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-me and dude used to be good friends
-he is my supervisor (aka not my boss but in charge of me still) he is only 2 yr older than me
-recently he has become a massive dick to me. calling me offensive names for 'banter' when from the first time he did this i firmly told him to stop, taking the piss out of me for no reason, negging me in front of female colleagues
-i dont say anything back because im too nice. however he is fat, has no aspirations, has a boring life, plays video games 24/7, **** car, lives with rents, ugly as fuk compared to me etc
-i have told him to stop being a kunt to me, at first jokingly but he continued. i got more and more serious until today when he just randomly talked **** about me in front of this girl that he fawns over (she has a bf but to be fair she is hot), and i just said to him 'dude if you give me **** once more i will knock you out' to which he goes 'good i can go home, and you'll get fired'. i reply 'not really because i can just say it was provoked from abuse' but to be honest, my boss won't belive me. everyone loves the guy. he is only an ******* to me in the company. no one else.
-i dont want to look like a pussy by going to manager
-he has 0 respect for me, and i don't know why. I thought this 'nice guy' **** was only to do with females. you can be nice to dudes surely.. I am nice to like everyone.
-i would love to beat the **** out of him. but i will probably get fired, because everyone loves him at work.
-he is one of these kunts who only certain people can see the true person. the ignorant folk just see the nice/funny outer core but below it lies a manipulative/using/untrustworthy prick
what do i do
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05-30-2013, 10:59 AM #1
Should i fight my co-worker (srs) (advice please)
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Do the same thing to him that he's doing to you ie take the piss out of him and make him look bad. Carefull you don't go to far ie humiliate him because of his looks etc as you'll look the bad guy then in everyone's eyes. Definitely don't fight him though as you will lose your job and he will get sympathy off everyone.
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05-30-2013, 11:03 AM #12
all i can think of doing is just calling him out on his **** life and the fact he is fat.
what the fuk do i do then. i have never been in this situation before in my life. I got some **** when i was in school, but i was a weak skinny ******* back then, so i would have lost all fights i started so i just took it
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05-30-2013, 11:04 AM #15
Physical violence is punished in society. While mental cunning and political savvy is rewarded. If you really want to fukk some one over you have to do it politically in the office. Sounds like he has already done that to you. If you are going to go to jail over assaulting your coworker, might as well just kill him and depose of his body.
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05-30-2013, 11:04 AM #16
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When he negs you just neg him back.
Be like sorry i couldn't hear you over the friction of your stomache rubbing against the ground.
Ask him about the last time he saw his dick.
Every time he wk's ask him if he actually thinks it will ever get him laid.
Just go with standard fat person lines. If that doesn't work go for the balls about his life and how pathetic it is.
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05-30-2013, 11:07 AM #22
dont go full burlap brah
do something on the sly that will make him attack you(srs).
he gets fired, you get his job + raise + sympathy sloots
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05-30-2013, 11:09 AM #23
If that was me i would just go over his head to the manager and submit a formal complaint / harassment issue. This will be way more hurtful to him then any fight would, and you wouldn't be risking your job. What happens in the work place stays in the work place. Thats just how things work in that place brah
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05-30-2013, 11:13 AM #29
of course it bothers me. in school everyone was on the same level. this dude is above me, thus he controls me. i am controlled by a person giving me ****. i look pretty big with a shirt on. i get told this quite a lot by people at work. I have never had to face someone taking the piss out of me or calling me names or whatever. I used intimidation factor alone to fight my battles for me in the past because they simply never occurred
and i did. it didn't work.
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