Confirmed: All women are whores. Just got cheated on.. advice pls (srs)(NO PICS)
First off, I am not nearly as hurt as I thought I would be, but then again I did just get told. Might sink in more later.. I have been deployed for about 8 months now and all my suspicions of my gf cheating before I may of had are null since she just asked me to call and when she answered she was BALLING and admitted to me she cheated a couple hours ago while extremely drunk.
So it may sound weird, but I was almost relieved to know she at least isn't a cheating whore who keeps it from me with multiple guys, groce. However, she still cheated and I am still very confused on how I feel and sh!t. Just blows my mind how she was able to speak so harshly on the subject, and tell me she has a zero tolerance policy so if I cheat I'm gone no questions. Guess she never thought she would actually do it.
So.. I ask you misc, what do? Let's rewind real quick. The girl is (or was) an amazing person overall. She is very sweet, drama free, adventurous, wouldn't hurt a fly type. I am very attracted to her, and she usually gets nothing but compliments on her looks. It's honestly sad, I have been bracing myself for this all deployment, being a miscer you really just expect these things. Once it actually happens, you say "Well that figures".
Really wouldn't have taken her as the type to actually do this.. She just got a boobjob last monday (I know what you're thinking..), and was really depressed b.c she was on painkillers.. goes out last night since she was finally feeling a little better and off the meds.. and gets dicked down by some ugly ******* (saw pics of him on ******** I was disappoint).
I already know you think you have the girl figured out judging by what I wrote and I do not blame you. But I will say she is (or once again was) a very special and different person, unlike any girl I've met or been used to.
Any misc brahs forgive a girl for cheating? Did it work out? Advice and thoughts misc, thanks.
Cliffs:
-Gf of 9 months (8 of those months I have been deployed still am) cheated on me. Admitted immediately and cried extremely hard while doing so.
-Really really good girlfriend prior to this event. Unlike any girl I've met, attractive, sweet, drama free etc..
-I already know what everyone is going to say, but need to know if anyone has forgiven their girl or ex for cheating and what happened after..
-My sister says to dump her, no questions asked.
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11-13-2011, 06:47 AM #1Banned
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Confirmed: All women are whores. Just got cheated on.. advice pls (srs)(NO PICS)
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11-13-2011, 06:49 AM #2One Of Our Top Posters!
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Your sister is right.
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11-13-2011, 06:49 AM #3Platinum User
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Since she supposedly has a zero tolerance policy for cheating, I see it as you have no choice but to break it off or you will be forever her bitch.
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11-13-2011, 06:50 AM #4Registered User
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Your sister is right.
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11-13-2011, 06:50 AM #5Infantry stylin on ya
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your sister is right man...the bitch cheated on you GTFO of this relationship and move on.
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11-13-2011, 06:50 AM #6Banned
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bawling
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11-13-2011, 06:51 AM #7
8 of 9 months you werent there. not shocked really. Shouldnt be a big deal... just move on
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11-13-2011, 06:51 AM #8Registered User
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Your sister speaks the truth.
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11-13-2011, 06:51 AM #9Lol
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I'd get rid. Being drunk is not excuse, but, she obviously feels distraught about it and has been honest with you.
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11-13-2011, 06:51 AM #10Banned
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Drop her ass, have some self respect. Plus all women lie, you can multiply whatever number they give you by 3.
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11-13-2011, 06:51 AM #11Registered User
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Easy one, once a cheater always a cheater.
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11-13-2011, 06:51 AM #12Registered User
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Yeah bro, you should forgive her.
It's not her fault that she cheated. It's just the fact that her emotions were running so high and she was so confused. She had feelings for you but the guy just ran real tight game on her and she couldn't help herself.
She just had to open up her legs and get pounded. She still loves you though, she was just confused about your guys relationship, that's all.
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11-13-2011, 06:51 AM #13Registered User
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No offense OP...but if youre deployed...should have cut ties before you left.
This is a classic military tale
If you're really into her, talk about being together when you get out but don't smash her into oblivion.
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11-13-2011, 06:52 AM #14Unregistered User
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Once a whore, always a whore.
If you give her a chance now, shes gonna take it for granted and do the same thing again in future. The only way she will learn a lesson is if you dump her and move on (srs). And even if she doesn't learn a lesson thats none of your business because shes out of your life and now she can cheat on other ****s all she wants.
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11-13-2011, 06:52 AM #15
If she can't complete even the simplest/easiest part of being in a relationship (being monogamous), how do you expect her to do anything else? Also LOL @ the fact that her crying means anything at all to you, so she feels bad, yeah everyone feels bad when they **** up. Send her this song and never speak to her again:
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11-13-2011, 06:52 AM #16
piitb and leave her
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11-13-2011, 06:52 AM #17Y2J™
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Cheat on her x10 and you should be even.
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11-13-2011, 06:52 AM #18
ur a massive ******* if u don't break it off with here completely (srs)
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11-13-2011, 06:53 AM #19
OP you will look like such a beta pussy if you forgive her and continue your relationship
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11-13-2011, 06:53 AM #20Kunt Destroyer
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Never forgive a wh0re brah
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11-13-2011, 06:53 AM #21Petty
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You dated for a month irl. You deserve to get cheated on if you take her back (srs)
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11-13-2011, 06:54 AM #22high rep manlet
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she cheated on you around veterans day
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11-13-2011, 06:54 AM #23"Your one f*ck fantasy"
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she cheated on you. All those good qualities you just described gets tossed out the window. Go find someone else.
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11-13-2011, 06:54 AM #24dont ever forgive her, cheating is so fukedOriginally Posted by ScubaStevo
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11-13-2011, 06:55 AM #25anonymousGuest
Read until I saw "deployed."
What? You thought she wasn't going to cheat on you?
I bet 99% of the people who are deployed get cheated on (or cheat). Every time I read a story about someone getting cheated on and it involves the military, I facepalm.
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11-13-2011, 06:56 AM #26Originally Posted by OnfiyA
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11-13-2011, 06:56 AM #27bring da ambalamps
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your sister gives good advice
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11-13-2011, 06:58 AM #28Banned
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Dump that bitch...if she really cared about you, she would NEVER even THINK of cheating on you.
This will happen again. She will think that if you forgave her once, you will again and she will most likely feel that she would always get away with it if you continue being a beta *******.
Dump that useless whore and move on.
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11-13-2011, 06:58 AM #29Registered User
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Finish off in her mouth and say: I feel relieved to leave you
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She cheated on you while you were serving? Never forgive the bitch.
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