You know what I meant though dude
Doesnt make sense. Confidence should help you with whatever you put it into.
I use to have basically the best physique everywhere I went at 6'3 (no brag). Then I lost all motivation for the gym and basically stopped going. I still have a decent physique but I dont know if Ill be lifting again anytime soon like how I used to. A great physique didnt do any good for me when I had it.
And I want to go to a bar or club but I have nobody to go with me. I would look like a loser. Maybe once my friends turn legal age. Thanks for the advice brah
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OP I used to be in your shoes. Than one day I thought about the big picture and what my options were...
A.Kill myself.
B. Be a miserable wreck for the rest of my life was 21 at the time.
C. Do everything I could possibly do no matter what it took to ensure that I would change and be happy again.
I chose C. Now 8 years later after consistently and slowly but surely improving every facet of my life I am now ballin status, hoes flock everywhere I go, in the best physical shape of my life both aesthetically and healthwise, best mental shape, and just have an overall loving positive outlook on life regardless of what happens. Recently got a divorce and still not a single fuk given. Life is good man. It's all about how you see yourself. Work hard gain success.
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You're only 21 mate, you haven't even started to get s*** together yet. Don't worry about it at this stage. Enjoy your youth. Get experience in as many different jobs and activities as you can. Never worry about women, ever. Get your life in order, make friends, and the ladies will come.
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04-14-2013, 02:00 AM #103
In for results. Going through the same ****.
OP if it makes you feel any better here's my situation compared to yours.
-2.5+ GPA
-Job I hate
-Just paid off my debt (FINALLY)
-FA (Recently realized that I don't give a **** either and with position I'm in, it's better to work on myself.)
-Don't know what to do in life either. (Thinking of of traveling after I save up a few Gs)
-No motivation to do **** either! (I have my hobbies and **** I want to do, but damn for some reason I have no motivation to go out there and pursue).
and on top of all that, I JUST GOT REJECTED TO TRANSFER TO A UNIVERSITY!!! ****!!! I was so looking forward to that and now I gotta fix some BS and wait another year (This is why I'm thinking about traveling).
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04-14-2013, 02:03 AM #104
I know I wont be getting any ladies after being rejected 20+ times. Ill most likely just use escorts. I hope I get my life in order soon though brah
Well Im done approaching girls for now. You dont know how depressed I got when i found out nobody I asked IRL has been rejected as much as me. I know I cant get girls for chit now
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04-14-2013, 02:17 AM #111
My top three are (in no special order) *****, Japan, or the Phillippines.
***** cause **** that's basically the modern day Atlantis to me.
Japan cause I've always been into Japanese crap and would be an awesome place to visit.
PI cause it's the homeland. I minus well see how well I really DO have it off here compared to how it might be over there (Being that this is my homeland, it's safe for you to assume that I ain't no 6'3" kunt either).
So with that being the case, I crucial I take the steps to learn the language. Already got Rosetta Stone for several languages and after some research, I could chat with people over Skype to practice the language aiding them in practicing their English.
Honestly I think our problem could be that we're having trouble remember the benefits in the long term.
I used to be an optimistic as **** brah too! I did see the benefits of it all, but now for some whack ass reason, I just can't turn over and get back in that mood.
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04-14-2013, 02:18 AM #112
stop dwelling on all the negative aspects of your life, it seems like all you do is feel bad, even in all your posts here
if your mindset is negative you will look at everything in a negative way. you choose the way you look at things, noone else. pick something you like, and pursue it. if youre really such a sad sack of **** that you cant think of anything thats fun and interesting to you then really get the **** over yourself. other people have problems too and somehow they manage. why should you be different. go to uni become educated **** bitches get swole ****ing YOLO brah
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04-14-2013, 02:37 AM #116
I honestly feel like I can say the same. I used to feel like the **** compared to my friends and peers, but now when I look around, I've summed into... well nothing much really!
I've been going through with depression for months now. The thing is sometimes I feel like I have what it takes, then all of a sudden I loose the urge and just end up zoning out for the day. It's up and down with me.
I started to take Niacin and L-Trytophan since they're supposed to support natural serotonin and melatonin production and yet I'm still having these weird ups and downs.
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04-14-2013, 02:47 AM #117
actually i think traveling would be really good for you. if you've got the dough for the flight go down to south america, i spent a few months down there and i think it could be the best thing you ever do on so many levels. first traveling forces you to talk to other people, including girls. also they're generally easier to get with when they're traveling. if you go to columbia the girls there will basically do anything for free and that will really help you build some self esteem.
besides girls just traveling and meeting other people and seeing how some of the poorer countries in the world live like might put things in perspective for you, i know it did for me. you dont need a whole lot of money to go down there and everything is dirt cheap.
same thing goes for the far east (india, thailand, etc) though the flight might be more expensive. if you do decide to travel hit me up i can give you some tips. i'd seriously think about it if i were you.
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04-14-2013, 02:51 AM #118
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04-14-2013, 02:52 AM #119
Well I dont think people around me think Im a failure. But I see them moving off to uni, getting bishes, etc. And here I am with nothing and having no clue of what I want to do. Not to mention I just dont give a fuk about doing anything any more really
Ill look into that Niacin mixture. I heard St johns wort is good for depression too, ever try it?
And I know the zoning out your talking about, Ive been doing that the past few days for several hours a day. Its fukkin rediculous but i cant help it really
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