>Browsing the internet after a good workout
>Door slams superloud
This is what he had on his mind:
>he wants me the fuk out of his house cus its tearing him apart
>not proud of me nor my brother or sister
>he tells me how pathetic he feels for leaving the room when his friends talk about their children
>Im to no use for him
>Im never interested in anything besides my own selfish hobbies
>Tells me how much his life has sucked up until now that im moving out
I should also mention he earns almost one million a year. He is currently building on his house. Its fuking massive and beautiful already
>Says my mom is responsible for me sucking at life and not letting him raise me as he was.
>How stupid and selfish she is etc etc
>Says my brother(22) and sister(18) are the most useless piece of trash
>he would beat the **** out of me (he hit me tons of times as a child with his bare hands or whatever his arms could reach
>compares me to others my age, how much more successful they are and again, how pathetic and what a loser i am
>i make no money, again compares me to others
>and he forces me to finish my paramedic education and tells me to wake the fuk up, If not, it will hit me in the face so hard and he would not be surprised if i comitted suicide.
He closes up by saying >wait until you get a wife and kids, and see how much you will regret
If i finish my paramedic education, i can earn 500k a year when i hit 25. Should i pursue my dream of becoming a teacher which will take me 4-5 extra years, or should i complete my eductaion, earn **** tons of money and do whatever the **** i want to do later? I graduated top of my class. I lectured my fellow students about diffusion, different heart conditions and how to treat them and many other things. Im capable of reading myself up to top grade in anything in 45 min tops. Did that in medicine and all kinds of tests. In norway the best grade is 6, lowest 1. I got 5.7 on average. Back in high school i was the worst student. Failed at everything cus i was so hunged up with gaming (still are)
Thoughts? I need to hear it guys. Give me tough and realistic love.
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06-03-2013, 02:35 PM #1
Dad lectured me for 15 mins straight, yelling
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your dad is a piece of shiit for ever hitting you as a child
but, you seem like a loser
you are 23 and live off of his success. and that bothers him, bc he probably had to work for all of his wealth... meanwhile you are an embarrassment.
youre last paragraph was so cringeworthy
you seem like you have no motivation to go after anything bc you have been spoon fed by your millionaire parents your entire life.
get off your fuking couch and do something with your life
hopefuly he kicks your ass to the curb and actually teaches you something about life
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Read this quote from Arnold OP
"So many young people are getting so much advice from their parents and from their teachers and from everyone. But what is most important is that you have to dig deep down, dig deep down and ask yourselves, who do you want to be? Not what, but who.
And I'm talking about not what your parents and teachers want you to be, but you. I’m talking about figuring out for yourselves what makes you happy, no matter how crazy it may sound to other people."
Do what makes YOU happy, it dosent matter what your dad thinks of you, phuck him
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Tell your dad that part of you is part of him. And if you're to blame, he's to blame. Further, his negativity isn't helping. If he wanted you to be something he had 18 years to get it right. Now, the best he can do is be a good example.
Don't you tell him that, it's disrespectful. But he can come in here and read it for himself.🎥
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I know he may not have the best methods of teaching you, but at 23 it's time to move out. You need to get an apartment and get a job OP.
Ask for your Father's wisdom OP. His knowledge is worth more than his money because his knowledge is what got him the money.
No more career changes. Get a job, move out and get to work.
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