I know that feel op, then again I'm only 19 lul
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02-08-2013, 02:09 PM #91
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02-08-2013, 02:10 PM #92
Look OP, I've been with my wife for seven years and have slayed plenty of sloots. Listen to me. You have only two choices in life when it comes to woman. Stay single go out and fukk as many bishes as you possibly can. Have fun and stay safe. Fukk all sorts of different bar whores and freaks. Many of those girls will rock your world, lick your angus and do all sorts of crazy freaky chit in bed. However, none of them will be wife material. Or you can find a good woman who you can actually stand to be around for a long period of time. Good girls won't let you donkey punch them. But over time sex can improve. That's it. Those are your choices in life. Deal with it.
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02-08-2013, 02:11 PM #93
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02-08-2013, 02:11 PM #94
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02-08-2013, 02:15 PM #96
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02-08-2013, 02:17 PM #97
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02-08-2013, 02:19 PM #98
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Have sex with lots of sexually liberal (aka fun) women, or have sex with only one sexually conservative (aka boring) girl for the rest of your life. Different strokes for different folks I guess, but I can't see why it would possibly be a bad thing for girls to want to do more sexually explicit things with you, if anything its a good thing. Sounds like you listen to what society tells you a good woman should be.
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02-08-2013, 02:22 PM #99
This is true but it takes time. Won't happen right away. That's why I said that good sex will come eventually.
It's simple brah. Sloots =/= wifey material. Yes you can train them in the long run but in my experience girls who are great in the sack are usually crazy as phuck and can't stand to be around them for any length in time or they're below 6/10. You gotta find a good girl and teach her.
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02-08-2013, 02:24 PM #100
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02-08-2013, 02:26 PM #101
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02-08-2013, 02:27 PM #102
if you stay with her you will NEVER experience good sex ever EVER again in your life. if you're ok with that then stay with her. if you're not, eventually you WILL give in and cheat or divorce. get it out of your system before you marry. you're probably scared you wont find another girl that would be of equal or better wife quality because honestly they are rare as fuark now. sloots slooting everywhere drinking/clubbing every weekend doing drugs etc.. you know how it is. so i cant promise you that you will find someone better in the future but it will kill you for the rest of your life thinking "what if.."
my ex was decent wife material. but sex was so horrible i refused to have it with her. srsly phuckin fapped everyday and would stray away from the topic of sex nearly every time to avoid getting her horny. blowjobs were meh...didnt even let me nut in her mouth, do you know how much of a climax killer it is when you have to jizz in a fukn trashcan after a bj? plus her hand/mouth rhythm was way off and would barely put it halfway into her mouth. she is my ex for more reasons than that but this was a big reason.
oh and if you do decide you want to just fuk around, DONT go out/associate yourself with nice girls that look like they might be wife material. run from the nice relationship material girls becuase you wont even realize when you get to a point where you will think that this new one may be the one and you still havent had the chance to fully get the sexors out of your system. the point here is to satisfy your sex drive and focus on the numbers of sloots you fuark, not to fall in love again and go through same process in another 1-3 years.:::Foot Fetish Crew:::
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02-08-2013, 02:29 PM #103
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02-08-2013, 02:30 PM #104
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Define what a sloot is. I don't see how having more interesting sex makes a girl a sloot. All girls enjoy sex, it doesn't make them slooty. Most girls who are actually hot (and by hot I don't mean the good looking good girl, I mean the high value hot girl that every guy wants to get with) probably turns down more guys in a month than you've slept with girls in your entire life. A hot girl who has slept with 30 men might be seen as a sloot, but she has turned down thousands of men during her lifetime. THOUSANDS. And you're really going to begrudge a girl for sleeping with the few truly attractive men who flirt with her, as though you'd turn down a bunch of 10/10s trying to seduce you.
Again, this only applies for girls who are actually hot, not average girls who fuk anything that moves for the purpose of validation. You shouldn't want those girls to begin with anyway.
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02-08-2013, 02:30 PM #105
sex is a work in progress why not just communicate to her and tell her what makes you feel good.
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02-08-2013, 02:41 PM #106
Lots of responses in here, OP.
Sex sucks? Talk to her about it.
Can't talk to her about it? You sure this relationship is as strong as you think it is?
Alpha up. Teach her. Show her what you like. Don't like how she's grabbing your penor? Grab her hand and show her how you like it. Take control. Don't just whine and complain that she can't read your mind. You can't read hers either.
Communicate and I bet it'll get better.
Unless you want to PIITB and she's not down for that. In which case, good luck, OP.Snakes are just tails with faces...
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02-08-2013, 02:42 PM #107
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02-08-2013, 02:42 PM #108
this is how it's gonna go OP. going by your op she doesn't seem like a very sexual person so if you stay with her eventually sex will probably become non existent, that "probably" will become a "certainly" if you throw any kids into the mix. this will most likely cause you to cheat and then divorce, or you'll be unhappy in your marriage and constantly wonder the lifestyle you could have lived if you had broken up with her, again most likely causing big problems in your marriage.
the other way i see it going is you break up with her, you go out man whoring for a little while but that void that she left in your life will never be filled. you will constantly regret ending it with her and while you may be banging different chicks and having a good sex life you probably won't find another quality girl and that will weigh on you heavily.
you could speak to her about this like others have mentioned but a non sexual person isn't going to instantly become a freak. my advice is decided what you value more in your life, and base the decision on that. good luck bro.
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02-08-2013, 02:45 PM #109
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02-08-2013, 02:46 PM #110
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02-08-2013, 02:47 PM #111
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02-08-2013, 02:52 PM #112
Maybe you guys can enlighten me but I don't think it is so much the lifestyle the OP will be missing out on. Everyone likes sex don't they? It makes you feel good, if you don't get sex or have crappy sex then you feel bad, eventually that makes you feel bad about yourself.. Getting laid is a way of re-affirming your attractiveness to the opposite sex which unfortunately is one of the things valued in society. Also as I said earlier it is a way of strengthening the bond between you as a couple.
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02-08-2013, 02:56 PM #113
Bro, if I have to define sloot to you then we are on two totally different levels. Sex is not something somebody is born good at. It takes experience, trial and error. These girls you're talking about are not banging 30 guys. Those really hot girls have very low numbers most of the time because they stay in relationships. They are also generally bad in bed because they are hot and realize that they don't have to try very hard.
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02-08-2013, 02:58 PM #114
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02-08-2013, 03:07 PM #118
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Agreed on those last few points, you're right in some cases. And there are definitely girls out there who have spent their whole lives in relationships, but who are you to judge girls who sleep with the hottest dudes who try to seduce them? You can't really judge people like that unless you'd be the same if a bunch of 10/10's were throwing themselves at you. How much sex a girl has had isn't a wholesome and true reflection of their character. Most girls will also lie about the number of men they have slept with.
I don't know about you, but I think I'd have more fun with a girl who has been more sexually liberal and knows how to get a man off, as opposed to a girl who is sexually conservative who is essentially a prude. Not all girls who are examples of the former are ******* sniffing whores.
And people still chose to do it. Crazy as fuk society we live in.
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02-08-2013, 03:07 PM #119
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