Getting over my girlfriend's sexual past

[cbertagni]

I'm 20. Went out with this girl in summer. Feel off didn't keep talking. Stayed talking again two weeks before Halloween. There were definitely feelings there. She sleep with this guy on Halloween. I found out and was done. She gave me this sob story I'mabout being drunk and not wanting to do it. A week later we were at a party and we left together. Things progressed from there we started dating and I love her too death. But her past really haunts me. She's slept with 7 other guys and a couple of them did some nasty things. I've slept with one other girl and really have a hard time dealing with this. Especially the guy on Halloween. I need some help!
Chad

[TheSeriousOne92]

What kind of nasty things?

[cbertagni]

The big A. Along with other similar things

[weightsloveme]

Look at it this way... you can enjoy her honed sexual skills!

[cbertagni]

I see what you are saying but the value on sex just seems blurred. Not as a connection between two people who are in love but something to just do. I don't get how someone can justify sleeping around when it's supposed to be something special

[LordBroski]

I'm 20. Went out with this girl in summer. Feel off didn't keep talking. Stayed talking again two weeks before Halloween. There were definitely feelings there. She sleep with this guy on Halloween. I found out and was done. She gave me this sob story I'mabout being drunk and not wanting to do it. A week later we were at a party and we left together. Things progressed from there we started dating and I love her too death. But her past really haunts me. She's slept with 7 other guys and a couple of them did some nasty things. I've slept with one other girl and really have a hard time dealing with this. Especially the guy on Halloween. I need some help!
Chad

Your situation is different. Were you even "official" before halloween? If there was no mention of exclusivity, then nothing you can do man. FYI, she lied about "not wanting to do it". Girls always pull that card to defend their actions and defer blame. The reality is, she wanted it, and enjoyed every second of it. If you let girls lies satisfy your ego and insecurities, you're setting yourself up for failure and manipulation.

I used to be very jealous about this kind of thing... then I went on to nail 35 women and have done pretty much everything that can be done to them. Girls are the ones who are jealous/insecure about me, not the other way around. Go get some, or, just find a way to accept it and get over it.

[cbertagni]

There was no exclusive. She was blacked out drunk and doesn't remember anything that happened.

[cbertagni]

Which is how most of the others are as well. Super intoxicated hook ups. Which causes concern.

[Jasonw1178]

Seems most girls go through a phase once they lose their V-cards. After that relationship they go into a rebound. Then they find that sleeping around doesn't bring them joy and settle down. Most do, but there are a few who don't.

There are two types of women, prudes and sloots, most are a bit in the middle. A girl that likes sex is not going to let being single get in the way. The big question here is, does she have standards?

My girl has a long sexual past, but all of her past partners were decent guys. Her friend however, has had less partners but recently went to a hotel room with some guy she met who was selling meat out of the back of a truck, and was clearly on something.

[Autopilot]

Life is to short to be stressing about what someone else did before they met you. As long as she wasnt a prostitute or had a train ran on her by your friends I wouldnt worry about it. Everyone has a past..

[FitnessBlue]

I see the thread goes on lol

[letshavebabies]

Life is to short to be stressing about what someone else did before they met you. As long as she wasnt a prostitute or had a train ran on her by your friends I wouldnt worry about it. Everyone has a past..

so you going to marry a criminal? or hire an ex murderer who has served his time?

the past does matter. those who do not remember the past will are condemned to repeat it.

[vankuzzy]

she's 20 and has already had sex with 7 guys. only 3 of them were boyfriends. i have only slept with 1 girl besides her. I care alot about her and do love her but it always comes up in my mind a bit. especially this one guy who is a white trash mother ****er.

I never mention it to her but it does bug me. Do I just need to get over it?

It personally would not bug me, not quite sure why it bugs you. It's quite normal to have had 7 partners as 20.

[vankuzzy]

I'm 20. Went out with this girl in summer. Feel off didn't keep talking. Stayed talking again two weeks before Halloween. There were definitely feelings there. She sleep with this guy on Halloween. I found out and was done. She gave me this sob story I'mabout being drunk and not wanting to do it. A week later we were at a party and we left together. Things progressed from there we started dating and I love her too death. But her past really haunts me. She's slept with 7 other guys and a couple of them did some nasty things. I've slept with one other girl and really have a hard time dealing with this. Especially the guy on Halloween. I need some help!
Chad

I think your problems might be that you have not slept with very many girls. So I'd say the solution is to sleep with some more girls and do some nasty stuff, then it won't be a problem anymore

[BreakYouDown]

I remember this one time my ex and I were driving and I was listening to one of my favorite songs and then out of no where, she tells me how she lost her V card whilst this song was playing.

Now that really fuked with me for a bit

[Autopilot]

so you going to marry a criminal? or hire an ex murderer who has served his time?

the past does matter. those who do not remember the past will are condemned to repeat it.

Im talking about their sexual past. No I wouldn't seriously date a chick that has banged 100 dude. To stress about a chick that has been with 7 guys at 20 is dumb......thats practically a virgin by todays standards.

[bassinyoface]

Here we go again. Expected *******s with their "past is the past" or "don't ask don't tell" mentality. Forget that! If her past bugs you, it's your personality type aka (Alpha male). You will never be able to play ignorance like some do. Past behaviours are the best predictors of future behaviours. You also have limited experience though, that only adds to your frustration. I for one, would never be proud of having a girl with a raunchy past hanging off my arm. Yes my past is raunchy, but as an owner of a penis...it's natural

With that said, 7 penises isn't too high, but higher than wife material as far as I am concered. But hey, that's me.

agreed 10000%

Lately I have been doing a little social experiment of my own trying to be a BF material dude to sluts I bang just to see their reaction (ie. take them out, try to cuddle after, etc). My results were exactly what I thought, and what I knew...girls who have had high numbers of partners have A LOT of difficulty ever forming meaningful emotional bonds with anyone; its literally easier for them to get naked and **** than it is to tell you how many brothers and sisters they have. I was banging a gorgeous sloot two weeks ago who told me she banged 10 guys by the time she was 20...lol at you guys who say thats not a lot. I guess we're all different but if a girl was banging TRASH before you and you feel your worth something chances are she doesn't give a phuck if you offer more than trash. Although past behaviour definitely correlates with future behaviour in my opinion, some girls can change. But from what it sounds like OP you need to get rid of that broad. Keep your standards high, and don't settle for a girl that your gut is telling you has had way too many dicks in her for YOUR preference..the MISC cannot tell you what you should think; form your own opinion. Just because society and the ****hole that we live in these days glorifies sex, cheating, and promiscuity doesn't mean you have to. Thats my opinion, I'm an old school motherphucker though

be your own man

[Mr.Creatine]

will backread

[humblegenius]

A lot of guys and girls need to real about the condition "Retroactive Jealously", it will help you identify why it bothers you, and what you need to do to learn to overcome it.

Enjoy.

[FitnessBlue]

A lot of guys and girls need to real about the condition "Retroactive Jealously", it will help you identify why it bothers you, and what you need to do to learn to overcome it.

Enjoy.

Window licking feminized beta^

[Lightsoft]

lol. The past is not the past. It is indicative of the future.

If you guys want to settle with a beta girl go ahead.

[WhyYouDoThis]

agreed 10000%

Lately I have been doing a little social experiment of my own trying to be a BF material dude to sluts I bang just to see their reaction (ie. take them out, try to cuddle after, etc). My results were exactly what I thought, and what I knew...girls who have had high numbers of partners have A LOT of difficulty ever forming meaningful emotional bonds with anyone; its literally easier for them to get naked and **** than it is to tell you how many brothers and sisters they have. I was banging a gorgeous sloot two weeks ago who told me she banged 10 guys by the time she was 20...lol at you guys who say thats not a lot. I guess we're all different but if a girl was banging TRASH before you and you feel your worth something chances are she doesn't give a phuck if you offer more than trash. Although past behaviour definitely correlates with future behaviour in my opinion, some girls can change. But from what it sounds like OP you need to get rid of that broad. Keep your standards high, and don't settle for a girl that your gut is telling you has had way too many dicks in her for YOUR preference..the MISC cannot tell you what you should think; form your own opinion. Just because society and the ****hole that we live in these days glorifies sex, cheating, and promiscuity doesn't mean you have to. Thats my opinion, I'm an old school motherphucker though

be your own man

Truth be told!

[FitnessBlue]

Life is to short to be stressing about what someone else did before they met you. As long as she wasnt a prostitute or had a train ran on her by your friends I wouldnt worry about it. Everyone has a past..

Life is too short to waste it committed to a sloot.

[marin3muscl3]

Dealing with the same **** atm. Mine only had one which she never had sex with but did everything else, it still ****ing bugs me.

[YoungAndSmooth]

Yes my past is raunchy, but as an owner of a penis...it's natural

With that said, 7 penises isn't too high, but hey, that's me.

Indeed my friend, I bet many women have enjoyed the using of your cock.

[YoungAndSmooth]

Myself, I prefer experienced partners.

Boring, 'safe' girls are for Betas. True Alphas connect with confident, sexually ambitious/mischievous women on an intellectual, and intense sexual level. Betas are insecure and need to find timid, traditional, virgin types as they cannot meet a girl on even terms without hiding behind the judeo-christian morality structure/gender roleplay. Also, Beta's can't keep an experienced girl for long because they suck at sex, and are generally resentful/whiny as evidenced in this thread. You ain't no hunter if all you do is shoot pigeons, and you can't be a conqueror unless you hold down the liveliest territories. That's what Hans Svensson Snr. always used to say.

Simple psychology brahs.

[FUCKYouASSHOL3]

Girls can sleep woth who they want while their single just as guys can theres nothing qrong witj that

[FUCKYouASSHOL3]

Yea i like ur opinions man

[FUCKYouASSHOL3]

She slept with people while shes single. Get over it

[MrHydrochloride]

Seriously unless she's bangn 7 other guys while with you don't worry about it

As far as actually who she slootd yea that's tuff knowing some ugly nasty ass dude was busting all over her




Just take comfort that women have to go to clinics every so often for check ups and she took zillions of showers since him