To Those 25 Up... Are Your Friends Mostly Married/With Kids By Now?

[The_Albatross]

Most of them are.

I have no plans to follow suit.

They range from miserable to content, but with strong regrets. Most of the regrets being that a few of them wifed up and settled down with their highschool/college girlfriends. Their lives were like a production line, graduate high school, start college, meet girl, graduate college, start boring ass 9-5 career, move in with girlfriend, get engaged, get married, have kids. They basically skipped over any potential freedom to do what they wanted from their early 20s to their mid 30s. They always are telling me about things they wish they could do but can't for a variety of reasons.

[RCMDCanuck]

Canada brah ? the alimony is supposed to be temporary and with a good reason for the gilr not to be able to work.

50% of the assets acquired together are you sure about that ? Like if you buy a TV with your credit card under your name she still owns 50% of it ?

We had a huge debate here in Quebec that finished in supreme court :

http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/montre...ivil-code.html

Fck the goverment that say we need to split everything after x months or have any god damn responsibility to a girl we lived with for any amount of time.

Best way to scare anyone out of a serious relationship... after 11 months and 28 days, nexxxxxt !

Yeah it was passed as law in British Columbia. 50% of assets that came into the household since you two were living together. You also share each other's debts.

This can apply too if you are two male roommates, and the other roommate claims you were in a homosexual relationship (lying).

I've even had Girlfriend and Dates say that is crazy but I bet the Gold Diggers are all relocating to B.C. as we speak. BRB - don't get kicked out of a rich guy's apartment before 365 days and you've made a good paycheque + alimony.

[Funkdubius]

"People always want to compare themselves to other people, but I've always found the most relevant comparison is between who you are and who you can become."

True, and also we only see what others want us to see.

When I see a friend we always ask : hey man whats up how you doing ?!

Even if you feel like crap your not gonna start saying : Im sad man things are not going well....

We see happy pictures posted on FB every day.

Do you see any couple fight pictures posted on FB ?

The grass is not greener on the other side brahs....

[Funkdubius]

Yeah it was passed as law in British Columbia. 50% of assets that came into the household since you two were living together. You also share each other's debts.

This can apply too if you are two male roommates, and the other roommate claims you were in a homosexual relationship (lying).

I've even had Girlfriend and Dates say that is crazy but I bet the Gold Diggers are all relocating to B.C. as we speak. BRB - don't get kicked out of a rich guy's apartment before 365 days and you've made a good paycheque + alimony.

Thats insane....CRAZY totally crazy.

I would NEVER live with a girl then. I got my place you got yours...thats it.

Stupid goverment forcing marriage rules to every damn couple.

[Beararms]

My lil bro is married. Big bro has a gf with a kid on the way. I'm the odd ball out now but whatever. Money is mine and I dont have to answer to anyone.

[mac2118]

most of my friends are married, engaged, kids..

my weekends:



minus the girl.... dem feels..

[Funkdubius]

Most of them are.

I have no plans to follow suit.

They range from miserable to content, but with strong regrets. Most of the regrets being that a few of them wifed up and settled down with their highschool/college girlfriends. Their lives were like a production line, graduate high school, start college, meet girl, graduate college, start boring ass 9-5 career, move in with girlfriend, get engaged, get married, have kids. They basically skipped over any potential freedom to do what they wanted from their early 20s to their mid 30s. They always are telling me about things they wish they could do but can't for a variety of reasons.

I recognise myself in this post brah, even tho having my baby is the best thing life gave me.

[Johnnyfalcon731]

Many are.. Most aren't.. Lulz at the ones who started @ 18... They def missed out on life.. Lulz at the ones who got married because of kids (divorced) .. Lulz at the ones remarried with someone elses kid.. Da fuk!?!

[RCMDCanuck]

Thats insane....CRAZY totally crazy.

I would NEVER live with a girl then. I got my place you got yours...thats it.

Stupid goverment forcing marriage rules to every damn couple.

Good way for a dude or a girl to eliminate their student debts. BRB - live with someone for a year (never tell them about your debts) and you'll have it reduced by 50% each year.

[copiusGains]

Many are.. Most aren't.. Lulz at the ones who started @ 18... They def missed out on life.. Lulz at the ones who got married because of kids (divorced) .. Lulz at the ones remarried with someone elses kid.. Da fuk!?!

wut about the ones who married the first girl they phucked at 21yrs old? And then went to the army?

[RCMDCanuck]

What do you do for a career? You seem like you live a pretty good life.

Lol unless someone is a trust fund baby - hard to escape the 9:5. BRB - self-employed people often work 60+ hours a week.
I'm a shift worker who only work 7 days on and then 7 off, it's nice that every other week is like spring break.

I work at a Plant and I get assigned to a computer station like Homer Simpson, srs. Easy job.

[MatSalleh]

25 and none of my close friends are married. A couple of them have had steady girlfriends tho. But I admit that I only know uni grads so most of us are still starting out with our jobs and dont have a real income.

[NickA44]

it's starting to happen for me

never been to a wedding in my life before a march
then boom I was the best man in my best friends wedding and have at least 3 more to go to this summer
I have a friend already married

none of my close friends have kids yet tho

[_zman]

Compared to my long-term HS type friends, I think I'm the only one that isn't married. All are married and some have 1 to two kids already. None divorced yet.

They constantly try to get me to chase tail and say, "man if I wasn't married, I'd be all over that." But I have literally no desire to find an American woman, there is seriously something wrong with em.

[Beararms]

wut about the ones who married the first girl they phucked at 21yrs old? And then went to the army?

I know a bunch and they are usually the ones with a overweight wife and 2-3 kids.

[RubberDuckyBrah]

I don't even have friends anymore.

[attentive]

I am not 25 yet, however i have friends, family members and some peers from school i still keep contact with which are already married before 25 and some that are older than 25.

Like half of some friends and school peers got married right after college or during college i still talk to them and most of them seem miserable. Most of them won't outright say it though but i can tell by the well they speak for example i will say '' hey have have you been'' , most of the responses are '' you know married with the wife and kids ( and then a little small breath after saying that''.

I think a good amount of people who get married under 25 are mostly dumb asses who just want to fit in or women who want men to support them through college or until they figure out what to do. I say this because i seen this happen before, women who get married in their early 20's usually cheat and leave soon after.

For me i do not seek a serious relationship until after 30 ish, its not worth it for me and i definitely don't want kids or a wife this soon otherwise most of my plans will surely be ruined. Kids i have in my mind but a wife i probably will second guess that one, although my perception of viewing things will probably change once again when i get a little older.

[JKBRAH]

Same but my friends are 21-23. To young to get married imo

[RCMDCanuck]

I am not 25 yet, however i have friends, family members and some peers from school i still keep contact with which are already married before 25 and some that are older than 25.

Like half of some friends and school peers got married right after college or during college i still talk to them and most of them seem miserable. Most of them won't outright say it though but i can tell by the well they speak for example i will say '' hey have have you been'' , most of the responses are '' you know married with the wife and kids ( and then a little small breath after saying that''.

I think a good amount of people who get married under 25 are mostly dumb asses who just want to fit in or women who want men to support them through college or until they figure out what to do. I say this because i seen this happen before, women who get married in their early 20's usually cheat and leave soon after.

For me i do not seek a serious relationship until after 30 ish, its not worth it for me and i definitely don't want kids or a wife this soon otherwise most of my plans will surely be ruined. Kids i have in my mind but a wife i probably will second guess that one, although my perception of viewing things will probably change once again when i get a little older.

The hottest girls I know all seem to be permanently tied up in a relationship. There are some sl000ts, who never settle down of course, but they are the exception. A lot of 7's and 8's out there who have been in a relationship with a Highschool Sweetheart or first year college sweet heart, srs.


BRB - know many older men through my Father and most of them are divorced and emotionally broken men. The ones who are still married are effectively held by the balls by their wife, srs.

[RCMDCanuck]

This guy was Alpha until he married this bish.

Cliffs:

- Millionaire Gambler in Vegas.
- Avoided marriage and Girlfriends, was a player for over 40 years.
- Regularly f*cked Playboy Bunnies
- Banged 8's and 9's
- Met this woman at like age 55 / 60, quit gambling and bought her a restaurant in Arizona. The restaurant in Arizona is going bankrupt. Dude is losing all his money and is stuck with a crazy sl00t who never desrved his money.

Dude shouldn't had gotten married - he could still be banging bishes in Vegas, srs. Especially with viagra these days, dudes can keep f*cking until they are 90 years old.

[.aeterna]

1 is married
1 is engaged
a few in serious relationships
most of them are single

im 25. most of these guys are 24-26

[stokehouse111]

28 y/o here.

once one of the couples married its like all the GFs put mad pressure and now they all racing to get married and racing to have babies, kinda messed up if ya ask me. For instance one had a wedding scheduled and another couple got engaged and made their wedding a week earlier. i couldn't give two ****s about it its free booze two weekends in a row but there was a big scene about it...ugh

also not digging any of the names people are picking for kids these days, purposely miss spelt names or just weird stuff.

[pghchick]

Unmarried female checking in. Most of my friends are married and/or have children. Married friends are easier to make plans with but friends with children are barely my friends anymore. Considering the stress of divorce and child rearing I'd like wait a while and get the most out of my 20's.

[Jenslyn17]

No, not at all

[oumoklaklak]

OP you've witnessed the 'marriage wave'. Wait a few years, grab yourself a drink and some popcorn, sit back, and witness the 'divorce wave'.

[copiusGains]

Why get married these dayz? Women expect men to court them, but a man had better not expect a virgin, since some ******* took that her freshman year? I just monkey

branch these hoez. I feel terrible sometimes tho, becuz some do seem like they want love, but then I remember me a few yrs bak, and I real lize romantic love is all bullchit. Lol at modern men. Have fun paying for what others got for free as she wears a white dress, when it shud be black

[RCMDCanuck]

Unmarried female checking in. Most of my friends are married and/or have children. Married friends are easier to make plans with but friends with children are barely my friends anymore. Considering the stress of divorce and child rearing I'd like wait a while and get the most out of my 20's.

Future cat lady / bag lady crew. . .

[NyC_BosaNaC]

ppl in the balkans tend to get married ridiculously young (18 yrs wtf) and its super funny when they ask me when I'm getting married. Fuk that shyt bro...95% of women are pure trash with no direction, motivation or drive other than party it up, sloot it up and suck some bbc's. Haven't even maintained a relationship more than a couple of weeks

[copiusGains]

I know a bunch and they are usually the ones with a overweight wife and 2-3 kids.

lol, is this after? My friends gf is 98lbs, and a 6/10 at best.

[Celiat]

Not 25 (yet), but most couple of my friends got married after high school, some are doing pretty okay, others you can tell are bout to hop on that divorce train soon.

Not getting married anytime in the near future crew.