
(1) Chicks making out with other chicks or even doing more is not cheating on you. I love it when my wife makes out with other women.
(2) Nothing I hate more than a sloppy drunk female. I love women...but they cannot handle their alcohol and are never funny, charming or cute when drunk. (no sexist)
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The problems lie before this this story ever took place.
She went out drinking/partying without you.
End of story, that's the problem.“Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will.” - Mahatma Gandhi.
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06-21-2013, 05:24 PM #26
Get drunk and text her that you're about to make out with your buddy Johnny because you used to before you met her and you want to do it again cuz she wants you and you want it, make sure to add this - :$
Proceed to make out with Johnny and let her catch you.
The tables have turned.
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urine idiot for allowing her to make out with other girls when you're around, but forbidding it when you're not present. you can't have it both ways, hypocrite.
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