I just turned 16 and I've been into this girl for...6 years? srs. I've liked her on and off and talked to her about it many times and she's made it clear that she only wants to be friends exc... and in 8th grade we became very close (do everything together, families close, typical friendzone s***).
The thing is I feel like I'm seriously in love with her. She has everything: looks, personality, ambitions...and I don't think of her as just someone I'd smash (though I would), she's someone I want to care for and just be with.
Anyway, life is too short for this + it's something I gotta work on but I am distracted by her.
There's this fat kunt in my neighborhood that does nothing but drinks, fails at school (I mean ranked 270 out of 300), and talks a lot of chit but seems to get all the sloots. The girl I fancy always talked about how much she hated white trash but before you know it, he started talking to her and they hooked up. It took me forever to get over that, but now everytime I see her like one of his ******** posts, my bloodpressure spikes and I just wanna punch a phucking hole in the wall because I know they're talking (it happened a few mins ago).
How do I make all this stuff not matter to me?
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02-07-2013, 08:36 PM #1
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Probably the most beta thing I'll ever post: need advice on friendzone
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02-07-2013, 08:40 PM #2
Just don't care brah. You're not obligated to care, so why care? You're blinded by puppy dog love. If this girl is hooking up with white trash, then it's good that you don't start anything with her.
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02-07-2013, 08:41 PM #3
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02-07-2013, 08:51 PM #10
Well to put it simply, you have to cut all that beta **** out bro. Don't be nice to her. Give her the cold shoulder. Stop sucking up to her. Start talking to other chicks. Hook up with other chicks. If you want a chance at EVER hooking up with this girl (which is slim to none, your story speaks for itself), you need to make her want it. Show here with your actions that you don't care about her any more.
Much easier said than done, but you can do it. You have to make her want you. That is how attraction works.
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02-07-2013, 08:53 PM #11
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02-07-2013, 09:00 PM #14
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LMAO dude shes a sloot, i dont care what you think, that is the truth. regardless or not if she is catholic, she has had some type of sex. she may claim virgin, but she has suked quite a few cocks in her time and taken it up the pooper routinely. drop her, stop caring. be friends, but at least get something out of it, instead of anger
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02-07-2013, 09:22 PM #15
Only time can heal things like this man. The best way to get over her is to just shut her out and avoid her. Which is harder when you have to see her every day. But do the best you can. I was in your shoes not too long ago, and i kind of still am i guess. I thought i found the girl of my dreams, but then we wound up breaking up. After awhile you just kind of realize that you have to let them do their own thing man, and you do yours. And if it was meant to be, life will bring you guys back together some day.
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02-07-2013, 11:00 PM #16
I used to have oneitis like you OP. I eventually realised that it wasn't going to be worth the hassle, there are billions more women in this world and there's going to be a lot more better than your oneitis. I just cut off contact with her completely, started focusing more on other girls, and within 3 months I never even though about her any more, and ended up meeting my current girlfriend at a party 3 months after I cut off contact with my oneitis. Feels good man.
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02-08-2013, 06:41 AM #20
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im going through something similar with my ex i just broke up with. i already blocked her number from my phone and im gonna re-block her ******** when its off cooldown. just try to find other girls man that what imma do
i wouldnt reccomend staying friends because u obviously have feeling for her and i dont think she has em for you and its gonna crush you more when she gets with other people (and she will); either make a move on her or move on to other girtls and block her so u dont have to see it
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02-08-2013, 07:36 AM #21
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02-08-2013, 07:44 AM #23
Hereya go OP.
http://www.simplepickup.com/video/st...e-friend-zone/
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02-08-2013, 08:18 AM #24
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02-08-2013, 09:32 AM #25
Op stop giving such a chit, she's shown you that she a sloot so move on. Why care about someone when they don't feel the same way it's pointless. Your emotions are being wasted and you're just making yourself more and more of a beta pussy. Stop caring let her at it and live life.
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