Sorry if I'm rambling a bit but I feel hurt always. I asked people on yahoo if I was good looking or not they either called me ugly or average. Also I asked people on this site if my body was good and they said no, which really hurt because I was working my @ss off. I also asked people on yahoo if the girl I like was interested in me they all said no, which hurt a lot. Also I'm being ignored by people, no1 likes me, never had a gf, not much friends. I feel hurt and regret asking people, will I ever get over this?
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01-07-2013, 02:11 AM #1Registered User
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I practically feel lke my feelings are hurt all the time
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01-07-2013, 02:16 AM #2Things in life will never be handed to you. Be content with your own progress and keep working hard. Then you will see changes and people will notice but if your just working out for other peoples approval your not doing it for the right reasons. Good luck!Originally Posted by Jcishere93
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01-07-2013, 02:26 AM #3
why would u ask people on yahoo anyways thats stupid. There not satisfied with life so they bring u down. Life is what u make not what others make it for you. Now go get some vagisil
and clean out ur emotional fungi.
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01-07-2013, 02:28 AM #4Registered User
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Not being a troll or anything bro but you just sound like your ranting, why ask yahoo if your good looking? People are gonna read this and rip the sheet out of you even if you were good looking, why no1 talks to you? Maybe look at your personality and how you act around people... Surely you have freinds and they're the ones who should care. Don't go asking yahoo sht people will just laugh and make fun of u in my opinionOriginally Posted by Jcishere93
Evaluate yourself, how you act, your maturity and psyique... There's always time to improve yourself so soldier on people aren't going to think ohh this poor kid and feel sorry for you because your feeling sorry for yourself
Feel good about yourself, keep lifting, get some confidence up and time will tell on who your real freinds are. Life's not always about being the cool kid.1 Paragraph SiG Crew
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01-07-2013, 03:11 AM #5Banned
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Hey OP
Never EVER go on the misc or yahoo answers to ask for serious info. The thing about the internet is, is that it's where negative people can show their true colors behind a screen. If you are working your arse off thats good, don't let anyone else bring you down. Keep at it.
I have anxiety. The best thing to do is STOP SEEKING REASSURANCE. It will feel good when you get a positive comment, but it wont last. You are only feeding the cycle of worthlessness. Stop seeking reassurance from these sites asap, instead make sure you find good reasonable people to take tips from.
PM me pics so I can critique/give you tips.
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01-07-2013, 03:13 AM #6Banned
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You asked people on the internet how you looked, what did you expect? People always called me tiny and scrawny in school which is why I registered here today and started working out.
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01-07-2013, 03:38 AM #7Registered User
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Maybe you should stop being depressed and realize you don't need other peoples acceptance just your own.Originally Posted by Jcishere93
Don't be one of those *******s that keeps going "do I look good?" "am I aesthetic?" to try to get acceptance, your just gonna get trolled by haters.
Fck every1 else and work on your own, ignore others.
If you work hard you will get whatever you want.
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01-07-2013, 04:48 AM #8Registered User
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This. As soon as you stop seeking opinions from others and only value your own opinion (in regards to your self-worth), you will become a much happier person.Originally Posted by xY2Jx
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01-07-2013, 05:00 AM #9Registered User
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Pick yourself up and make something better of your life.
Looking of acceptance from strangers on the internet is never a good thing.
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01-07-2013, 05:03 AM #10Registered User
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btw what does this thread have to do with teen bodybuilding? at least post it in the misc section....
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01-07-2013, 05:06 AM #11Registered User
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This is how it goes...
Pics pls or it didn't happen? Also facial pic for reassurance or it didn't happen
I want you to stand in the kitchen with a spoon of peanut butter.
Spoon selfie ftw1 Paragraph SiG Crew
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01-07-2013, 05:44 AM #12Stay Focus
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think about your self OP
stop giving a **** what people thinks, that is what I use to do and guess what
idgf what people thinks.
#1 thing in life is happiness, if you're lifting just to try impress others but not your self, then I assume u wont be happy =/ so why do it?
#2 If you're happy lifting, then LIFT but don't go asking "do I look good" etc on Yahoo answers lol Obviously you will get people gonna say some nasty stuff and maybe good stuff. Only place you really should say "do I look good" is the mirror...
#3 opinions are just opinions, they are words and it is your choice to take it to heart or not
personally, Idgf what people thinks about me any more cause i'm doing what makes my self happy not others
Edit: Life is too short, to give a **** or waste time to be sad about opinions. Be happy what you have cause there is always someone who is in a worst situation than YOU
good luck OPMy Lifting log!
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=158614543&p=1175269943#post1175269943
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01-07-2013, 05:47 AM #13Registered User
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so ur ugly whats is the big deal most men arenot beautiful thats why created women on the other hand that why u lift to become a real manOriginally Posted by Jcishere93
no pain no gain
Flat BB press: 185*2
DeadLift: 225 *1
squat:185*3
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01-07-2013, 07:21 AM #14Registered User
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Dude I was there myself a couple years ago, and I know it sucks and its terrible to be stuck in that pit of despair but just keep working at your goals, trust me you'll get there and will be a million times better than before. As long as every day you're better than you were yesterday, you'll get there in time. If anything where you're at now will make the journey to where you end up ultimately more incredible
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01-07-2013, 10:46 AM #15Registered User
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Never listen to yahoo answers brah. It's full of sad kunts who are unhappy with their lives and thrive off making everyone else feel like chit. Just keep working and don't let anybody get you down.
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