Cliffnotes of Book ALL Miscers Should Read "HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE"

[Jeddore]

read the brook - would recommend/10

[Pr0No0B]

IN and repped for effort

[ChristianBrah]

Thanks brah this is pretty useful. Is this a book on how to persuade people too because it seems like it through some of the points.

Yea, it does seem to show how to persuade as well! I would def. recommend this to a sales person who wants to increase his charisma/system.

[2012reso]

I read the book and honestly wanted to like it, but I ended up having to force my way through it. Majority of the content was either obvious or for f*cking pussies. Again, wanted to like it, but so far it has been my least favorite book out of the 15 or so (all nonfiction) I've read over the fast 2 months.

[BloodDiamond]

Can I ask why you decided to do this OP? lol.

[tman202]

Thanks for the cliffs! Repped

[ChristianBrah]

Can I ask why you decided to do this OP? lol.

Well I was taking the notes anyway, and I figured since the Misc seems to have a lot of threads talking about social anxiety, talking to women, etc...

I figured these notes would help give some tips to Misc'ers who wanted to learn how to meet more people, make more friends, build charisma, build confidence, etc

[BloodDiamond]

Well I was taking the notes anyway, and I figured since the Misc seems to have a lot of threads talking about social anxiety, talking to women, etc...

I figured these notes would help give some tips to Misc'ers who wanted to learn how to meet more people, make more friends, build charisma, build confidence, etc

But everyone has already read this classic, and if not, cliffs are just a google search away.

Its a bit redundant, unnecessary and random lol.

Glad you're enjoying it tho. I did too like 10 years ago.

Can you do 48 Laws of Power next or Rich Dad, Poor Dad next?

[WaittWhatt]

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[ChristianBrah]

But everyone has already read this classic, and if not, cliffs are just a google search away.

Its a bit redundant, unnecessary and random lol.

Glad you're enjoying it tho. I did too like 10 years ago.

Can you do 48 Laws of Power next or Rich Dad, Poor Dad next?

I mean, there's cliffs of it online, but shorter and don't really explain it out as in depth as I just did, so..... I'm ok with it lol

And actually, I may have to read one of those next... I've heard a lot about the Rich Dad, Poor Dad one actually

[TallLadybug]

This book has been sitting in my personal library (of 5 books) and I have yet to read it. Will start on it tomorrow evening. Thank you, OP. Repped

[evo315]

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saved for later when i have time to read

[MagicMata]

in, some things for me to try and remember, i'm generally pretty cynical and sarcastic, although I haven't had any problems socially yet, this can't hurt.

[AnorexicBodyBro]

Be humble by saying derogatory things about yourself

Lol... no thanks.

[ChristianBrah]

in, some things for me to try and remember, i'm generally pretty cynical and sarcastic, although I haven't had any problems socially yet, this can't hurt.

good attitude yea man, give it a shot!

[randombrah1]

mirin cliffs brah, it was a good read, already have the e-book cant wait to read it, will rep on rc

[ChristianBrah]

Be humble by saying derogatory things about yourself

Lol... no thanks.

I understand how you could see that as a negative.. but you gotta understand Dale was just recommending pointing out your faults in a friendly manor..

you're not calling yourself an idiot or less of man or something

[SpicyCurrie]

 Smile even when on the phone. Your smile will come through the phone through your voice.

Holy chit.. OP you just made my day a million times better. You made me remember that after I hadn't talked to an old oneitis on the phone in months and then called her, she said something that made me smile, and as I was replying she said she knew I was smiling because my voice changed. It made me feel phenomenal knowing that she noticed that and remembered it.

Thanks OP, that honestly just made me feel a million times better about myself. Brought back one of my best memories. Reading the rest tomorrow on spare at school.

[ChristianBrah]

 Smile even when on the phone. Your smile will come through the phone through your voice.

Holy chit.. OP you just made my day a million times better. You made me remember that after I hadn't talked to an old oneitis on the phone in months and then called her, she said something that made me smile, and as I was replying she said she knew I was smiling because my voice changed. It made me feel phenomenal knowing that she noticed that and remembered it.

Thanks OP, that honestly just made me feel a million times better about myself. Brought back one of my best memories. Reading the rest tomorrow on spare at school.

No problem man

[ChristianBrah]

mirin cliffs brah, it was a good read, already have the e-book cant wait to read it, will rep on rc

thanks man. I'll get back on this thread sometime tomorrow. Going to bed for now

[DavidJr74]

Read it. It is a good book but can't help but feeling like a BETA sometimes. brb praising you but deep down thinking you're a fuking idiot lol.

[UncertainPerson]

Read it. It is a good book but can't help but feeling like a BETA sometimes. brb praising you but deep down thinking you're a fuking idiot lol.

this

ive been doing this stuff more often for about a year now and its helped loads but i feel beta as fuk and i feel like people dont really respect me. hard to explain, its like "oh, theres uncertainperson, hes a really nice guy i like him...thats all. nothing alpha about him"

[Kallaghan]

do you have a pdf of the book?

[Maiar]

Anyone who doesn't already know this chit is a social retard.

BRB DON'T CRITICISE SOMEONE YOUR TRYING TO GET TO LIKE YOU, DURRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

BRB SMILE TO MAKE A GOOD IMPRESSION, HURRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

Truly life-changing revelations.

What's funny is you're criticizing the OP and anyone who doesn't already know these things in this very post. Maybe you should read the book?

[Maiar]

Read it. It is a good book but can't help but feeling like a BETA sometimes. brb praising you but deep down thinking you're a fuking idiot lol.

True, but you're somewhat missing the point. When you're seeing something from anothers perspective then it's much harder to find them an idiot, because you've found reasons why they think/believe as they do.

[RunAndPunch]

> Criticism is futile because it puts a person on the defensive and usually makes him strive to justify himself.
> Criticism is dangerous, because it wounds a person’s pride, hurts his sense of importance (everyone wants to feel important/wanted) and arouses resentment.

How true is this really? I used to get butthurt when someone criticized me over whatever but now I find that it barely gets to me at all.

[Brz]

Interedasting.

[wayprotein]

whole book sounds like a guide to being a forgettable beta

[Kallaghan]

How true is this really? I used to get butthurt when someone criticized me over whatever but now I find that it barely gets to me at all.

haters gonna hate etc. most people are vain and easily upset.
it said something about constructively criticising eg: I’ve got to say bro, you’re looking thick, solid, tight… and if you work your legs a bit harder people will def. think you’re shredded over LMAO YOU HAVE CHIT LEGS YOU *******

[BorisTheCat]

Thanks a bunch OP, I've been thinking about reading this book for a long time.

Subbed, gonna read when I have the time.

Take my measlies.