My girlfriend of four years just told me

[Menark]

she has no interst in having sex any more. The last few months all she does is lay there like a star fish and complain the whole way through. Now she is saying she has had enough of doing it.
Any one else had this?

[jodalife]

I hate to say this bro... but, you're out.

[hardnipples]

Is it the size of your weapon?

[Horizon92]

Yeah sorry man but you know whats up. You are out. Just dump her now for lulz, don't waste your time with her anymore. She will either break up with you now or start sleeping around etc until she hates you real fkin bad for being a *******, then she dumps you and it gets ugly.

Just get out right now.

[ThatLankyGuy]

May as well turf her now, bro. If she's actually sincere about this, obviously it's not going to work out no matter how hard you try. Better to move on sooner rather than later.

[RayBoccini]

Translation: she's had enough sex WITH YOU. Bad news brah....she's been getting it elsewhere

[SY85]

she has no interst in having sex any more. the last few months all she does is lay there like a star fish and complain the whole way through. Now she is saying she has had enough of doing it.
Any one else had this?

thats called rape mother****er

[MrAWatts]

No because I am good at sex.
















But in all seriousness OP look beneath the surface. I can tell you right now that there is a 90% chance it has nothing to do with the physical aspect to do with it, but her emotional attachment. If a girl is unhappy with something about the relationship, it will show in the bedroom. The desire for intimacy will be killed. So if you want the relationship to continue find out whats wrong. Are you distant, don't spend enough time together, or something else? Start being nice and affectionate, cuddling and what not, and spending more quality time together. If you don't kiss very much anymore, do that. Compliment her here and there, but be genuine. This will almost certainly bring back the desire for sex, and save the relationship.


100% serious. Ignore what the majority of the misc says about this since most of them have 0 experience with girls.

[BigB02z28]

She's ****in someone else that does it better brah.

It's like out driving a 700hp car and coming home to this 1984 Ford LTD.

[Bestfromthewest]

negs if u dont get out now srs.

its for your own good op. srs
respect tag

[Striver]

As above.

Sex is the foundation of a relationship, when that goes, does 't matter what else you got. Get out before everything else goes to ****.

[nervouswreck]

are u a premature ejaculator OP?

[Hayden31]

Ask her if you can PIITB. That should get her interested.

[Iceman1800]

She needs to see a doctor. Either very low iron or a hormonal issue.

[Grinners]

OP will look back at this thread in a years time and realise how obvious it was that the relationship was over.

Do you think if she loved and respected you, and thought you could do better than her and wanted to please you she would say this?

You should be in charge, she should be on her toes to some extent trying to please you, worried that if she doesn't you will move on! She should think she is the luckiest girl in the world to have hooked you! She clearly doesn't.

[dudebruh]

bruh everybody loses some interest in phucking the same person after 4+ years. you can try to mix it up but it sounds like your girl is also a kunt with that complaining BS

[FromPhagToGod]

she has no interst in having sex any more. The last few months all she does is lay there like a star fish and complain the whole way through. Now she is saying she has had enough of doing it.
Any one else had this?

Just a matter of time before she breaks up, bro. Better do it before she does it. Or you can add partners.

[Killafornia805]

You dump the bish and you dump her fast


Get a new gf,, theres millions others

[Menark]

She needs to see a doctor. Either very low iron or a hormonal issue.

She said that and being a male I told her to go to the doctor to get a blood test done.
She has stacked on the weight and has been kind of isolated lately.

I know she has had a few one night stands with guys in her social group before we met and im freaked out she will hang out with them one night and it will happen while we are together.

[MrAWatts]

You should be in charge, she should be on her toes to some extent trying to please you, worried that if she doesn't you will move on! She should think she is the luckiest girl in the world to have hooked you! She clearly doesn't.

OP see bolded part above. This is exactly what I mean when I say misc has no fukking clue on real world relationships. If you've been together 4 years I'm sure you know this. In the real world sht is give and take. If you are so stubborn you can never admit that you're wrong, or that something could be your fault, then you won't make it very far. An attitude like the guys above is a great way to not be in a relationship. If you value it, see past your ego and try and think of anything that could be lacking in the relationship, and fix it. Stubbornness is your enemy.

[jacob553]

idk, you're stuffed op.

[Menark]

Or you can add partners.

srs been thinking about this. Im sure there are a few of her friends who want to still fuk her I have a bit of a fetish seeing girls get doubled teamed. Should I bring it up.
We are probably finished any way should I treat her like a sloot while I still can?

[stefano445]

I hate to say this bro... but, you're out.

And I'm in


nomsaying

[agm1984]

+1 her emo is broken

[Slow_Ninja]

Its not going to get better

[N4th4n]

She's ****in someone else that does it better brah.

It's like out driving a 700hp car and coming home to this 1984 Ford LTD.

lmfao at specific car

[Juramentado]

OP she's just testing you if you will still love her even she doesn't have sex with you in a while...














































lol jk dump her brah. she's doing someone else. feel sorry for you but it happens

[1HIHIHI]

She has a mental illness imo ur too young to b stuck wif that shyt

Time to make lyk a tree

[MangoPort]

OP see bolded part above. This is exactly what I mean when I say misc has no fukking clue on real world relationships. If you've been together 4 years I'm sure you know this. In the real world sht is give and take. If you are so stubborn you can never admit that you're wrong, or that something could be your fault, then you won't make it very far. An attitude like the guys above is a great way to not be in a relationship. If you value it, see past your ego and try and think of anything that could be lacking in the relationship, and fix it. Stubbornness is your enemy.

This is solid advice.

4 years is a long time and there's always a phase where you go through a slump. Maybe she's unmotivated in life or there's another issue, maybe she's feeling depressed, maybe she's masturbating too much (women do that too, you know). Talk to her about it but don't put pressure on her - this CAN get better.

[etkillah]

What the Fuc*ing hell you have to be kidding... Dude wtf is wrong with both of you... Thank god I have never came into a situation like this with any girl ever... And never will...

Best of luck with your starfish.