She's graduating college this may and isn't sure where she's going afterwords. Can't blame her I guess but I feel like i've wasted a fair amount of time. We're undoubtedly in love and i'm pretty confident that when we're both in the right situation later on down the road that we'll be back together again. She's not the slooty type chick so not so worried about what's gonna go down during this downtime but any of you brahs got advice on wtf I should do with myself now lol.
Just happened so haven't had a chance to be too upset by it. Gonna use this as motivation to better myself and get myself into a better place in life
edit: pics of her making goofy face wearing my dog tags sad now
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Thread: Girlfriend broke up with me :(
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04-01-2013, 08:38 PM #1
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Girlfriend broke up with me :(
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Don't stay too close in contact with her. Let her be the one to text you. Don't be clingy trying to get her back now that you've split.
And really don't count on you two getting back together, or you'll never move on, and you'll be crushed when you find out she has..R.I.P. mainsqueeze530 (1991-2013) you won't be forgotten bro
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04-01-2013, 08:42 PM #8
Sorry bro beans but what i do when I get out of a relationship is have one depressed day. I stay home, don't lift, watch Netflix, text sloots, text friends to make plans for the next day and drink all day lol
Then next day go out with friends to take your mind off of everything and hit the gym hard as fk
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04-01-2013, 08:43 PM #9
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04-01-2013, 08:46 PM #12
Block all contact if you want her back.
Sounds like she didn't tell you all the reasons which if she did would give you closure.
You don't want to waste time waiting if it's as she says- over.
Just act cool about it because your rep will get around to other girls you might want to date in the future if you act badly now or vengeful.
It feels like the end of the world when something really wonderful ends. You lose a best friend and big part of your routine in life.
But this will happen over and over until you find the right one. Expect misery for 3 weeks. Try to get closure or misery can extend to five years.
Soon you will be in love with someone new. But it's hard to imagine that today.
Research how to handle heartbreak on the Internet. I think you need some friends to help you through if you can.
You also need an important goal to set in your life to focus on and help you pick yourself up and keep going.
Nothing hurts as bad as heartbreak. Sending you love
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04-01-2013, 08:46 PM #13
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She doesn't know where she'll be interning / getting a job at after she graduates in may. Has to wait a year somewhere for state residency for grad school to use her dad's GI bill. Her parents hate me and she may have to move in with them in FL if she can't find an internship or job before her lease is up in August.
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04-01-2013, 08:47 PM #15
I dont know why but you really piss me off OP..
What should you do with yourself now?
As if that girl was all you had going for you before and now you're lost...
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04-01-2013, 08:49 PM #16
You won't be saying that **** about getting back together when you hear about her railing other dudes OP. Serious- for your sake I would cut all contact. **** hurts like hell I know, but in the end you have to realize she put something in front of you and your relationship to have been able to break up with you brah.
Don't base your personal wealth and being on someone else. Be a man, survive and overcome.ok
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04-01-2013, 08:50 PM #22
In love ? Than neither of you would ever let go no matter what the situation is .
She dumped you time to go party and phuck as many bishes as possible . Bish moved on than forget her . But think about what you said
In love = I wouldn't leave you ever
Bish left you it's over op╭∩╮(︶︿︶)╭∩╮
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04-01-2013, 08:55 PM #30
Sorry to hear that bro. Hate to be that guy, but as someone said above, if she loved you, this wouldn't have happened.
If it was love, she would find a way to make it work. Instead it sounds like she chose her parents over you. Was there a reason she can't stay with you instead?
Sounds like a lot more to this story
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