Yesterday night i had a wet dream, woke up and somehow ended up masturbating. Anyone know a way to reduce the wet dreams? First time i ever had one.
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05-11-2013, 12:22 AM #3721*"I don't give a chit Lisa" CREW*
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05-11-2013, 12:23 AM #3722
Zup guize, day 9 of my new count checking in. For those of you who haven´t read my 100th day post, this new count is not due to failing, but due to a more strict routine and new goals.
I haven´t thought at all about sex these last days. My focus has mainly been aimed at schoolwork and taking care of myself. As mentioned in previous posts these last 100 ( +9) days I´ve made several new female friends, most of them really hot about dem 6.5 on the miscs-scale. semi-srs. I´m actually going on a date pretty soon with a girl I´ve been chatting up in town, was kind of hard to approach but she´s really chill and a smooth person to talk with which is a huge +. I got no social anxiety at all. I started this jus for fun. To see if any gains would come from this at all, Mind = blown. My focus on has never been better, my outlook on why / why not to be in a relationship has become more clear and I´m starting to understand what kind of girls I actually like and who I don´t give a flying fudge about.
I follow Arnolds words. Never be afraid to fail, what´s the point of being on this earth if the only thing you do is trying to be like everyone else?To do whatever!
I don't give a chit lisa!
ahh ahh!
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05-11-2013, 12:29 AM #3723
You are right man, sorry it took me so long to respond. Basically I went back to stop paying attention to my emotions as they came up, and cheating by going and clicking on pictures that were arousing me, even if it wasn't porn.
I'm on day 3? Whatever the day, I'm doing fine. Being away and busy but in a nonstressful was is really helpful. Also spent some time with a girl tonight that used to have a thing with me back in the day. It is always interesting to just see someone from your past and how they have transformed, good or bad. I would say I've made leaps and bounds to where I was last year, since last year I was dealing with this issue in private, not really taking care of it.
I really do need more sleep though, and to take better care of myself.
I'll make those 22 days by the end of the month, and from there we will get better at this, day by day, minute by minute.
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05-11-2013, 01:53 AM #3724
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Had a dream that I was fapping to porn... wonder why these are so common on no fap.
Anyway, still going strong on day 15. If I count how many times Ive masturbated in 26 days, its only been 3 times. That is awesome.
The diet wasnt that great for me though yday, Ive got a cold, was in bed n just snacked on any **** I could. Kinda regret it but Ive been doing so well over the last month so I think one day wont affect it.Last edited by SteamedPotato; 05-11-2013 at 01:58 AM.
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05-11-2013, 01:59 AM #3725
Just speaking from the heart Think us dudes put to much pressure on the whole "we have to get sex at all costs thing! "
We all should go with the flow a little more. And I point the finger directly at myself when I say that.
25 kg dumbell shoulder press.... when will be my turn ? ?
Maybe if i'd stop looking at milk as the breast fluid of another animal and just drink it it would help lol
I'll address this too as it needs clearing.
Liston man I was one of the people making them comments and they were far from negative ..and nothing to do with people being "ashamed" as you put it.. the comments are all there if anybody would like to read them.
Yeah, you are correct to say that there appears to be a pattern of thinking that you need to achieve some success on here to have a right to post somthing valid but that is little wonder from the amount of put downs that I've seen happen on here...when encouragement was what was needed. So they fcked off never to be seen for one reason or another.
So the comments on the cky knts was aimed at getting people to a place where they can believe in themselves.. this isn't black and white for everybody ..
So i think to say there was to much negativity is a wee bit harsh. There has been plenty negativity from yourself on here in the past(Iread everything too)...so !? I've fallen at this as much as the next man but I try to stay positive regardless.
Like Frog I'd like to see all the old faces back but if they cant come back at the minute I'm sure they will find their way eventually.If we can master the primal urges that drive us as human beings,we can most likely master anything.
“I’m not in this world to live up to your expectations and you’re not in this world to live up to mine.” Bruce Lee
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05-11-2013, 02:39 AM #3726
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Into- Mountaineering, running & Djent/Progressive music.
Anti- Lack of accountability. Censorship, fat acceptance, & current wave feminism. That's why I left the UK.
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05-11-2013, 03:15 AM #3727
Was going 10 days strong in late march then relapsed. Tried to do no fap April but failed. Once you fap even once it's really easy to get back into the habit. Now I am on 2weeks+ and going strong. Hope to be on the no fap May list.
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05-11-2013, 03:24 AM #3728
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05-11-2013, 06:24 AM #3729
Day 159 no Porn
Day 62 no Masturbation
Day 4 no orgasm
Nothing to really report.* Forever Alone Crew *
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05-11-2013, 07:12 AM #3730
I didn't have a chance too. I'll check it out for sure. Exams got me all week and then I've got a ton of work to get all the people graduated and out of here. Haven't even packed to go home yet! I will let you know what I think when I get a chance.
EDIT: I actually just found it, and thanks man, I appreciate it! Definitely is motivation to continue and make sure I beat this thing.
Also, Day 3, should be busy today so no struggles. If I do though I'm getting the heck away from a comp.Last edited by CSOleson; 05-11-2013 at 07:29 AM.
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05-11-2013, 08:10 AM #3731
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Day 1. To be honest, I'd be lying if I said i felt any worse after yesterday. Still feel confident and motivated which is two main things I want from nofap. It was mainly the guilt of losing the streak that hurt, but once I accepted that it's alright.
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05-11-2013, 12:35 PM #3732
relapsed at day 6 , i dont deserve to have the no fap crew on my sig ....i brought shame to myself and this crew
feelsbadman.jpg"I look in the mirror and I see that shadow , that shadow that I will be someday ... soon , I will be anything but average"
"I may never make it rich but I will make it jacked"
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05-11-2013, 12:50 PM #3733
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05-11-2013, 01:51 PM #3734
Does anyone notice after a great work out the urge to fap goes up 10x? Whats happenin?
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05-11-2013, 02:32 PM #3735
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05-11-2013, 03:24 PM #3736
best way to end no fap is to just not be reminded of it. approaching week 4 and i've noticed that i've had better progress when i didn't track it and just went about with my life (no chains.cc for me).
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05-11-2013, 04:25 PM #3737
^ Awesome if it works for you, I post nearly every day tho and catch up on the posts. Plus I have already 2 friends on nowank, one is like 3 or more weeks in, the other one on his second. So we talk about it too, it's not a problem for me. It's nice to have some support in this battle you know.
day 64, going strong. living on my own is sooooo awesome
edit: just got sooo hyped up thinking about tomorrows workout. It's gonna be sickening, the first time I hit tris and bis the same day, gonna be outlandish. gonna eat 2 pounds of meat after that > gainsLast edited by quelopario; 05-11-2013 at 04:42 PM.
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05-11-2013, 05:31 PM #3738
Day 25, going strong. Dem slow brain changes, feeling great majority of the time. I'm one happy mofo!
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05-11-2013, 06:21 PM #3739
Day 160 no Porn
Day 63 no Masturbation
Day 5 no orgasm
Had some arousal 100% erections thinking about sex this morning laying in bed. Mood is pretty good.* Forever Alone Crew *
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05-11-2013, 06:44 PM #3740
Fuuuuarrkkkk!!! I relapsed. Day 0.
My pathetic "excuse" is that I'm on time off to study for exams in a few weeks time.. My scumbag brain just keeps looking for more ways to procrastinate and not study, "this is boring :watch tv; ********; fap..." AHHH damn lazy attitude! I've seen on here that a few of you guys were/are doing exams recently. Did any of you have any issues with procrastinating with study leading to urges to fap.... any tips on this??
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05-11-2013, 06:54 PM #3741
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05-11-2013, 07:26 PM #3742
Yes, after working out I find the urge to fap is increased a lot as well.
Day 4.. I saw the girl today who I met during my first streak and we just made out in the park.. I didn't want to push it to far otherwise I most likely would have fapped.
Keepin on..++ Positive Crew ++
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05-11-2013, 07:47 PM #3743
Question: If one's addiction is so bad and they've been used to edging for hours on end, could it be beneficial to ease in to NoFap by first learning to stop edging; that is by orgasming as SOON as possible?
I'm finding it insanely hard to stop. I have girls I know that serve as triggers for my fantasies that make it a lot harder than just closing away a porn stash. My impulse to get that "rush" is too great now, that's why I'm wondering if "de-learning" edging could be a more sensible starting point? I relapsed again tonight but I feel a lot less tired than last night because I made it a point to get it over and done with. Think my brain felt shocked at this too lol.I rep pro-AI posters
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05-11-2013, 07:57 PM #3744
Yowza.... urgin' to pronz tonight. Going to hot spots for strong 7/10s+ is not a good idea. Total triggers.
Nonetheless, resisted so far.
Day 3 No P/F nearly complete
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05-11-2013, 08:22 PM #3745
Day 45 or so
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05-11-2013, 08:35 PM #3746
Dam just lost my streak.
had gone 20 days, was feeling awesome, met girl, mind blowing sex, next morning was super ****in horny.... and just couldn't resist fuark
has this happened to anyone else? that overwhelming urge the day after?
Anyway not gunna beat myself up about it, restart the count and going for 90 brahs
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05-11-2013, 10:52 PM #3747
Day 6. no sweat. I absolutely murdered the weights today. Lookin for that ten day streak
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05-11-2013, 11:17 PM #3748
In again and for good this time.
Chit gets hard as fuk after day 6 but I'm gonna do it this time.
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05-11-2013, 11:57 PM #3749
Just bumping this vid I posted a while back for some of you dudes who might have missed it .
Some good stuff !!If we can master the primal urges that drive us as human beings,we can most likely master anything.
“I’m not in this world to live up to your expectations and you’re not in this world to live up to mine.” Bruce Lee
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05-12-2013, 12:09 AM #3750
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