on a govt. computer cant upload pics. your neggs mean nothing to me right now anyway. Been dployed and going home in a month. Got a dear john letterfrom my wife. Got married when I was 20 to my highschool sweetheart who I loved.Parents told me not to do it. She told me that when I was deployed this time and last time she got black out drunk at bars and made out with dudes. now shes met a guy and she really likes him and he makes her feel something shes never felt. She says she hasnt ****ed anyone and that she was talking to this guy and telling me because she felt guilty. WOMAN LOGIC: She is going with this guy because she knows i will end the relationship when i found out about the other guys. I told her i could forgive her if she stopped talking to this dude, she said she would. now her phone has been off for 24 hours... I know i need to leave her but its so ****ing hard i dont know why i cant just see her as a slut and leave. feelsobadman
cliffs: wife cheated on me while i am deployed
i want to forgive her but i know thats wrong
feeling terrible, not eating or sleeping
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01-06-2013, 09:44 PM #1Registered User
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typical girl cheated thread
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01-06-2013, 09:49 PM #2Registered User
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i also told her parents when i found out. I really need to talk to my dad but he is on vacation and not answering his phone. i need someone to talk to
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01-06-2013, 09:50 PM #3
damn.....
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01-06-2013, 09:51 PM #4Respect The SRS Tag
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well i guess thats that....
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01-06-2013, 09:54 PM #5Registered User
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never in a million years thought i wuld be making one of these threads
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01-06-2013, 09:56 PM #6Registered User
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Really sorry to hear this OP. Just be happy that you know, and now don't have to waste time with such a trash person. She is terrible being OP and no one deserves to be with that.
Don't let her see you down or know you are upset more than you already have.
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01-06-2013, 09:57 PM #7Registered User
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Rough.. But why stay if you know shes doing all this? Youll be much more miserable if you drag this along rather then just ending it now and be very depressed for a few weeks
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01-06-2013, 09:58 PM #8Registered User
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im not gunna lie. i called her and broke down and cried... i wish i had the email she sent me but i could stand to look a it so i deleted it. i will try and find it. it is gut wrenching
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01-06-2013, 10:00 PM #9Registered User
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i can't stay married to you adam. you deserve so much better than who I am and the lack of loving qualities you need. idk whats wrong with me adam but i am an angry person and idk if that will ever change. i wish you wouldn't of met me so i wouldn't ever had gotten a chance to put you through this. idk why you like me idk why you put up with me, but i am a horrible person honestly. I'm just going to come clean with everything so you know what I'm talking about. when you proposed to me i went to kirk and told him to do something about it, he didn't and thats what katie was talking about last night. she was claiming i had sex with him the night before our wedding and a bunch of other **** that wasn't true. i didn't have sex with him but i did kiss him. I also made out with a random guy at fun plex last summer that i have no recollection of. i don't talk to kirk anymore i deleted him from everything cause i can't deal with his **** the way he pulls me around and i hate the control and power he has over me and my feelings. on new years eve i met a guy while we were out and i ended up making out with him and giving him my number. I've been talking to him ever since and I'm flying to Fairbanks tonight to see him I've never felt this way about anyone before. I've never had sex with anyone else while we were married but i definitely cheated on you by kissing all them. he is not the reason I'm telling you this now, i tried to tell you in the summer that i need to be on my own I'm too young to be married, I'm too ****ed up in the head, and I'm not ready to be in a marriage when I'm still running from **** that happened to me as a child. I will never be ready for anything until i deal with her death Adam and i don't know how. i do ****ed up **** that i regret so much the next day and feel absolutely sick over. I don't know why i do the things i do but it doesn't matter they are ****ed up and you deserve sooo much better than me. I'm so sorry you took me on with all my **** ups and baggage, idk what good you saw in me cause its not there. i beat the **** out of my best friend and really hurt her because she was telling me **** i didn't want to hear or think about. she hates me and her mom hates me and i don't blame them. i really have tried to get myself to a better place but i just don't know how much longer i can do it. I'm going no where i constantly make the same mistakes after i feel so terrible about them and can't seem to stop. i hate myself for allowing you to get involved with me and my issues. i hate myself for everything I've done to hurt you. i hate myself for believing i can be a better person when clearly I'm nothing but a **** up. i was when you married me and i still am now. there is no right time or place to tell you this but i can't hold on to all this anymore. the guilt is eating me alive and I didn't want to wait til you were home to tell you this because i don't think you'll want to see me again so i will be gone if you want. you are way too good of a man to be with someone like me honestly adam, i don't want you to be sad about this I'm not worth being sad over. i want you to find someone who actually makes you happy and she's out there. I'm so sorry for everything and i wish i could be the person you and me both thought i could become but i can see that will never happen. i have too demons inside that I'm wrestling with and its not fair to have you in the middle while I'm trying to figure them out. i honestly want to just go off the grid and never have to talk to anyone again but I'm not going to hurt myself so don't think that. idk what else to say adam i tried i really did i just can't get my **** together and i can't hold any of this in anymore. i believe that you will be very happy someday with someone who is not me, I'm sorry for everything
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sorry to hear man. just remember, time heals all wounds. end it now and never look back. easier said than done but the more you try to hang onto it the more you'll regret it later on. she's shown her true colors, that should be enough to get you to start moving forward.Originally Posted by eskim0
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your first heart break is always the worst...it'll take months to get over. just accept that. but know this - it's always darkest before dawn. it WILL get better, you will find a TON of other hot girls and finally meet one who is worth it all. trust me bro, DO NOT try to make it worth with her...you even said first she started making out with guys, now she's having sex. it will not stop...when you're deployed again it'll be a new guy.
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read the first two sentences and didn't need to read anymore. she's trying to relieve herself of any guilt or responsibility from what she has done by bs-ing about how she doesn't have what you need/deserve.Originally Posted by eskim0
Truth is, she does know what's wrong with her, she just doesn't want to own up to it. She's a cheater, a liar, and I don't need to read the rest of what she said to tell you that you should not believe any of it. She does not know how to handle the guilt of being unfaithful to you so she's making up all this crap about being confused. Move on bro!! Move on and never look back!!!
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Holy Fuk, your much better off without her bro srs don't look backOriginally Posted by eskim0
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i had no idea that this stuff was going on. thoughtwe were happy. total blind side.Originally Posted by matthall2011
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you make me feel better brahs.
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01-06-2013, 10:09 PM #16
LOL at the email
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All women are whores (srs)
Everytime a girl cheats its never "her" fault.
You did nothing wrong don't take it personally... time heals everything.
You're better off without her.
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I just read that whole ****ing wall of text... omg... OP you dun goofed marrying this girl at 20 THAN getting deployed after...
I literally raged reading that...
Just be mad you found out now as opposed to having children with this dumb bitchLast edited by winjones; 01-06-2013 at 10:17 PM.
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Didn't read, but if you don't have any kids with her.... Toss her to the streets OP.
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give me this fukking kunts e-mail address opOriginally Posted by eskim0
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01-06-2013, 10:12 PM #20Registered User
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Sorry to hear bro. I know that feel. Seems like they always say "you deserve better" and "why do you even like me?" And **** like that. Thats tough man.... I'm sorry.
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what did you expect?
it was stupid to get together so young and then get deployed.
Honestly .. Makes no sense whatsoever ..
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01-06-2013, 10:13 PM #22Registered User
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Damn she pretty much said its not you, its me.
Feel terrible for you man, wish all the luck to you.
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no kids. talked about getting pregnant right before i deployed. picked out baby names...
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01-06-2013, 10:13 PM #24Dankest Khan
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dam that sucks brah. i hope you find the courage to just drop her from your life; you're better off now that you know she isn't true. best of luck in your future path. stay safe brah
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was thinking with my heart man. i love her soo much. you will know someday. srs.Originally Posted by ausurfer
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01-06-2013, 10:15 PM #26
Honestly look at it as a good thing. What if this had happened to you 5 YEARS FROM NOW when your feelings for her were even stronger. She is the type of person that she is and you should feel lucky enough that it came out early and you exposed her for the nasty selfish cheating little twat that she is. She'll never be happy cuz shes jus gonna do this with every guy she gets with cuz she craves that attention, the attention that u coudlnt give her cuz u were deployed.
Take some time to grieve but then get ur ass out there and find some new vagina to plow! this is a blessing, not a curse
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01-06-2013, 10:17 PM #27StraitedBrah
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Chelsea what is this?
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TIME TO MISC DETECTIVE THE SHIET OUT OF 'KIRK' AND SLOOT.
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please dontOriginally Posted by wildturkey
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01-06-2013, 10:18 PM #30
Fuk bro... Hope you're alright. Stay strong
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