Who doesn't idolise their dad? In fact think they are usually embarrassments? (srs)

[Mark_O.]

my dad is a ****in boss. mirin srs

[notbadnotbrad]

my dad is a 6 foot 3 49 year old narcissist that smashes hot girls who are 22 and makes over 200k a year.... the worst part is I look up to him and his lifestyle even though he ditched my mom after he knocked her up and I don't talk to him

[Kwangvatar]

-my dad started with nothing and worked for $6/hour, but now runs a successful small business making six figures a year
-provided me with everything I needed in life, says he's only reason he's still working is to support me and my sister until we have full time jobs/careers
-has never hit me or my mum or sister ever
-has the money to pay someone to fix chit but he does it all himself, unless its too dangerous/illegal
-but he raised me to be a beta and im still a beta
-blames me for being beta but doesn't admit he was part of the reason im a beta
-i still admire what he's done

[qal]

"look up to no one, otherwise all you'l ever be is 2nd best"

[SwoleJoseph]

My father hit my brother and i.. he always had anger issues... once my brother and i went over the age of 16 he stoped.. my mother managed to tame him. and make him way more calm.. turns out he always had high blood pressure. My father was never a beta.. my mom told me stories of how he would get angry at anyone.. like anyone... but my father had a rough childhood.. his father was even worse and extremely strict..

you know what.. even though my father was harsh.. i respect him and love him so much.. everyday he works his ass off for my mother brother and i.. he gives us a life he wish he had when he was a kid.. sometimes i wonder how he can even smile at me after working so much.. how much strength it takes... thats real strength.... My motivation is to make enough money and give it to my mother and father so they can never worry about money ever again.. once i come of age... i just hope i can even do it... anyways man the moral is.. he is still your dad.. respect him

your dad sounds like my dad, he works so fkn hard, also has high blood pressure and has a temper, he showed me that no matter what you do, do it properly, dont half ass schit, even if it's a simple task, just do it properly the first time round and don't cut corners. mire his ability to give 100% at everything he dose, although i am lazy as fuk and always half ass schit maybe one day i'll learn

[Coverup]

I can relate op except my dad would beat me for doing well in school. He was convinced it was useless. To put it shortly the guy was an alcoholic psycho who took his anger out on me, told me I was a mistake, regretted having me. Constantly threatened to hospitalize me. He didn't even call me by my real name but by expletives.

[mapes345]

I don't idolise my dad for a number of reasons. Firstly he's a little socially awkward, secondly he didn't make full use of his potential, he's an incredibly smart guy but did nothing about it, he joined the RAF when he was 16 which ****ed up his life. I do love him to bits though and appreciate everything he has done for our family. To this day at 56 he still works 15 hour shifts to put food on our table.

[TruckDriver66]

I think as soon as a parent lays a hand on you all that "appreciate them while they're here" stuff flies out the window.

My dad:
Hasn't worked a stable job in 8 years and retired two years ago at the tender age of 49
Lives off my mom's money
Beats mum, tells her she's ugly, fat, etc
She can't divorce him because of religion
He won't divorce her because of her money

blablabla that's all I care to type about. I don't have any brothers and I'm glad because they would either be 1/ angry as phuck crazy gangsters or 2/ as beta and retarded as my dad.

i know this feel

except my dad didnt work from his 20s

[Naeem11]

Both my parents are my greatest inspiration. They are evidence that if I do what they say I will end up with a chitty future. So I moved 3,000 miles away. Both of them nearing their 50's and will be working until they die. And they blame each other for that. Zero accountability and harping on the past. Funny how they taught me and my brother respect, honesty, and humility, and love for your fellow brothers and sisters all around the world, yet they showed known of it, or very little and at random moments. So their actions taught me the value of having those virtues and actually applying them daily. I love them dearly for raising me, feeding me, etc. But their actions taught me more than their words did.

Dat feel when you felt like a nuisance and a bother growing up. Someone just in the way.

[Lindoras]

my dad is a 6 foot 3 49 year old narcissist that smashes hot girls who are 22 and makes over 200k a year.... the worst part is I look up to him and his lifestyle even though he ditched my mom after he knocked her up and I don't talk to him

This is true.

[KBBaron]

I idolize my dad for sure, takes alot to send four kids through private schooling, give us all amazing childhoods and put up with our crap. Will be happy to amount to half the man he is.

[Cacophony]

my dad is currently suffering from frontal lobe dementia. its so hard to see him get worse day by day. the one thing that he still has is despite his situation is his sense of humor. i mire that because lots of folks in his position are very upset

[StefanAmsterdam]

have learned a lot from him, but he's a dick (srs).. kicked me out/stopped caring more than a year ago

Now i'm entrepreneuring my own way back in to the life i've always had

Feelsgood till a certain point

- Still have respect for him / thank him for everything he did for me.

[Nicholas45]

My dad is an awesome dude when hes sober. Hes funny, smart, all that stuff. Sadly, hes an alcoholic so i dont see that side of him much

[c00kmysock]

I respect him, he's inspirational and he taught me many things but I wouldn't consider him a hero or idolize him. Otherwise you will always be second best.

He didn't teach me much in the art of alphaness though, oh well

[BrocepCurls]

My dad has his flaws but I mire him because he worked his ass off, came from a poor village in India, youngest of 8 kids, 1st one in the family to go to university, became a doctor, established himself in the UK back when immigration was a lot stricter and you had to be really skilled to get in.

lolwut are you my half brother

[MilkBaGG]

Father cheated on my mother when my sister and I were very young. He never paid child support. Actually, he never did anything for us.

Today, he is broke and everything. We're helping him financially even if he never gave us chit. Mother told us even if he never did anything for y'all, Help him out when he needs help.

[Nawmsayin]

sometimes my dad does embarrassing/strange things, sometimes we don't get along, sometimes he makes mistakes that i myself could easily have avoided. but he's only human, love him regardless. hope i don't ever know that feel OP.

Exactly. My dad will go out of his way to help anyone. He speaks his mind and can be opinionated, which can be awkward sometimes. He has shown me good values to have and shown me how I don't want to act but all in all he's a good guy.

[poppycock101]

alcoholic dad/10

[MilkBaGG]

alcoholic dad/10

I know that feel, you're not alone

[JayLuong91011]

When you put things into perspective like that, if my mother died my father wouldn't be there. He wouldn't look for me. He'd be worrying his own goddamn responsibilties; and he'd put his cock between some whores ass-raise 2 children, and get married before he has the balls to whisper to me that he's even "dating" other women. THere is no furry nor fire to compare to; when you describe the contempt i breath for my fathers irresponsibility to be a man.

-did i mention he wanted to borrow 2,000 dollars.
-did i mention he his other wives have driven him out of his own apartment
-did i mention that he has no contact with his side of the family except for his sister
-did i mention that all he ****ing talks about is working out and how he looks
-lastly, he wants my family to get him a workers visa cause he wants to raise his other family here.... and begs to go back into my mothers household.....

**** feels good to express..

[aristomeow]

My dad has his flaws but I mire him because he worked his ass off, came from a poor village in India, youngest of 8 kids, 1st one in the family to go to university, became a doctor, established himself in the UK back when immigration was a lot stricter and you had to be really skilled to get in.





I KNEW IT!

You have daddy issues after all

Along with half this thread, your point?

And who even are you.

[Manny735]

My dad is the closest thing to god for me,everyone wants to meet god one day,I live with him everyday

[ArunBaral]

In misc I see a lot of guys saying their dads are their heroes and I usually cringe. For example:



Perhaps you guys are blessed? My dad is a huge beta ******* and I think I have never have/will be proud to have him

brb beat me everyday to do well in school with a belt and fists during childhood
brb wouldn't let me out of the house for days at end until i finished some maths textbook
brb act like an alpha while talking sh*t to my mum and brother, but become a beta step over ******* around strangers
brb manlet height gets dwarved by most other men
brb always being financially insecure and stressing my mum
brb never in the moment, for eg. tell him a simple joke/story and he doesn't understand care because he's always worrying about something
brb never takes us out on holiday willfully, always my mother initiating

thank fuk i moved out

anyone else with irritating dads?

Too many feels. Feelsbatman had to develop my character on my own without fatherly inspiration.

[aristomeow]

It doesn't matter who we are. What matters is our plan.

nope, not mad. But I find it absurd that you, who I have no knowledge of, decide to come into a thread full of people who have "daddy issues" and decide to address me, as the only female.

We can't all have doctor fathers, homie.

[Neezaa]

nope, not mad. But I find it absurd that you, who I have no knowledge of, decide to come into a thread full of people who have "daddy issues" and decide to address me, as the only female.

We can't all have doctor fathers, homie.

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[euron]

i love my dad but he's not the most alpha dude ever. It's weird, some things he does are totally alpha while lately he's been a bit ***gy.

PROS:
-been with my mom since he was 15
-ex-marine, who now does work with addicts/homeless
-rides a motorcycle, loves cars
-handy man loves building chit himself and repairs our car with wood

CONS:
-no friends
-not really into manly bonding
-makes me feel like a failure
-cried because i didnt tell him what i did on weekends/where i went/etc

either way, growing up and coming to the realisation that your dad is not some superhuman who can make all your problems go away feels terrible. I hope to be like hime some day.

[Brad155]

My dad is a complete mess, he has a history of violence, drug abuse, alcohol abuse, excessive gambling, his credit is completely and utterly ****ed, etc. He made a lot of mistakes in his life that I would never, ever make, because he has taught me from his own mistakes. I don't idolize my dad for what he has done, but for what he has taught me. There was a long period of time that I really hated my dad for what he put my mom through, but he's grown the **** up and after 64 years finally got it all figured out, and now he's using that wisdom and teaching his children very valuable stuff.

[stilllmatic]

unfortunately i don't have a strong relationship with my dad...my fault, but when my life is going bad i hide away from everything

i'm very proud of him, great role model, definitely has that alpha about him but also a sensitive side

this feel, i know it

[Ronceiro]

nope, not mad. But I find it absurd that you, who I have no knowledge of, decide to come into a thread full of people who have "daddy issues" and decide to address me, as the only female.

We can't all have doctor fathers, homie.

LMAO @ the typical "who are you" female response

You must be one of those slow ones who need jokes explained to them all the time, can't believe I have to spell this out...



-You openly post about being a sloot and banging 10+ guys last year
-Sloots have daddy issues
-Makes sense now why you are the way you are


Pretty standard misc humour, nothing not to understand


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