RH Chat 20: Pepper dat angus! Cuz we're gonna lick it!

[fiasco23]

surgery is tomorrow at noon gotta go completely under. never had a full on surgery before. nervous as hell.

You won't remember it brother. You will get in there, they will take vitals, put you on the IV then you wake up in the recovery room feeling good.

I got my surgery at the right time, I seriously didn't care and wasn't nervous because I was concerned with so many other things in my life. I have a feeling if I wasn't going through a break up during that time I would have freaked out and never had the surgery.

You will be fine.

[nvrstopworking]

Just wanted to post in this thread and say its pretty fukking cool, with some cool people in it.

But does anyone have any advice for a soon to be 25yr old(know age on site is wrong). I seriously feel like im going thru a quarter life crisis or something. I've been to school, about joined the military, dated a decent amount, and have a business with my pops that is going to gross over a million this year. Work out every day and im huge.. But I still have this impending doom feeling is the best way to explain it and it blows.

Also for guys my age. If you met a girl during a work related event, and she was someone you was extremely interested in.. She got your number and didn't call for a week. You see her next week again on a work related thing.. She lets you know she didn't call because she is going thru a divorce and she wants her husband to sign the papers because he still wants to be with her before she starts going out with anyone. Also dropped she has 2 kids. I have a daughter myself so I can relate a little bit. She then calls you later that day again on a work related topic but let me know she has my phone number and will be calling me ASAP.

Would you pursue it? Awesome girl, but she has 2 kids and was married since she was 16 til 24. I don't have women problems so its like



But then again she actually has a brain, a good job, and is hot as hell.

She's 24 and is divorced with 2 kids? And was married at 16? Da fuq?

If she were 34 I'd say that's fairly normal these days but tread carefully my son....

[DocHol1day]

You won't remember it brother. You will get in there, they will take vitals, put you on the IV then you wake up in the recovery room feeling good.

I got my surgery at the right time, I seriously didn't care and wasn't nervous because I was concerned with so many other things in my life. I have a feeling if I wasn't going through a break up during that time I would have freaked out and never had the surgery.

You will be fine.

oh i know. i guess im just nervous because they told me to expect it to hurt a lot after i wake up and for a week or two after.

[fiasco23]

oh i know. i guess im just nervous because they told me to expect it to hurt a lot after i wake up and for a week or two after.

Just make sure you know your medical history and your allergies to medications.

They almost put me on penecillin before I told them I was allergic to it.

[DocHol1day]

Just make sure you know your medical history and your allergies to medications.

They almost put me on penecillin before I told them I was allergic to it.

yea, i did the best i could in that regard.




in other news, things are getting warmer with the girl ive wanted ever since my ex and i split...

[cheerupemokid]

yea, i did the best i could in that regard.




in other news, things are getting warmer with the girl ive wanted ever since my ex and i split...

You do realize that based on all of the stories you've told, in our minds this could actually be one of several different girls you've talked about, right?

[DocHol1day]

You do realize that based on all of the stories you've told, in our minds this could actually be one of several different girls you've talked about, right?

yea, its not like i actually expect any of you to follow along with some ******* stranger on the internets stories that closely.


for the record im referring to the first girl i slept with after my ex and i split. the girl in the yellow dress as i like to call her.

[Juicetin]

morning

EDIT:

Here, have some HBB's

[cheerupemokid]

yea, its not like i actually expect any of you to follow along with some ******* stranger on the internets stories that closely.


for the record im referring to the first girl i slept with after my ex and i split. the girl in the yellow dress as i like to call her.

Damn, I was going to guess the girl in the yellow dress but thought you'd said you'd moved on from her a while back.

[hublife]

yea, its not like i actually expect any of you to follow along with some ******* stranger on the internets stories that closely.


for the record im referring to the first girl i slept with after my ex and i split. the girl in the yellow dress as i like to call her.

Wait... isn't she engaged?

[DocHol1day]

Damn, I was going to guess the girl in the yellow dress but thought you'd said you'd moved on from her a while back.

well, i was in a bit of a funk when she was initially showing interest back in january due to a complicated situation with an ex.

i didnt really get myself back until about march. shes really started to press again, and now im actually ready to go after her. its just complicated because shes still engaged to some loser her whole family hates (i am best friends with her cousin). meanwhile, the family loves me. her mom brought me up at christmas in front of her fiance lol! mom FB stalks me and likes **** all the time even tho we arent FB friends too.


anyway, its escalating. slowly though.

[DocHol1day]

Wait... isn't she engaged?

yea

[cheerupemokid]

well, i was in a bit of a funk when she was initially showing interest back in january due to a complicated situation with an ex.

i didnt really get myself back until about march. shes really started to press again, and now im actually ready to go after her. its just complicated because shes still engaged to some loser her whole family hates (i am best friends with her cousin). meanwhile, the family loves me. her mom brought me up at christmas in front of her fiance lol! mom FB stalks me and likes **** all the time even tho we arent FB friends too.


anyway, its escalating. slowly though.

Good luck with that, bro. I hope her fiance doesn't sneak up on you and knife/shoot you in a parking lot.

[DocHol1day]

Good luck with that, bro. I hope her fiance doesn't sneak up on you and knife/shoot you in a parking lot.

he wouldnt be first.

[nvrstopworking]

well, i was in a bit of a funk when she was initially showing interest back in january due to a complicated situation with an ex.

i didnt really get myself back until about march. shes really started to press again, and now im actually ready to go after her. its just complicated because shes still engaged to some loser her whole family hates (i am best friends with her cousin). meanwhile, the family loves me. her mom brought me up at christmas in front of her fiance lol! mom FB stalks me and likes **** all the time even tho we arent FB friends too.


anyway, its escalating. slowly though.

Why is she engaged to this dude if she's interested in you?

[gorbeth]

Why is she engaged to this dude if she's interested in you?

I'm so confused. She's engaged? Things are getting warmer?




Wat?

[DocHol1day]

Why is she engaged to this dude if she's interested in you?

long story. i met her a week after my ex wife and i split up. it was at a wedding, that was at the same place i got married at actually. she was wearing a yellow dress, and she absolutely took my breath away. i decided that no matter what i had to have her, and even told my friends that. i approached her, and i could tell by her body language she was interested, but she didnt exactly encourage the conversation either. i gave up and walked away. then found out she had a BF who was giving her dirty looks the whole time we were talking. she kept glancing at me during the whole ceremony, and throughout the reception. i didnt make much of an effort to approach again, but ended up kinda dancing with her after dancing with the 2 year old flower girl. i turned around and she was right there dancing so i went for it. the boyfriend left. she was leaving, but at that point her mom and her best friend invited me to go to the bar with them. at the bar thngs picked up more, and i ended up smashing at her moms house.


the next morning, she told me it was a mistake.


i didnt even know her last name. i didnt see her again for 2 years. this time, she was dating my buddy, they had been dating about a month when i found out by meeting him at the bar and he was with her. they dated for about another month, and every time we hug out, somehow we always ended up talking with one another, isolated from the group, etc. they broke up and i had a gf, my most recent ex. she meets the guy shes with now (an obvious rebound loser type, just trust me) and he knocks her up. they decide to get engaged. had the kid back in october.


i run into her in december with her mom at a bar. we start talking and she says everything short of i love you. says how she thought about me evvery day since the day we met. how she wished she had been with me instead of my friend. how she wanted to go after me when they split but she sincerely liked my ex. then she said, how she feels like she has to stay with the fiance because of the kid. i say i understand. her mom and dad want to leave the bar. she tells them to go without her, she wants to stay with me. dad is pissed, mom is happy. i tell her to leave with them because i dont want to be a mistake again


ever since then its been a lot of flirting back and forth on FB. escalating even more this week. i think shes just slowly realizing shes making a mistake getting married.




the story about how i met her is my very favorite story. i was DEVASTATED emotionally when my ex wife left. how i ever found the confidence to go after a woman that hot, a week later, at the fuking place i got married, ill never understand....

[nvrstopworking]

Be careful dude.... red flags... red flags errywhere....

[Navillus13]

sorry doc.. she just seems like the type that would turn around and eventually do the same shiit to you when she gets bored.

just my .02

[DocHol1day]

Be careful dude.... red flags... red flags errywhere....

sorry doc.. she just seems like the type that would turn around and eventually do the same shiit to you when she gets bored.

just my .02

yea i know. which is prob why i wouldnt get serious with her. but u know how it is when dat chemistry kicks in.....


aww hell, you guys know me. ill prob get her to ditch the fiance, bang her for a few months, get bored and move on. just like the last few ive dated since my last real relationship ended.

[gorbeth]

Be careful dude.... red flags... red flags errywhere....

Sooooooo many red flags

[Botika]

oh i know. i guess im just nervous because they told me to expect it to hurt a lot after i wake up and for a week or two after.

You'll be fine. I'm sure it won't be anything you can't cope with.

[Juicetin]

[hai2dehfolks]

Skype is a wonderful thing. Won't cure EVERYTHING but it can help. I'm sure that once she makes a few friends that'll help too.

my family doesn't have internet.... can't afford it...

Breeezy... I know how I'd feel in that situation. Why not just stay behind, work your job, and continue to apply to jobs/look for positions out there that you'd be happy with. You dont have to say "now or 1 year" you can be like, now or 3 weeks from now when i get a job? Or it could be 6 months? Basically just continue what you can do till you have a job, if you have to fly out there for them to interview, just work flights into your budget. If you arent going out there for an interview, you can always use the budget just to go see her every month till you find a position.

I'm srsly thinking about it... I've been talking to my dad and I think he's going for it too.... ESPECIALLY since I'd be making 2400 a month... lol

i bought a extra large box of pull outs for your visit this weekend

wut.



okay,

There've been quite a few studies on the effects of BC and how it messes up mate selection. Interestingly, most research on the matter suggests that men don't have the same ability to sniff out a woman who is a stong genetic compliment.

http://www.livescience.com/2781-pill...bad-mates.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Claus_Wedekind
http://www.cell.com/AJHG/retrieve/pii/S0002929707643122
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/15777804
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11799397

My life is ruined now... ugh.... forever on pill...


what about shots? same things?

ZOMG...I started watching Game of Thrones from the beginning last night. Was talked into it, didn't really wanna...I am so glad I did. 2nd Episode in, and I'm hooked.

And I woke up with a HUGE zit on my neck. Wtf.

I really want to see that too.... no time...

and ew.

[nvrstopworking]

I'm srsly thinking about it... I've been talking to my dad and I think he's going for it too.... ESPECIALLY since I'd be making 2400 a month... lol

If you'd be pulling in 2400/mth and paying 400 in rent then it's a no-brainer IMO.

Chit, with that kind of money you could easily fly out to visit your sis once a month for a weekend or something... and still save some cash.

[stsmurf]

Doc -
You like this girl, a lot, totally understand your perspective and not being with her. If she is realizing she is making a mistake you need to figure out what you want to do. Me? I'd straight up point it out to her whats going on and then cut her off. Flirting with a girl that is engaged is just trouble man, you know that you see that.

Point it out, stop talking to her so much, let her figure her sht out on her own. If she stays with the dude, and gets married, so be it. If she ponders what you say to her over the next 2,3... 6 months, wedding creeps on her and she finally goes "oh fuk" and ends it then its on HER terms. Let her morn the end of her relationship for a bit, and start things slow with her.

What good is going to come from you continuing what you are doing? Either you'll just get hurt (even minutely) or she'll break thigns off WITH you in the picture, and honestly thats not really a good way to start a relationship either. Let her end it on her terms.

Good luck on the surgery dude! Dont be nervous, at least its only on an extremity!

I'm srsly thinking about it... I've been talking to my dad and I think he's going for it too.... ESPECIALLY since I'd be making 2400 a month... lol

Yeah, sounds like you're working it out and it will work itself out. Just do whats best for YOU and your family. I just think you'd emotionally take a hit if you moved without a job, especially if you didnt find one right away!






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[hai2dehfolks]

If you'd be pulling in 2400/mth and paying 400 in rent then it's a no-brainer IMO.

Chit, with that kind of money you could easily fly out to visit your sis once a month for a weekend or something... and still save some cash.

yeah except for all of my loans and ****.... I gotta save money .... I HAVE to be more responsible than my parents with money... although I may fly HER out here when she goes on break.... (they shut down the school for long weekends )


but yeah... I'm not going to have internet for a while, so I'll be back on when I can. I'll keep you updated with all of my stuff!!!!


I love you guys. Be Safe, don't be stupid, and enjoy those with whom you are with! <3 Breezy

[stsmurf]

yeah except for all of my loans and ****.... I gotta save money .... I HAVE to be more responsible than my parents with money... although I may fly HER out here when she goes on break.... (they shut down the school for long weekends )

Think you just answered it yourself

If you're potentially going to move their and earn NO money and only drain your family a bit (not in a bad way) vs being concerned about spending your earnings to fly out there to "be smart with money" then its really a no brainer... get paid!

[WreckEmTT]

Question for the ladies: Would you ask a guy to be your +1 to a wedding if you weren't interested in him?

[DocHol1day]

Doc -
You like this girl, a lot, totally understand your perspective and not being with her. If she is realizing she is making a mistake you need to figure out what you want to do. Me? I'd straight up point it out to her whats going on and then cut her off. Flirting with a girl that is engaged is just trouble man, you know that you see that.

Point it out, stop talking to her so much, let her figure her sht out on her own. If she stays with the dude, and gets married, so be it. If she ponders what you say to her over the next 2,3... 6 months, wedding creeps on her and she finally goes "oh fuk" and ends it then its on HER terms. Let her morn the end of her relationship for a bit, and start things slow with her.

What good is going to come from you continuing what you are doing? Either you'll just get hurt (even minutely) or she'll break thigns off WITH you in the picture, and honestly thats not really a good way to start a relationship either. Let her end it on her terms.

Good luck on the surgery dude! Dont be nervous, at least its only on an extremity!


Yeah, sounds like you're working it out and it will work itself out. Just do whats best for YOU and your family. I just think you'd emotionally take a hit if you moved without a job, especially if you didnt find one right away!






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CNN is ridiculous

Its all her bro. I sometimes don't even respond. She always initiates.