Probably the most beta thing I'll ever post: need advice on friendzone

[NorseBB]

I just turned 16 and I've been into this girl for...6 years? srs. I've liked her on and off and talked to her about it many times and she's made it clear that she only wants to be friends exc... and in 8th grade we became very close (do everything together, families close, typical friendzone s***).

The thing is I feel like I'm seriously in love with her. She has everything: looks, personality, ambitions...and I don't think of her as just someone I'd smash (though I would), she's someone I want to care for and just be with.

Anyway, life is too short for this + it's something I gotta work on but I am distracted by her.

There's this fat kunt in my neighborhood that does nothing but drinks, fails at school (I mean ranked 270 out of 300), and talks a lot of chit but seems to get all the sloots. The girl I fancy always talked about how much she hated white trash but before you know it, he started talking to her and they hooked up. It took me forever to get over that, but now everytime I see her like one of his facebook posts, my bloodpressure spikes and I just wanna punch a phucking hole in the wall because I know they're talking (it happened a few mins ago).

How do I make all this stuff not matter to me?

[RainingBlood]

Just don't care brah. You're not obligated to care, so why care? You're blinded by puppy dog love. If this girl is hooking up with white trash, then it's good that you don't start anything with her.

[halotalo]

well its almost impossible to get over jealousy, but as ive had more girls in life ive learned to no longer be jealous. life is too short to be anyway


find someone else and gain aesthetics since she isnt interested

[brehbrah]

I just turned 16 and I've been into this girl for...6 years? srs. I've liked her on and off and talked to her about it many times and she's made it clear that she only wants to be friends exc... and in 8th grade we became very close (do everything together, families close, typical friendzone s***).

The thing is I feel like I'm seriously in love with her. She has everything: looks, personality, ambitions...and COCKS IN HER MOUTH, ASS AND VAGINA EVERY WEEKEND. I don't think of her as just someone I'd smash (though I would), she's someone I want to care for and just be with.

Anyway, life is too short for this + it's something I gotta work on but I am distracted by her.

There's this fat kunt in my neighborhood that does nothing but drinks, fails at school (I mean ranked 270 out of 300), and talks a lot of chit but seems to get all the sloots. The girl I fancy always talked about how much she hated white trash but before you know it, he started talking to her and they hooked up. It took me forever to get over that, but now everytime I see her like one of his facebook posts, my bloodpressure spikes and I just wanna punch a phucking hole in the wall because I know they're talking (it happened a few mins ago).

How do I make all this stuff not matter to me?

Fixed. Go have sex with people.

[halotalo]

Fixed. Go have sex with people.

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to brehbrah again.

[NorseBB]

Fixed. Go have sex with people.

Lmao, she ain't bout that but kno Wat u mean

[brehbrah]

Lmao, she ain't bout that but kno Wat u mean

Shes 16. Yes she is about that.

[Enficy]

Move. On. Lose that attitude that you need her to live because that's obviously the case, don't be a pussy with no spine.

[NorseBB]

Shes 16. Yes she is about that.

Nahh them catholic morals brah. She doesnt do anything...now that I think about it that makes this all the more pointless

[cjc651]

Well to put it simply, you have to cut all that beta **** out bro. Don't be nice to her. Give her the cold shoulder. Stop sucking up to her. Start talking to other chicks. Hook up with other chicks. If you want a chance at EVER hooking up with this girl (which is slim to none, your story speaks for itself), you need to make her want it. Show here with your actions that you don't care about her any more.

Much easier said than done, but you can do it. You have to make her want you. That is how attraction works.

[koloxid]

become a bitter forever alone, u wont care

u can trust im credible on this subject

[grux12]

Nahh them catholic morals brah. She doesnt do anything...now that I think about it that makes this all the more pointless

No offense meant towards Catholicism or any practitioners thereof, but ime Catholic girls are some of the more promiscuous girls I know.

[NorseBB]

Well to put it simply, you have to cut all that beta **** out bro. Don't be nice to her. Give her the cold shoulder. Stop sucking up to her. Start talking to other chicks. Hook up with other chicks. If you want a chance at EVER hooking up with this girl (which is slim to none, your story speaks for itself), you need to make her want it. Show here with your actions that you don't care about her any more.

Much easier said than done, but you can do it. You have to make her want you. That is how attraction works.

Just a thought (and keep in mind this isn't really what I'm aiming for) but if I got with another girl, wouldn't it bother the **** outta her?

[koloxid]

Nahh them catholic morals brah. She doesnt do anything...now that I think about it that makes this all the more pointless

LMAO dude shes a sloot, i dont care what you think, that is the truth. regardless or not if she is catholic, she has had some type of sex. she may claim virgin, but she has suked quite a few cocks in her time and taken it up the pooper routinely. drop her, stop caring. be friends, but at least get something out of it, instead of anger

[UkraineStrong]

Only time can heal things like this man. The best way to get over her is to just shut her out and avoid her. Which is harder when you have to see her every day. But do the best you can. I was in your shoes not too long ago, and i kind of still am i guess. I thought i found the girl of my dreams, but then we wound up breaking up. After awhile you just kind of realize that you have to let them do their own thing man, and you do yours. And if it was meant to be, life will bring you guys back together some day.

[IAmJelly]

I used to have oneitis like you OP. I eventually realised that it wasn't going to be worth the hassle, there are billions more women in this world and there's going to be a lot more better than your oneitis. I just cut off contact with her completely, started focusing more on other girls, and within 3 months I never even though about her any more, and ended up meeting my current girlfriend at a party 3 months after I cut off contact with my oneitis. Feels good man.

[adzzz97]

I know this feel, I did some insanely beta things and embarrassed the **** outta myself which made me realise how ****ing stupid I was being and got over her. Also I moved country and the chicks here are 500x hotter (Gold Coast, Australia)

Also it was only for like one and a half year

[jz416]

If your actually such good friensds, just drop the oneitis part and use her to get her friends.

[TheSaltyAngus]

there is a rasin why you are in the friend zone

stats: 128lbs

[southparkbbb]

im going through something similar with my ex i just broke up with. i already blocked her number from my phone and im gonna re-block her facebook when its off cooldown. just try to find other girls man that what imma do


i wouldnt reccomend staying friends because u obviously have feeling for her and i dont think she has em for you and its gonna crush you more when she gets with other people (and she will); either make a move on her or move on to other girtls and block her so u dont have to see it

[ericd8]

I just turned 16 and I've been into this girl for...6 years? srs. I've liked her on and off and talked to her about it many times and she's made it clear that she only wants to be friends exc... and in 8th grade we became very close (do everything together, families close, typical friendzone s***).

The thing is I feel like I'm seriously in love with her. She has everything: looks, personality, ambitions...and I don't think of her as just someone I'd smash (though I would), she's someone I want to care for and just be with.

Anyway, life is too short for this + it's something I gotta work on but I am distracted by her.

There's this fat kunt in my neighborhood that does nothing but drinks, fails at school (I mean ranked 270 out of 300), and talks a lot of chit but seems to get all the sloots. The girl I fancy always talked about how much she hated white trash but before you know it, he started talking to her and they hooked up. It took me forever to get over that, but now everytime I see her like one of his facebook posts, my bloodpressure spikes and I just wanna punch a phucking hole in the wall because I know they're talking (it happened a few mins ago).

How do I make all this stuff not matter to me?

If you can't not care, here's what you gotta do.. get jacked, get confident, go have a word with that jackass, show you're the man she's been looking for, not just a friend.

[BrandersonBruh]

Either move on Opie and find some other sloot or balls up and talk to her. Srs. You're keeping yourself in the friendzone

[Jalexander1994]

Hereya go OP.

http://www.simplepickup.com/video/st...e-friend-zone/

[BamfIrl]

Did I cure your oneitis op?

[Mrlatking]

Op stop giving such a chit, she's shown you that she a sloot so move on. Why care about someone when they don't feel the same way it's pointless. Your emotions are being wasted and you're just making yourself more and more of a beta pussy. Stop caring let her at it and live life.

[NorseBB]

Thanks brahs.

[ImmenseGTi]

Dont waste your time with a girl that doesnt give a **** about you. You told her you wanted more than just a friendship, she said no, so you move on.

I promise you once you start talking to another girl, you'll forget all about that girl.

[JayLazy]