I've completed 17 days, by tomorrow morning it will be 18 of no fap.
Day 20/21 no porn.
I spent 9 hours today doing completely brutal manual labor, and I still need to work out.
I came in to close out a baseball game yesterday and blew the save. I'm going back to those days where I used to meditate as that helped me learn to relax a ton.
With this girl in my life, things are tough with my work schedule and hers (we both work 2 jobs plus my baseball games) but it is okay, she still is definitely interested in me.
For those of you intentionally resetting your count, think about it for a long time before you go that direction. Why risk having it become a habit again? Get your satisfaction from real women.
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05-30-2013, 01:33 PM #4531
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05-30-2013, 01:43 PM #4532
fuuuuuu, relpased
DAY 0 TODAY
the fukking chaser effect after relapsing days on end before coming back to this thread. I will beat this guys.Cobra Kai Crew
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05-30-2013, 01:57 PM #4533
First day is almost over and I feel good. Doesn't feel that much different yet but I feel motivated by the fact that im making a decision and sticking to it. I'm looking forward to the results. I was watching tv earlier and I was scratching my balls without thinking about it. A couple minutes later and I realised I had a boner, and my hand was on it, not fapping, just resting on it, subconsciously, and I pulled away as soon as I snapped out of it. I wanted to know if I had to reset as it was purely unintentional and I wouldn't consider it edging as there was no fap action at all. Id like to know the rules on this, thanks.
Thanks for the encouragement haha, good luck.
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05-30-2013, 02:02 PM #4534
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05-30-2013, 02:06 PM #4535
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05-30-2013, 02:18 PM #4536
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You're probably right bro, still of all the things that could have gone wrong... It's laughable really (I was actually laughing at myself in work yesterday).
Yeah she's been great really, considering we've only got close over the past few weeks, she says she'll wait until I'm ready. Funny thing is though, I've been ready since I was about 10, it's just my body letting me down (or me letting my body down if you take the porn use as abuse).
I'm probably on a week of no fap, had a nap before and woke up to the thought of her and had raging wood. Promising sign I think. Also, I'm hoping that bold part is the fact of the matter, probably wishful thinking though.
Anywayyyy, I'm back in on no fap. I'll try and help a few of you brahs out when I think I can help.
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05-30-2013, 02:21 PM #4537
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05-30-2013, 02:25 PM #4538
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05-30-2013, 02:26 PM #4539
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05-30-2013, 02:30 PM #4540
You have one day left before "No-fap June" starts. If you fap tomorrow, it will only make it harder because of the chaser effect.
Come on brah, I believe in you. Complete no-fap June.
I personally find it easier to get a big streak going at the beginning of a new month.
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05-30-2013, 02:33 PM #4541
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05-30-2013, 02:34 PM #4542
Day 4
Im balling like a prayer
singing jizzus
and thanking the lord for my large pee pee
but shiiting on hiim cuz he aint got no fun boy
how ya drilling for oil if their aint no rig to plow m5te ?
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05-30-2013, 02:34 PM #4543
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Just look away and use the keyboard to type out the biggest password of random numbers and letters k9 will allow, then send it to future you. The only time you need to look at it properly is to fill in the k9 password box. There's no way you can remember that kind of password off of one look, unless you've got photographic memory.
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05-30-2013, 02:37 PM #4544
Thanks man, I am going to do this. If I can get a job soon(have a job interview tomorrow), I think that will help me. I am addicted to the internet as well as having problems with relapsing. I am on the internet 15-18 hours a day. It has gotten that bad.
With fapping, there was a time when after I jerked off I would not want to do it. Now after I jerk off from fapping I want to do it again 30 minutes later and another time as well after doing it a second time. People mention how they feel disguted after looking at porn and jerking off, that doesn't happen to me anymore. I actually relish in looking at it when I relapse. I am a virgin and it has almost gotten to the point where I don't care if I never fukk because I am so addicted to the porn and think it is better than any sex. That is how fukked up it has gotten for me along with my internet addiction.
To combat it, I hope I get a job soon along with only posting in this thread when I get on the internet.Cobra Kai Crew
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05-30-2013, 02:37 PM #4545
Will not believing in you give you the motivation to do this? Every time you come in here you give the same type of speech but you continue to fall int your old ways. Do something with your free time FFS man, I know we all of a bit of keyboard warrior syndrome itt but most of us have found other things to do to occupy most of our free time and take the place of fapping/porn viewing, you should do the same. It will seriously help reduce that social anxiety and you might find some things you really enjoy doing outside of this computer screen.
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05-30-2013, 02:40 PM #4546
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I'm in for June with you bro, you can fukking do this. And if the interview doesn't go as planned, don't use that as an excuse to fap.
I remember a month or two ago when I was frequenting this thread I always saw you struggling, I want to see you get a month though.
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05-30-2013, 02:41 PM #4547
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05-30-2013, 02:43 PM #4548
Haven't posted in a couple weeks, started May 9, relapsed 12 days later
Back on track and going strong 9 days.
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05-30-2013, 02:44 PM #4549
Thanks man, I am so addicted to the internet and fapping/porn. Will beat this though. I remember Gary Wilson talking about the novelty factor when it comes to porn, but the same thing could be applied to the internet. The internet has a novelty factor and can cause overstimulation.Cobra Kai Crew
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05-30-2013, 02:45 PM #4550
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05-30-2013, 02:46 PM #4551
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05-30-2013, 03:34 PM #4552
That's a long time, lol. Do you have any hobbies man? Do you go to the gym?
What exactly do you do on the internet for so long? You'd probably be better off spending your free time playing video games (not on a PC) since there's no triggers there. Not really the best suggestion, but it's still better than being on the internet IMO (as long as you don't develop another addiction lol)
Anyways, hopefully you get this job and that will definitely help. If it's a full time job, that will be even better.
Wake up
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05-30-2013, 03:38 PM #4553
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I can vouch for this. I may have quit them, but I still know the value of them back from my early days.
All I wanted to do when I got home was load up LOTRO and participate in the only social outlet I had outside of this forum and work, bit difficult to load up tubetube when you're "raiding".
Edit: I just googled tubetube to see if I had unintentionally made someone aware of a porn site, haha.Last edited by WhirlwindTobias; 05-30-2013 at 03:44 PM.
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PRs: Highest mt. - 2962m (Zugspitze), Longest day hike - 70km.
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05-30-2013, 03:45 PM #4554
Yeah, I have started exercising. I spend my time on the internet looking at threads on the misc and going to basketball message boards. I feel like I am missing out if I don't stay on these boards when it comes to information, entertainment. I guess it is the novelty factor that gets me addicted.Cobra Kai Crew
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05-30-2013, 03:50 PM #4555
I edged a bit yesterday and then I called my girl up and had sex. I'm still keeping my count going because I had physical touch from another person. BUT having sex during this is like cheating, it makes it so much easier.
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05-30-2013, 03:54 PM #4556
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Into- Mountaineering, running & Djent/Progressive music.
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PRs: Highest mt. - 2962m (Zugspitze), Longest day hike - 70km.
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05-30-2013, 04:21 PM #4557
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05-30-2013, 04:34 PM #4558
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05-30-2013, 04:36 PM #4559
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Does no-fap really increase confidence/sociability or is that just placebo effect?
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05-30-2013, 04:39 PM #4560
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