Anybody ever date a girl with Social Anxiety? My girlfriend doesn't have hobby or friends... and its like she is happy with me one moment, and then when she has time to think to herself she gets all unhappy because I am her whole world, but she isn't mine. I got hobbies, friends, and I try to better myself. She doesn't work and has never had a job (she plans to get one this summer). So when she doesn't have school, and isn't hanging out with me, she usually just sits at home and sits on the internet and does whatever she does at home.
My school has a confessions facebook page, and lately its been flooded with "I have no friends and I feel so alone" crap and our school has like 25k students. I liked a friends post where he basically said that now is the time to change and making friends is never going to be easier than it is now, and my girlfriend got mad at me for liking such a "dick" comment, and for not understanding her and believing that you can just magically cure Social Anxiety. I understand it can't be magically cured... but she like complains when I try to give her advice. My grandma wanted to take us out to dinner tonight, and she was fine with it, until today and she acts like I am forcing her to go to dinner with my grandma. She constantly thinks that I don't truly want to be with her and I am only with her because I like to hang out with her...
Everything can be completely good, and then the next morning she is all unhappy again, and it gets frustrating. My buddy invited us to go to his lake house over spring break, and she essentially ruined it for me because she thought I was being flirty and wanted to bang everybody elses girlfriends, when I was just having a good time (nobody else thought this). She thinks everyone is judging her and she needs at least a days notice to basically do anything involving other people.
Thoughts? Should I try to be more understanding of her social anxiety and not try to make her do anything involving my friends and family all the time? Or should I just find a girl without problems?
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