Rant: Why are loners suspected of being creepy?

[BurrowedLurker]

After I got fat and anti-social, people stopped being friends with me, people started thinking I was a creepy guy. On my senior year of high school, someone legit asked me if everything was ok and asked me to spare him if I was going to "do something". The truth is everything was not ok, but I wasn't going to lash out at anyone. I had a few friends outside of school that treated me like the same old guy I always was.

But for some reason this carries over to the internet too. It hurts me when miscers think I have a "rape dungeon", or that they wouldn't keep their children around me, or that I look like a serial killer. I am not a violent person. Never understood why I deserve such labels.

[cunce]

[CompoundsFTW]

5 star thread

[4everalone]

Inb4 school shooting

[BurrowedLurker]

Inb4 school shooting

This is the kind of stuff that makes me sad about my self.

[BurrowedLurker]

I sure could use an ear to talk about my feelings, srs.

[AcLion]

lift, diet get aesthetic

change their view of u m8 u got dis

[Ishkandir]

Because people are shallow.

[cunce]

I sure could use an ear to talk about my feelings, srs.

here you go

[strunz]

[Gibb94]

Well, I imagine the fact that you look like a fat, bespectacled Aragorn, and your name is BURROWED-LURKER................ Doesn't help.



But srs, stick with the diet and lifting, you'll start losing weight real fast since you're so big, shave that disgusting ****ing beard and get a proper haircut (some pomade to style maybe) consider contacts, etc, etc

[BurrowedLurker]

My posture is great brah.

[PunkDaft]

Well this miscer makes a pretty good case for the stereotype:
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showth...hp?t=150624163

[Spill512]

It's all good brah. Just go listen to some One Direction songs. They always speak to me when I'm feeling down.

[Griff3]

Learn not to give two fuks what people think of you.

[hzx]

because its natural to want to around other people and socialise and it feels good and it's fun.

people who won't want to socialise are just weird

[yoshi13241]

After I got fat and anti-social, people stopped being friends with me, people started thinking I was a creepy guy. On my senior year of high school, someone legit asked me if everything was ok and asked me to spare him if I was going to "do something". The truth is everything was not ok, but I wasn't going to lash out at anyone. I had a few friends outside of school that treated me like the same old guy I always was.

But for some reason this carries over to the internet too. It hurts me when miscers think I have a "rape dungeon", or that they wouldn't keep their children around me, or that I look like a serial killer. I am not a violent person. Never understood why I deserve such labels.

It's because you look like a creep, brah. That stare... it haunts me to this day

[kevin1645]

Starcraft reference?

Anyway, I think it's mostly your attitude. I mean, yea, what you look like in your avi gives off a creep vibe, but if the way you interact with people is friendly, it won't be a problem. You got a haircut and shaved recently, didn't you? That's a step in the right direction.

[SEBROF]

So many feels brah.

[KevFranchiseHan]

you are ugly as phuck srs. if i saw you in real life, i would probably pepper my angus incase of creepy interaction. i would not want to imagine how your mom felt as you were coming out of the womb. or your dad for fuks sake. u must be an inbred of five generations u uncivilizied *******. tell ur family to stop spreading their schitty genes so my kids will be spared of the sight of u

[knicksrbake]

I sure could use an ear to talk about my feelings, srs.

[AlterEgo21]

Most people who are very introverted and aren't shy usually don't care much how people view them - people drain their energy, they just want to go off on their own and do their thing. I'm guessing, therefore, that you are more naturally on the extroverted side and may have become shy due to your situation.

The answer is simple. You are focusing on the past when your life is going to be happening in the future. Get in shape, focus on school/your career, friends will come once you start feeling confident again. The reason people are antagonistic to those who are out-of-shape, don't fit in, etc. is because they sense weakness. It gives them an opportunity to feel dominate and they don't want to associate with said weakness. Doesn't matter the gender, the same basic rule applies. They won't feel bad about making fun of you because they don't see you as fully human like they do their friends, parents, etc. Its the way of the world. So your best option is get yourself together and work on being more outgoing, in shape, better goals/less awkward social behavior.
- Sarah

[yoshi13241]

you are ugly as phuck srs. if i saw you in real life, i would probably pepper my angus incase of creepy interaction. i would not want to imagine how your mom felt as you were coming out of the womb. or your dad for fuks sake. u must be an inbred of five generations u uncivilizied *******. tell ur family to stop spreading their schitty genes so my kids will be spared of the sight of u

Pretty harsh brah

[knicksrbake]

you are ugly as phuck srs. if i saw you in real life, i would probably pepper my angus incase of creepy interaction. i would not want to imagine how your mom felt as you were coming out of the womb. or your dad for fuks sake. u must be an inbred of five generations u uncivilizied *******. tell ur family to stop spreading their schitty genes so my kids will be spared of the sight of u

he looked better when he was younger. he looks like he has a strong jaw if he cut. and he actually dated a girl who was close to a 10/10 but she passed away or something srs. u dont even have an avi u look worse by default

[KevFranchiseHan]

he looked better when he was younger. he looks like he has a strong jaw if he cut. and he actually dated a girl who was close to a 10/10 but she passed away or something srs. u dont even have an avi u look worse by default

[BurrowedLurker]

because its natural to want to around other people and socialise and it feels good and it's fun.

people who won't want to socialise are just weird

Bro after putting up with abuse by a drunk, all I wanted to be was alone. So I stopped socializing and being a happy person for a while. As a result I got awkward.

But no one wants to socialize with someone who doesn't know how to be fun and social now, and that makes me furious, depressed, and betrayed.

[DizzySmalls]

Bro after putting up with abuse by a drunk, all I wanted to be was alone. So I stopped socializing and being a happy person for a while. As a result I got awkward.

But no one wants to socialize with someone who doesn't know how to be fun and social now, and that makes me furious, depressed, and betrayed.

Stop expecting people to be friendly or care about your circumstances. People are herd animals

[Mikeisshere]

because all creeps are lonely pretty much
not all loners are creeps but you get the point

[poopsicle51]

working out will help ur confidence, but dont get obsessed w ur looks. there comes a point when people become so obsessed w their looks that theyre never satisfied, and ultimately develope some body dysmorphic disorder. just look at the misc. this place is filled w a fk ton of insecure people

[BurrowedLurker]

Stop expecting people to be friendly or care about your circumstances. People are herd animals

Live life by the golden rule brah.