Few days ago, my GF(1,5 years) went to this party, where things got out of hand and started texting me if she can make out with a female friend of hers. They already made out a few times before i even met my GF.
The texts went something like this:
A : Hey honey, can i fool around with Nina a bit today?
B : Do you want to?
A : She wants me
B : But you?
A : Yea, i want it a little too :$ ...since you are not here.
B : Do what u think is right
A : So i can fool around? :P
B : Do what you think is right for us
A : Okay, you don't want me too, i won't :* My kisses are just for you! :* :*
We have a strict policy regarding trust and respect for each other. We already talked about her making out with another girl and i said it would be alright if i was there also (to enjoy the action, i do find it kinda sexy), but it would bother me if she would act this way without me there(so other dudes can enjoy my GF acting all slutty).
Had a blast at the gym that day, so i decided to join the party later and i went there to say hi to the ppl i know and to escort my girl home, when cuz it was getting a bit late. Anyway, when i arrive i see her full on making out with her friend and i do was shocked, wanted to approach and confront her, but she somehow got into the V.I.P. and i'm on dat dere poverty time and didn't wanna blow cash unnecessary. Went to get a beer insted to cool off and called her that i'm at the party and want to see her. She immidiately came down to me and in a drunken stance explained how she made out with Nina. She was happy about it, not realising how i felt and what we were texting before....
To the drunken part now, before i could ask anything more, she started grabbing feeling me up, grabbing my dick, telling me how she loves it, wants it and how horny she is....altho sounds good on paper, i did not like this kind of behaviour(she is not usually like that at all), so i decided to take her out for a breath of fresh air....this is where i saw the stance she was in, she could not walk more than 15 meters on her own without leaning on object/almost falling down, she did not answer anything i ask, just some not understandable blubberish.
Basicly she did not know what she was doing and maybe if i haven't arrived, who knows what some other dude could make of the situation, use her (in the most black scenario)
Anyway...all my friends say its no biggie, all girls ( age 23) get drunk and like to party and the making out with another girl is hot and i should be happy.
I am a man of strong morals and i don't like to drink/despise druken people and we never had any problems in our relationship yet, so i can't just brush this under the carpet. The more i think about it, the more it worries me, she told me one thing, did another, she made out with another person after 2 years of only me, she was drunk out of her mind, not knowing what was happening. I do admit i find the image of the two girls making out damn sexy, but it bothers me, cuz i wasn't there and there were many other dudes, who prolly jacked off to the image the next morning and blasted a huge load with my girl in their mind.
I can not help, but be angry at her, cuz she destroyed the pure image i had about her. I don't think same of her after this experience and i want to forget about it, but it just keeps popping up in my mind. Maybe i just need some time, she is really a great girl, everything is great about her and i love her, altho i haven't told her the big L word yet. Anyway, i am looking for some advice from you fellow brahs on this situation. Also, the next day she cried and told me how sorry she is and she'll do anything to make it right again.
Also, i am on dat dere souther europe balkan time, such things are not common here and traditions are still quite strong(cant be compared to murica).
-GF drunk texts me she wants to make out with a girlfriend
-I let her know i wouldn't like it and she agrees she won't and "save her kisses for me"
-I decide to pick her up at the club
-Surprise, surprise, catch her making out
-She doesn't know whats going on, can't walk, grabbing my dick while i tell her i'm sad for what happened
-Feel bad about it, can't look at her the same as before
Just read the whole thing to undersand
Will provide pics if requested, but want a few good replies first.
EDIT: Aight, appriciate the replies, i don't have much pictures of them together and don't wanna really show my GF on here, heres one i found from a college event the two went to together