I want every single miscer to read this. No cliffs. No pics. All real talk.

[YeahBuddyyyyy]

A lot of people messaged me thanking me for the positivity I spread in 2 of my threads
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showth...hp?t=151201453
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showth...hp?t=151185653

I've decided to make one more thread to try to lift the spirits of those who have let the Misc, the internet, and life in general get to them

Miscers, do yourselves a favor and change your mindsets. All these threads complaining about everything is lowering your quality of life the longer you keep your negative thoughts with you. Everyone here is so concerned about having 10/10 facial aesthetics, the body of a Spartan, the wealth of all celebrities combined, the perfect manmore height, the fastest car, the best looking girl, etc.

Who cares? When you die, will people 3 generations from now remember you're a manlet? Will they remember that you drove a mom car? Will they remember that you didn't have boulder shoulders? No. Chances are they won't remember you period. Everything about you will most likely be forgotten 100 years from now unless you do something historical. Even then they'll only remember that historical act. We all know who Martin Luther King Jr. is and what he did. Does anyone know his height? What car he drove? What his physique looked like when he was in college? What his girlfriend in high school looked like? How fast his car was? No

Just like that popular internet copypasta says, "You're focusing on the things in life that don't really matter"

Everything you do now will most likely be forgotten in 100 years. You only have one life. Live a happy one. You enjoy watching girly movies? F*ck it, watch them. You have a crush on a nerdy girl? F*ck it, go for her. You like your really reliable and plain looking mom car? F*ck it, drive it. You wanna get swole as sh*t and look like a damn gorilla? F*ck it, take a multi and lift heavy and ride a foot-powered, two-wheeled vehicle

If there's one piece of advice I wanna share with all of you sick kunts, it's to do what makes you happy

Do what makes you happy

I'll repeat that one more time

Do what makes you happy.

[flash21]

great threads, repped; op what do you do to keep this positive mind state?

[YeahBuddyyyyy]

great threads, repped

Spreading positivity around the Misc, one thread at a time

[Tywin]

good read brah

i have a lot of regrets cuz I cared too much what other ppl thought

[henrycole]

No boulder shoulder, no care.

[Truvy]

Strong truth from a 21 year old. Gjdm. Repped.

[YeahBuddyyyyy]

good read brah

i have a lot of regrets cuz I cared too much what other ppl thought

You'll learn how to think differently eventually. Trust me, I was probably worse than you. A lot of the things I did in the past were done to please and get the approval of others. If others were pleased, I was pleased. If others were displeased, I was displeased. It was a never-ending cycle of getting happiness from other people's happiness and it took me a really, really long time to realize that wasn't the way to live. Now I do everything for me. That doesn't mean be a selfish person because you should try to do things for others too, but the only approval you need is your own

[Kard]

Glad we're in the same crew! I'll be reading your other threads right now.

[flash21]

op tell us how you changed your mind set.. i wish i knew you irl, no homo, no creep

[MrEbonics]

negging OP's makes me happy

hey OP

Im just trying to be happy

[YeahBuddyyyyy]

op tell us how you changed your mind set.. i wish i knew you irl, no homo, no creep

Here's a post from one of the threads I linked in the OP:

You can teach someone how to look at things in a different light which can help lead them to more confidence, but you can't teach the "not a single f*ck is given" attitude. That's not something that can be taught. That's something you'll have to pick up on your own

Just practice thinking positively and you'll slowly become more comfortable with yourself. The more comfortable you are with yourself the less you'll care about what other people have to say. I can't teach someone how to stop caring. They have to do that on their own

I hope that answers your question

[face055]

strong reminds me of

"Everybody, one day will die, and be forgetton. Act and behave in a way that will make life interesting and fun, **** a mundane predictable life working monday to friday with something you derive no pleasure from; just living life out till you grow old and wither away. Find a passion, form relationships, dont be afraid to get out there and **** what everyone else thinks, trust me its alot more fun that way.

Dont ever pay people out or put people down. Instead just put yourself up and let the haters do their thing. Id rather be a person thats hated on, than a person that does the hating. A wise man one said...

Haters gonna hate!"

[realjones888]

All you have to do to be happy is not be unhappy.

[flash21]

Here's a post from one of the threads I linked in the OP:



I hope that answers your question

thanks , i know what you mean

[ManMeatMcgee]

Does working out make you happy OP or did you acquire those aesthetics to please someone else?

[GoodToBeAMAN]

Will start my amphetamine addiction tomorrow.

Thanks Opee

[ALPHR]

Wow man that actually really inspired me to do what makes me happy and not care about what people think, I've lost so many opportunities in life like during school and stuff that I wanted to do but would of been considerd uncool so I didn't do them, but these are mistakes I know I won't make again because **** everyone else

[HairyMerkin]

You wanna get swole as sh*t and look like a damn gorilla? F*ck it, take a multi and lift heavy and ride a foot-powered, two-wheeled vehicle

[jhow2319]

Repped OP, I like this mindset. Life is too short to worry about the bull

[SpartacusNYC]

OP, you look less aesthetic in your new avi. Wut do?

[YeahBuddyyyyy]

Does working out make you happy OP or did you acquire those aesthetics to please someone else?

I first started to get the approval of others because I was always teased for being really skinny and I started to hate what I saw in the mirror. Fortunately, the more aesthetic I got the more confident I became. I finally got to the point where I was really comfortable with my own skin and now I just keep lifting because I fell in love with it

It's weird because although I was teased, I was still well-known and liked because I was a track athlete for 9 years and came from a high school with a very strong track program. The teasing wasn't really the bullying type of teasing, but more like the type of teasing teammates do to bust each other's chops. Even then the comments still stung. I knew they were just messing around, but those comments along with some comments from girls really get to you even though you know they're just having fun

[AwkwrdBrazilian]

book'd

thx op

[iPepperAnguses]

great threads, repped; op what do you do to keep this positive mind state?

He's a tall Filipino; he probably grew up getting compliments/worshiped by 24/7 from relatives and other Filipinos.

[AirJordanB]

Solid advice from the OP. People who live for themselves and disregard the opinion of others will attract people towards them while haters will sit in the corner and make fun because they're too worried about how others perceive them.

[atrueboss]

if only this thread would be remembered.

instead, most of misc wont read it, those who do will forget it, and pessimistic threads, negs and attacks on others will be made just like usual.

but its a step in the right direction, OP, props to you man

[89mahou]

thanks brah. that der spreading the positivity is buriful. I just want jail baits in my life. I will be happy.

[NikBB29]

Man Op I love your threads, would Hug irl (no homo)

[YeahBuddyyyyy]

He's a tall Filipino; he probably grew up getting compliments/worshiped by 24/7 from relatives and other Filipinos.

Only after I started lifting. Before...ehhhhh not so much haha

[QuikAsNes]

Ok.

[Desi_guy]

OP, good advice but nobody cares about what people 3 generations from now will think. Not a single person here is worried about that. Your logic in this thread is wrong but I get the main idea. I am not sure why you emphasized so much on people 3 generations from now. Nobody in this world cares what people almost 300 years from now will think about us. We all care about what people in our lives think.