***NO FAP thread to end ALL No Fap threads V5 (Now with FAQ’s and more!!)***

[LegendaryPain]

Day 15, never made it this far since I was like 12. My dad and I were talking business last night over cigars, I feel like there is so much to do out there that I can easily achieve. Right now the only thing I crave is success, been reading some sexual transmutation stuff by Napoleon Hill.

[LIEJUSIKA]

hopping in on this, time to get my chit together lol, been slacking on pretty much on everything and feeling chit about everything really, gotta step my game up yo on all levels of this life. Prolly hopping on no porn after a month or too idk, we'll see. Done this few times before for a month or so and the feeling was awesome, but its always so hard to start even when every time after 2 weeks you feel like a new man. ( Probably works on this level only on losers like me) Brb reporting in 14 days how I feel like a half-God eventhough still suck at every aspect of life as major changes takes longer than that. Wish me luck guise.

[Datmofo]

I have seen this thread countless times and several of it's versions to just scroll past it. today I opened it and decided to read points 1-7. countless times I have tried to stop on my own for religious reason as well as personal...but i've failed. longest I have gone that I can remember is 21 days which is pretty sad since that is my absolute longest. hopefully with the support of you all and the encouragement I can make it longer. sadly for me I want to wait to have sex until I'm married so even in the past when girls have wanted to have sex I've turned them down. so sex with an actual girl isn't a motivating thing for me not to fap. i assume some religious brahs understand my situation. despite that I'm really gonna try to do this for 90 days and if I can last that long I'll add another 30 and another 30, etc.

Thanks for all the encouragement misc

Datmofo

[Gabriel Anton]

I have seen this thread countless times and several of it's versions to just scroll past it. today I opened it and decided to read points 1-7. countless times I have tried to stop on my own for religious reason as well as personal...but i've failed. longest I have gone that I can remember is 21 days which is pretty sad since that is my absolute longest. hopefully with the support of you all and the encouragement I can make it longer. sadly for me I want to wait to have sex until I'm married so even in the past when girls have wanted to have sex I've turned them down. so sex with an actual girl isn't a motivating thing for me not to fap. i assume some religious brahs understand my situation. despite that I'm really gonna try to do this for 90 days and if I can last that long I'll add another 30 and another 30, etc.

Thanks for all the encouragement misc

Datmofo

I'm actually curious about people who do it for religious reasons, as I found myself looking through this site someone else posted - http://www.chastitysf.com/
It's interesting reading , even for a gay atheist . I've always been rather fascinated by the theological thinking of people who really understand their faith (not just random bible/quran thumpers with only a superficial knowledge).

I'd say that doing no Porn should be easy for you , honestly I think it's an easy habit to break once you simply tell yourself it's not an option. I find no Fap equally as easy but many people here struggle with that; it's clear though that many people do it successfully, not just in this thread but religious men of different faiths - so it is definitely possible.

Anyway consider yourself encouraged

[pacokarateto]

I am on my 8th day and i was wondering if it is ok to MO to ******** pics.A maid comes to my house,and when she cleans can i MO watching her?

[hbhorat]

Thanks man. She texted me today saying she misses me and wants to meet up tomorrow for a more "proper goodbye" and wants to spend as much as time with me as possible before I leave. Yet I ended it yesterday so I don't know if we should even chill. Then she said she doesn't think she'll date any guy for a long time because she can't stop caring for people as easily as me and chit. Too many feels today.
****. And I don't even wanna do engineering brah. My dad made me, dude was up my ass about that chit since he's an engineer too lmao. Either way by the end of this year I wanna transfer to the East/West coast. Thats my goal.

Oh and I had a wet dream last night. I guess that's natures way of trying to make me feel better. And another funny thing is as soon as I dumped her the song "Good Life" by Kanye came on. I thought it was pretty ironic.

I truly hope you make it man. You seem like a nice guy. (nohomo). If it weren't for your dad forcing you to become an engineer what would you have done?

Also a miscer once told me "Keep your head high brah, good things come to those who are patient."

[muscleosirus]

I caved again at 157. Back at day 1. Good job on becoming a ladies man WWT.

[gmanfootballguy]

Day Nine

The flat line feeling that has been destroying me these past couple days is finally passing I got a very good lift in this morning and feel a lot better

Seeing girlfriend tomorrow I'm super pumped haven't seen her in a week hopefully the flat line keeps getting better, no urges really today either

Stay Strong Brahs

[IZionLionI]

I caved again at 157. Back at day 1. Good job on becoming a ladies man WWT.

Wait. You failed on Day 157?









uwotm8? come on brah.

[nickh04]

Day 10.

Feeling a lot more focused. I didn't catch myself day dreaming at all today. I feel extremely motivated and have a ton of energy. Stress level has gone way down, and I felt a small benzo-like buzz all day. Feelsgoodman.

Most of us are gonna make it.

[konsept1]

wtf brahs I just took a piss and jizz came out, srs..did I break no fap?

[WideFajita]

https://twitter.com/UberFacts/status/361279100398215169

[CSOleson]

Thanks man. She texted me today saying she misses me and wants to meet up tomorrow for a more "proper goodbye" and wants to spend as much as time with me as possible before I leave. Yet I ended it yesterday so I don't know if we should even chill. Then she said she doesn't think she'll date any guy for a long time because she can't stop caring for people as easily as me and chit. Too many feels today.
****. And I don't even wanna do engineering brah. My dad made me, dude was up my ass about that chit since he's an engineer too lmao. Either way by the end of this year I wanna transfer to the East/West coast. Thats my goal.

If you don't pursue what drives you, you won't ever be happy. Seriously. Man up, tell your dad what you ARE going to do, you are going to pursue your passion, not his. Then go and do it.

How you do this? I'm finding the No Porn more difficult than the No Fap.

Isn't fapping without porn kind of boring? Porn is what makes fapping fun.

In my entire time since I first discovered fapping, I fapped for awhile when I was a kid without porn, but then later on got into porn and since I haven't fapped without it or thinking about it. Porn is my killer. No porn/porn thoughts automatically would mean no more fapping.

Fajita.. What?

As for my count, I actually have no clue about what day I am on. Seriously. I'd have to go back at least 5 days to find when I failed last? I think I failed last Sunday, but it may be good that I don't actually know when I failed last. It causes me to not focus on a count, but focus on day to day success. Plus I'm in somewhat of a flatline.

I'm also super confused about where this girl and I are. She is the one from earlier this summer that we decided not to do anything until I got back from Spain. She's been trying to text me a ton so IDK what is going on. How do you define an ONEITIS or whatever it is? I may be acting beta as hell.

Also, front squatted 280x4 today. Front squat should be 80% of your back squat, meaning it was the same as back squatting 350x4? I'm not completely sure, but I'm stoked that I hit that weight.

[nicebutwise]

57 days. You lasted 2 months. Clearly you didn't fail. That was huge progress man. You didn't even use porn. This was only a minor setback. Get back on that horse. You'll be fine. Next time you're gonna go 90 days and beyond.

Not as big as last time haha. 80 days!
Cheers though

[TwoCats]

In.

[DyDxCotX]

Sup bros i fapped yesterday after going 5 weeks nofap, but i got laid recently so I considered it a reward lol. Still feelsbadman. But today is a new day. Day 1 LETS GO.

[DarDardz]

I truly hope you make it man. You seem like a nice guy. (nohomo). If it weren't for your dad forcing you to become an engineer what would you have done?

Also a miscer once told me "Keep your head high brah, good things come to those who are patient."

Thank you man. You seem like a nice guy as well. (I don't see the point of saying no homo since I don't see anything gay about calling someone a nice guy tbh lol). I really do appreciate the feedback dude. We met up today and we decided to be friends and that her reasoning for not wanting to be together in college was because she thinks that in college when we can't see eachother much and our only way to communicate is phone/skype it'd end up bad. Because we'd be busy and either one of us would feel like they're not getting enough time or some problem would arise and to end it while there were no actual problems. Plus she said that even if it did work out and we were together until sophomore or junior year of college she would want something "more" out of it which basically means she'd want to marry me and she doesn't think I'm willing to do that. ( I said okay to that cause I didn't know how to respond tbh lol) Either way it makes me pretty sad that shes planning on moving on and all that but at the end of the day I guess I'm planning on moving on too. But the only positive thing I gained due to her recently is that I'm motivated of my fkin ass cause I'm pissed off for the last few days so all I do is seek success lol. But I don't wanna loose the feeling, I have such a strong desire to succeed right now lol.

Btw I started reading Think and Grow Rich. I'm actually going to try and apply all the concepts. The first chapter talks about like making a statement about making money in a certain way but I'm gonna try that with my goal of transferring. Like I'll transfer to this school in here instead of I'll have this much money or whatever. I hope it still works.
Thanks for all the support brah.

[chrisyboy64]

I'm currently taking a somewhat alternative approach to No Fap this time, and so far my current streak has been pretty successful:

While I'm in this 90-day period I'm not even TRYING to get with/or think about real life girls. That has just lead to relapse and stress in the past. I have no trouble getting with good looking girls for dates and ****.. but at the end of the day, I still have ED. The stress of "ED sex" is truly unbearable (as many of you know). So seriously, why have I been trying to get with girls while I'm still not 100% recovered?? It is just going to lead to a relapse out of pure stress. What's the point of starting things with girls when your constantly going to be feeling stressed about how your dick's gonna perform??

Even though I think it is going to take over 3 months for a full ED recovery, I'm not even going to THINK about going on a date with a girl until I've hit that 90 day mark.

Last time, I got involved with a girl at the 70 day mark. When it came to sex, I still was no way near recovered and I could hardly get it up. She was cool about it and all... but I WASN'T. It was causing me so much stress, and was made worse cause I actually really liked her. I dumped her after a couple months with the intention of starting a fresh 90 No Fap focused purely on ME ME ME. No girls at all. It's ****ing hard to do (even harder than looking a p0rn), but I'm finding a lot less stress without involving girls whislt on no fap. The old cliche saying goes, "plenty more fish in the sea" - 90 days in NOTHING in the scope of your life. Yet most of us can't even get past those 90 days even though we KNOW it's going to increase our lives tenfold.

[mehulp12]

in.

[Cynic09]

No, don't avoid any contact if any contact is there. It will not delay anything. All that matters is what you do with yourself.

Thx man. That means a lot. This **** is ruining my love life or lack of anyway.

I'm currently taking a somewhat alternative approach to No Fap this time, and so far my current streak has been pretty successful:

While I'm in this 90-day period I'm not even TRYING to get with/or think about real life girls. That has just lead to relapse and stress in the past. I have no trouble getting with good looking girls for dates and ****.. but at the end of the day, I still have ED. The stress of "ED sex" is truly unbearable (as many of you know). So seriously, why have I been trying to get with girls while I'm still not 100% recovered?? It is just going to lead to a relapse out of pure stress. What's the point of starting things with girls when your constantly going to be feeling stressed about how your dick's gonna perform??

Even though I think it is going to take over 3 months for a full ED recovery, I'm not even going to THINK about going on a date with a girl until I've hit that 90 day mark.

Last time, I got involved with a girl at the 70 day mark. When it came to sex, I still was no way near recovered and I could hardly get it up. She was cool about it and all... but I WASN'T. It was causing me so much stress, and was made worse cause I actually really liked her. I dumped her after a couple months with the intention of starting a fresh 90 No Fap focused purely on ME ME ME. No girls at all. It's ****ing hard to do (even harder than looking a p0rn), but I'm finding a lot less stress without involving girls whislt on no fap. The old cliche saying goes, "plenty more fish in the sea" - 90 days in NOTHING in the scope of your life. Yet most of us can't even get past those 90 days even though we KNOW it's going to increase our lives tenfold.

This is depressing to read, going through the same. Thought you would at least get a working dick by day 70. Phuck, I got a long way to go.

[Ekaply]

I find i have zero motivation to talk to the opposite sex/try and get with them, and I'm pretty sure it's because I have it in my mind that it would be much easier for me to just go home and fap, or social anxiety. Like if a girl smiles at me I will just look away, or if I'm at a party I just sit and talk with friends (males/females), but never have it in my mind that I could get with that chick. The info in the OP was truly inspiring

I was just watching some motivational videos yesterday before gym, and in them it had a Gregg Plitt quote saying
"You go after it and you give it all you have. If you lose, at least you tried, 'I failed' is ten times more of a man than someone who says 'what if', cause 'what if' never went to the arena"
In on the first day of the rest of my life.

[hbhorat]

Thank you man. You seem like a nice guy as well. (I don't see the point of saying no homo since I don't see anything gay about calling someone a nice guy tbh lol). I really do appreciate the feedback dude. We met up today and we decided to be friends and that her reasoning for not wanting to be together in college was because she thinks that in college when we can't see eachother much and our only way to communicate is phone/skype it'd end up bad. Because we'd be busy and either one of us would feel like they're not getting enough time or some problem would arise and to end it while there were no actual problems. Plus she said that even if it did work out and we were together until sophomore or junior year of college she would want something "more" out of it which basically means she'd want to marry me and she doesn't think I'm willing to do that. ( I said okay to that cause I didn't know how to respond tbh lol) Either way it makes me pretty sad that shes planning on moving on and all that but at the end of the day I guess I'm planning on moving on too. But the only positive thing I gained due to her recently is that I'm motivated of my fkin ass cause I'm pissed off for the last few days so all I do is seek success lol. But I don't wanna loose the feeling, I have such a strong desire to succeed right now lol.

Btw I started reading Think and Grow Rich. I'm actually going to try and apply all the concepts. The first chapter talks about like making a statement about making money in a certain way but I'm gonna try that with my goal of transferring. Like I'll transfer to this school in here instead of I'll have this much money or whatever. I hope it still works.
Thanks for all the support brah.

You still didn't answer my question you *******. If it weren't for your dad making you do engineering what would you have done?

That feeling of success which you currently posses is extremely fortunate. I've had a similar experience about 8 months ago, I knew that I was gonna succeed and I was gonna succeed big. But somewhere along the line I just lost all my motivation and I didn't make it. However a smart person learns from his mistakes, a wise person learns from others mistakes. Pull out your notepad or Evernote, whatever you use to store text. Write an extremely descriptive passage regarding your current surge of motivation to be a sick ****. Seriously at least 750 words. Doing this will allow you to get back on your feet if you ever lose source of that motivation.

I've realised that motivation is everything, if someone has motive to so do something they will do it. You can do anything with the right source of motivation. Which is why I find it be one of the most important things in life, weather it's to get fuking jacked or to fuk a sloot. They both require motivation. You don't just go out there and do it, eventually you'll say fuk it. Do yourself a favour write down how you feel and what's motivating you.

Vince Lombardi (Frank jr) mentioned in his book "what it takes to be number #1"

He said," Link goals to purpose.
A goal without a purpose is like a boat without anchor.
Most motivational speakers and authors—myself included— place special emphasis on goals. “Without personal and professional goals,” I tell my audiences, “we wither and we die.” But goals don’t float in space. They must be anchored in the bedrock of conviction, meaning, and purpose, because without this foundation of purpose, we’re all too likely to throw our goals overboard at the first sign of adversity."

Keep that in mind.

Please excuse all grammatical and spelling errors. Typing from my phone.

[CatholicBrah]

in on thread. Wow I didn't know such a thing would be at the misc of all places.

[chrisyboy64]

This is depressing to read, going through the same. Thought you would at least get a working dick by day 70. Phuck, I got a long way to go.

What's depressing about waiting 70+ days? 70+ days is jack sh!t. Not even quarter of a year. Do you get depressed when you aren't Ronnie Coleman after 70 days too? Don't look it as "90Days of Hell". Embrace it and acknowledge that yes, it will suck on some days, but it is ultimately a great time to look into yourself and change a lot of sh!t that you should rid from your current lifestyle. We're all doing awesome just attempting this - most guys are too narrow minded to even consider No Fap. Don't be scared of a 70+ period of time to recover. It's a tiny price to pay in the long run.

[luke1er]

Day 13 of first no fap/porn attempt.
First time since I started that I've felt overwhelmingly horny, was so close to jerking it but opened up this thread instead and read some of you brahs story's for dat dere motivation, thanks.

[Daath]

Day 13 of first no fap/porn attempt.
First time since I started that I've felt overwhelmingly horny, was so close to jerking it but opened up this thread instead and read some of you brahs story's for dat dere motivation, thanks.

Good choice brah. Your off to an awesome start, keep the streak going!

[motorvation]

Fuark onto 63 days now. Had a moment of weakness a couple of days ago where I just felt like chit and started rationalising watching some porn. I wasn’t on the computer at the time so things didn’t escalate at all but just those feels. The problem with me is self-doubt where I reminiscence on the lack of real world success which in turn prevents me from achieving said success. I know it’s all mind set and only I can make the changes that need to happen. I suppose having recently turned 24 and realising there is still much to do before I make it is both a daunting and challenging proposition.

I read a quote in a Property Connect newsletter yesterday that went like this: “It’s your attitude, not your aptitude, that will determine your altitude.” Those words are so true.

Ultimately when it comes down to it the only limiting factor is yourself. You can either take it or take charge and make things happen. I for one am not giving in.

Stay strong brahs.

[LurkingSince09]

Day 21. To stop myself from cheating on no fap, I keep cheating on my diet. I know I know, 1 step forward, 2 back.

[pacokarateto]

I am on my 9th day and i was wondering if it is ok to MO to ******** pics.A maid comes to my house,and when she cleans can i MO watching her?

[LurkingSince09]

I am on my 9th day and i was wondering if it is ok to MO to ******** pics.A maid comes to my house,and when she cleans can i MO watching her?

Not sure if trolling, but no.