RH Chat 20: Pepper dat angus! Cuz we're gonna lick it!

[Stix14]

The sluttiest girls I've been with had the tightest vaginas...

Kegels, disguise your inner slut...

[fiasco23]

I agree with jcook on this for the most part.

But sometimes **** does just feel right. I love feeling an emotional connection usually that comes with the chase.

Im also less experienced than you guys.

Also gorbeth i will reply to your pm when im on my computer

[DocHol1day]

If I am iffy about a guy, I will make him wait at least several dates.

That being said, I've 1st date sexed twice ever, and I didn't feel slutty, used, ashamed, etc at all. If there is a connection, and obvious sexual attraction.... we're all adults, right?

the ones i considered sluts were the ones i could sense the desperation from and who put out in spite of little chemistry. others i felt that magical stars aligning sort of feel and it just happened.

[jcook996]

the ones i considered sluts were the ones i could sense the desperation from and who put out in spite of little chemistry. others i felt that magical stars aligning sort of feel and it just happened.

True enough. Takes me a while to develop an emotional connection with someone I've never met before that night but women who sort of 'force' the issue and really come on strong are a different story all together.

[DocHol1day]

I feel like if I slept with a guy on a first date, he would never take me seriously as gf material, even at this age.

My last 2 exes still had to wait, even though I already knew them beforehand through the ring or the dojo.

yea i understand why a woman would feel that way. i dont mind waiting for the right girl. it does piss me off when i know shes kinda easy or whatever and she tries to make me wait tho....

[gorbeth]

I feel like if I slept with a guy on a first date, he would never take me seriously as gf material, even at this age.

My last 2 exes still had to wait, even though I already knew them beforehand through the ring or the dojo.

The last 2 people I've been with are the only two that didn't have to wait. Before that- I was with someone for 6 years.....sooo..... maybe I am slooting a bit???

It doesn't feel like it, because I'm 28- and I think my view on what is appropriate for adults to do in private is slightly different than prior to my long term relationship (which began when I JUST turned 21). I'm not randomly picking a guy up, and I honestly don't think I come off as a slutty girl (country farm girl with no make up, haha).

[Tiffany Wantsmore]

yea i understand why a woman would feel that way. i dont mind waiting for the right girl. it does piss me off when i know shes kinda easy or whatever and she tries to make me wait tho....

I understand that too. So the knowledge that she's celibate (voluntarily of course) makes her request to wait more valid/acceptable than it would otherwise. Right?

[DocHol1day]

True enough. Takes me a while to develop an emotional connection with someone I've never met before that night but women who sort of 'force' the issue and really come on strong are a different story all together.

ive felt that connection twice. once with my last long term gf, and the other time was the night i met the girl in the yellow dress i talked about the other night.

[DocHol1day]

I understand that too. So the knowledge that she's celibate (voluntarily of course) makes her request to wait more valid/acceptable than it would otherwise. Right?

yea but i mean sometimes i just catch that "slut" vibe from a girl. if she makes me wait im just gone. prob for the best because if i get that vibe im not gonna date her seriously anyway, just bang her for a bit while looking for other girls. like my last fuk buddy.

[jcook996]

The last 2 people I've been with are the only two that didn't have to wait. Before that- I was with someone for 6 years.....sooo..... maybe I am slooting a bit???

It doesn't feel like it, because I'm 28- and I think my view on what is appropriate for adults to do in private is slightly different than prior to my long term relationship (which began when I JUST turned 21). I'm not randomly picking a guy up, and I honestly don't think I come off as a slutty girl (country farm girl with no make up, haha).

What I would do to find a country farm girl who doesn't apply make up with a paint sprayer....

If you have the awareness that you don't want to come off as slutty then you probably aren't, and there is nothing wrong with picking a guy up. I encourage such behavior as long as it's not forced.

ive felt that connection twice. once with my last long term gf, and the other time was the night i met the girl in the yellow dress i talked about the other night.

Yes the Woman in the Yellow Dress. I think we would all be lucky if we felt that kind of connection with someone.

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[DocHol1day]

What I would do to find a country farm girl who doesn't apply make up with a paint sprayer....

If you have the awareness that you don't want to come off as slutty then you probably aren't, and there is nothing wrong with picking a guy up. I encourage such behavior as long as it's not forced.



Yes the Woman in the Yellow Dress. I think we would all be lucky if we felt that kind of connection with someone.

my last gf was a country girl as well. i liked that.


yea dude its pretty awesome. gotta keep reminding myself shes got more red flags than the chinese military...

[jcook996]

my last gf was a country girl as well. i liked that.


yea dude its pretty awesome. gotta keep reminding myself shes got more red flags than the chinese military...

Yeah I need to move to TX or something.

No way to cancel out those red flags huh?

[gorbeth]

The guy I'm seeing is coming to my place this weekend.... city boy. Haha, I'm pretty sure I'm making him go on a 4-wheeler ride with me in the woods, he's never been on one. That blows my mind!

Not quite sure if he is ready for a farm tour yet though.

[jcook996]

The guy I'm seeing is coming to my place this weekend.... city boy. Haha, I'm pretty sure I'm making him go on a 4-wheeler ride with me in the woods, he's never been on one. That blows my mind!

Not quite sure if he is ready for a farm tour yet though.

I have only been on a four wheeler once I think, didn't care for them. Ride or Die! Get dirt bikes instead!

[gorbeth]

I have only been on a four wheeler once I think, didn't care for them. Ride or Die! Get dirt bikes instead!

My crippled self should probably just stick with cruising on the golf cart, but that involves stopping at my parent's house to get it, and I don't think I'm quite ready to run him past my parents yet.

[DocHol1day]

Yeah I need to move to TX or something.

No way to cancel out those red flags huh?

i dunno. her cousin is one of my best friends. shes typically known as a "good girl". i just know she cheated on her last ex with me 4 years ago, and what shes doing to her current fiance. as much as id love to believe im the only guy who could get her to do that, i find it unlikely. im decent looking and have a lot going for me, but im not brad pitt or anything....

i would give her a shot if she left the fiance but id be very careful

The guy I'm seeing is coming to my place this weekend.... city boy. Haha, I'm pretty sure I'm making him go on a 4-wheeler ride with me in the woods, he's never been on one. That blows my mind!

Not quite sure if he is ready for a farm tour yet though.

i hadnt until i dated my last ex either!

[Tiffany Wantsmore]

You mean a quad bike? I'd love to try one of those. They look so much fun.

My dad hired one once for my stepmum and she went over the cliff on it, it was a 70 foot drop but she got caught in a huge cactus a few feet down. But my dad had to climb down and carry the quad bike back up the cliff.

[gorbeth]

You mean a quad bike? I'd love to try one of those. They look so much fun.

My dad hired one once for my stepmum and she went over the cliff on it, it was a 70 foot drop but she got caught in a huge cactus a few feet down. But my dad had to climb down and carry the quad bike back up the cliff.

Haha, that's a pretty big fail. I'm in Ohio, by the lake, so it's all flat land here- no cliffs.

I live on an 1800 acre farm and we have a few quads, used to ride them all the time, I don't much anymore though.

Hoping the rain stops this week so I can go in the woods and finish reading Gatsby. The trilliums are blooming and it looks spectacular. Most peaceful thing in the world. I just take a blanket, ride back there, lay down and read for the entire day. <3

[DocHol1day]

Haha, that's a pretty big fail. I'm in Ohio, by the lake, so it's all flat land here- no cliffs.

I live on an 1800 acre farm and we have a few quads, used to ride them all the time, I don't much anymore though.

Hoping the rain stops this week so I can go in the woods and finish reading Gatsby. The trilliums are blooming and it looks spectacular. Most peaceful thing in the world. I just take a blanket, ride back there, lay down and read for the entire day. <3

jelly of your spread


what do u farm?

[jcook996]

i dunno. her cousin is one of my best friends. shes typically known as a "good girl". i just know she cheated on her last ex with me 4 years ago, and what shes doing to her current fiance. as much as id love to believe im the only guy who could get her to do that, i find it unlikely. im decent looking and have a lot going for me, but im not brad pitt or anything....

i would give her a shot if she left the fiance but id be very careful



i hadnt until i dated my last ex either!

I can understand, perhaps I am too much of a hopeless romantic to believe that she actually has feelings for you that exceed those of anyone else she has been with and that deep down in places she doesn't like to acknowledge she wants you more than anyone...

Yup too much Princess Bride.

My crippled self should probably just stick with cruising on the golf cart, but that involves stopping at my parent's house to get it, and I don't think I'm quite ready to run him past my parents yet.

Riding after knee surgery- I know these feels. What work did you get done?

[DocHol1day]

I can understand, perhaps I am too much of a hopeless romantic to believe that she actually has feelings for you that exceed those of anyone else she has been with and that deep down in places she doesn't like to acknowledge she wants you more than anyone...

Yup too much Princess Bride.



Riding after knee surgery- I know these feels. What work did you get done?

id LOVE to believe im just that great, but i live in reality lulz.


idk, my buddys dad (her uncle) said she asks about me quite a bit. like at family stuff.

[gorbeth]

jelly of your spread

what do u farm?

My dad runs the farm, I just happen to live in the middle of one of it's fields. But it's a dairy(milk 200)/grain farm with about 40 Angus also.

Soy, wheat, alphalpha, corn.

[DocHol1day]

My dad runs the farm, I just happen to live in the middle of one of it's fields. But it's a dairy(milk 200)/grain farm with about 40 Angus also.

Soy, wheat, alphalpha, corn.

nice. your dads livin my dream!

[gorbeth]

Riding after knee surgery- I know these feels. What work did you get done?

......fixed this

Edit: all old hardware removed, ACL reconstruction revision, meniscus removed, tibial cartilage removed, partial patellar tendon repair, some bone grafts, etc

[DocHol1day]

can anyone see my avatar? im trying to upload one and its showing up in my bodyspace but not as my avatar wtf am i doing wrong?

[Tiffany Wantsmore]

Can't see it Doc. I wish I hadn't been able to see those x-rays either tbh. I have patellar subluxation which hurts sooooo much, worse even than stepping on a Lego. Knee stuff makes me cringe.

[DocHol1day]

Can't see it Doc. I wish I hadn't been able to see those x-rays either tbh. I have patellar subluxation which hurts sooooo much, worse even than stepping on a Lego. Knee stuff makes me cringe.

how do u put up an avatar? its my bodyspace profile pic. i feel like such an idiot right now but i literally cannot figure this out...

[jcook996]

......fixed this

Edit: all old hardware removed, ACL reconstruction revision, meniscus removed, tibial cartilage removed, partial patellar tendon repair, some bone grafts, etc

Yeah, been to some of those places. Both lateral and medial meniscus removed? What the hell have you been doing woman?

[cheerupemokid]

how do u put up an avatar? its my bodyspace profile pic. i feel like such an idiot right now but i literally cannot figure this out...

In your bodyspace go to photos and videos and then select profile photos. You should have an option to set as main profile picture, select that for the picture you want.

This will be your avatar.

[Tiffany Wantsmore]

In the profile pictures album there are all your pictures and there should be a list beside each one where you can choose "show as main profile pic"

Edit: ^^ wizard