This is my only problem in socializing . I always thought the loud roudy obnoxious guy is he most popular. By I found this does not work for me cause people start to get pissdd of at me when I try to do that. However I'm confident, witty, decent looking and pretty well known in school. If I stop being a dik and being nice will people repect me? I'm sorry I'm so confused because I thought nice guys finish last....Is that only true of they are not confident and outgoing though?
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06-07-2013, 02:57 PM #1Registered User
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Are nice people considered beta?(srs)
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06-07-2013, 03:00 PM #2Why be a goofy tree?
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Same situation as you,was always the nice guy,bitches loved me but friend zoned easily,am now trying out the dick personality and bitches want the d. But I'll always be a nice guy inside,I dislike being dick,but people walk all over you when you're a nice guy op.Originally Posted by KingMisc
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06-07-2013, 03:01 PM #3
u gotta know when to be nice and when to be a douche. a beta is a scrub who is always nice even when ppl are dicks to him. being nice wouldn't make u any less alpha if u know when to stand your ground and **** **** up. basically dont let ppl walk over you and throw in a bit of douchiness once in a while. balance is key
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06-07-2013, 03:06 PM #4
I respect people who respect me
on this forum i'm red so nobody respects me so i hate you all.
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06-07-2013, 04:00 PM #5Registered Loser
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gotta be a mix. theres a point when being too nice is just being a pushover and when being too obnoxious and arrogant is fuking retarded u start to become stupid
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06-07-2013, 04:03 PM #6Registered User
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Op, look alpha but be nice, that way people won't walk over you, they'll know not to mess with you.
Just look at The Rock, hes considered one of the most alpha guys in the world but hes a nice guy."We want to kill something, and they want to give us meat that’s already dead. A real predator don’t want no cooked meat. You keep feeding a damn lion meat out of the refrigerator, it’s gonna lose its predatory instincts." - Ann Wolfe
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06-07-2013, 04:05 PM #7Copper Account Owner
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Just find the sweet spot. Be nice, but make sure people know you aren't going to put up with any crap.
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06-07-2013, 04:07 PM #8Registered User
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Simply just treat others how you would like to be treated, and yeah don't put up with tons of crap
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06-07-2013, 04:07 PM #9Bulking
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Alphas do things because they want to, betas do them because they feel they have to.
An alpha male does nice things because he likes doing nice things, a beta male does nice things because then he feels people owe him. An alpha male will do something nice and walk away afterwards with no acknowledgment of what he has done, a beta male will stick around and wait for positive reinforcement of what he has done (as an example, if you hold a door open for someone - if you get pissed off because someone didnt say thank you, you're beta)☆☆☆υк ¢яєω☆☆☆
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06-07-2013, 04:10 PM #10Aesthetic
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06-07-2013, 04:12 PM #11Rep Power: 1092950472
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I'm really nice.. I think.. But people walk all over you man... Don't be a "Yes Man" (basically if anyone asks you to do something you always say yes, regardless of your own busy schedule) because then you'll always be known as that.
Coming from experience.. As said before you should keep a balance between good and evil hahaSmitty Werbenjagermanjensen
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