gimme your recipe for da perfect man....

[latebloomingmom]

alright its friday night..I'm bored so...
gimme a list , a recipe if you will of the traits you want in a man..
if you got a man ya cant just say
my husband is perfect or my boyfriend is perfect
tell me why
list the qualities that you adore and even a few that might not be perfect
but you find endearing anyhow






GO!

[Ma110W]

My husband is totally charming. Hilarious. A bit pessimistic (but it's good because I'm more optimistic) And he's quite OCD, and I love it.

[latebloomingmom]

ok I'll list a few of mine
1. confident even to the point of being cocky (interesting challenge)
2. sense of humor ( how else would he understand me?)
3. man better like to cook (cause I don't)

[Wtuttle]

In no particular order:

Funny, patient, sexy, smart, ambitious, spontaneous, traveler, open-minded, squat booty, passionate, can cook, can clean up after himself.

[itsagoodday]

Basically a nice guy at heart. Funny himself and laughs at my stupid jokes too Smart. Those are the ones I won't negotiate on.

Of course, strong and muscular would be welcome, too

[LisaSkinnoble]

Easy-peasy to answer this one - he's right beside me. But in no particular order:

Smart as a whip (3 degrees)
Funny (see above: smart = witty as heck)
Handsome (a rock solid jaw line)
Big and beefy (455 squat/550 deadlift)
Thoughtful (I get emails before I even arrive at the office that say "I love you")
Caring (if I start to describe this one, I'll bawl - srs)
Great father (he's done amazing things for this blended family of ours)

And add to that:
He knows all my favourite authors and will buy me books to cheer me up;
He knows when I'm dead on my feet and will clean up after dinner;
He knows when I need a beer and will sacrifice his morning workout so we can stay up late;
He knows all the crazy old-fashioned music and movies that I love and will play them just for me;
He knows how important family is to me, and endures countless and endless visits with my palliative sister and my worried parents.

And, he thinks I'm pretty, he thinks I'm smart, and he thinks I'm a good cook.


I think he could do a lot better than auld me.

[latebloomingmom]

4. intelligence
5. the inability to put up with bullsh*t (mine)
6. man of his word ( if he says he is gonna do something then he is gonna bust ballz to get it done)
7. ya gotta exercise ( if I am doing it he has to do it too)
8. can partake of alchohol on occassion but cannot be an alchoholic
9. can talk me into trying new things and going new places
10. likes children

[Lioness27]

Well.... My BF obviously haha but let me say why.
No order:
1. He has deep beautiful brown eyes
2. He has that yummy jawline
3. beautiful smile
4. Very random
5. Very positive, which is great because I can be pretty negative at times.
6. Confident, which is hoooooot
7. His booty!!!!
8. His hands
9. His goals
10. His intelligence
11. His interests
12. How supportive he is
13. His lips
14. His determination
15. The fact that he puts up with all of my bull****
16. He is a man, but he is such a baby and it is so cute
17. Helped me mature
18. His voice
I can go on and on and on!!!!! haha

[-=FLEX=-]

And, he knows I'm pretty, he knows I'm smart, and he knows I'm a good cook.

^^^ Fixed

Also I think I won the lottery when I met you.

<3

[latebloomingmom]

Easy-peasy to answer this one - he's right beside me. But in no particular order:

Smart as a whip (3 degrees)
Funny (see above: smart = witty as heck)
Handsome (a rock solid jaw line)
Big and beefy (455 squat/550 deadlift)
Thoughtful (I get emails before I even arrive at the office that say "I love you")
Caring (if I start to describe this one, I'll bawl - srs)
Great father (he's done amazing things for this blended family of ours)

And add to that:
He knows all my favourite authors and will buy me books to cheer me up;
He knows when I'm dead on my feet and will clean up after dinner;
He knows when I need a beer and will sacrifice his morning workout so we can stay up late;
He knows all the crazy old-fashioned music and movies that I love and will play them just for me;
He knows how important family is to me, and endures countless and endless visits with my palliative sister and my worried parents.

And, he thinks I'm pretty, he thinks I'm smart, and he thinks I'm a good cook.


I think he could do a lot better than auld me.

^^^ Fixed

Also I think I won the lottery when I met you.

<3

awwww look how sweet you two are

[BrotherWolf]

^^^ Fixed

Also I think I won the lottery when I met you.

<3

thank you FLEX <3

[aristomeow]

Intelligent- can discuss politics and/or philosophy with me.
Atheist.
Funny.
Introverted.
Has some old fashioned values.
Dominant.
Self-aware.
Lifts.
Goes out of his way to make me feel special (doesn't have to splash $.. a cute text message here, cooking my favorite meal.. etc)

[SultanaK]

Smarts (books, streets, ability to entertain thoughts without accepting them)
Funny
Nice eyes, good smile
Knows how to loosen me up a little. I need someone who can complement my uptightness
Respectful to myself and my family
Has his own hobbies/friends
Must be deeply in love with me; therefore, must be passionate
Thoughtful
Not religious but must have good values
Can clean up after himself
Responsible
Good job (goals and aspirations in life)
Has skin that tans (as opposed to one that burns)
Takes care of his body (lifts and/or eats right)

[Miranda]

intelligent (= funny)
great sex drive
considerate
nice ass
cooks
doesn't blow smoke up my ass
financially sound
neat and tidy
thick curly hair
drinker
lifts weights
awful shoes
small appetite (so i can eat more)

[Wtuttle]

Smarts (books, streets, ability to entertain thoughts without accepting them)
Funny
Nice eyes, good smile
Knows how to loosen me up a little. I need someone who can complement my uptightness
Respectful to myself and my family
Has his own hobbies/friends
Must be deeply in love with me; therefore, must be passionate
Thoughtful
Not religious but must have good values
Can clean up after himself
Responsible
Good job (goals and aspirations in life)
Has skin that tans (as opposed to one that burns)
Takes care of his body (lifts and/or eats right)

This is a good list. You and Lisa seemed to have snagged some good ones....

Tell me your secrets

[cowboybiker]

[BrotherWolf]

Smarts (books, streets, ability to entertain thoughts without accepting them)
Funny
Nice eyes, good smile
Knows how to loosen me up a little. I need someone who can complement my uptightness
Respectful to myself and my family
Has his own hobbies/friends
Must be deeply in love with me; therefore, must be passionate
Thoughtful
Not religious but must have good values
Can clean up after himself
Responsible
Good job (goals and aspirations in life)
Has skin that tans (as opposed to one that burns)
Takes care of his body (lifts and/or eats right)

i got a perfect match for you

[BrotherWolf]

great sex drive
drinker
small appetite (so i can eat more)

partial match for you

[Lunu]

Affectionate
Ambitious
Smart
Hilariously Goofy
Muscular and Fit
Cleans the house all the time
Confident
Frequently surprises me with flowers when I get home from work
Pretends to like my cooking LOL
Gives really great cuddles
Same religious beliefs as me
Makes me breakfast most days
Compliments me all the time...even when I'm sure I don't deserve it.

He's a good catch eta: to clarify - this list is about my husband, not a made up list of desires lol

[BrotherWolf]

Has some old fashioned values.
Dominant.

most definitely ....

[BrotherWolf]

Ambitious
Smart
Hilariously Goofy
Confident
Frequently surprises me with flowers when I get home from work
Pretends to like my cooking LOL
Compliments me all the time...even when I'm sure I don't deserve it.

[SultanaK]

^^^ Fixed

Also I think I won the lottery when I met you.

<3

You two are adorable, lol.

[Lunu]

lol!

[BrotherWolf]

lol!

that was a smart one uh ??

[latebloomingmom]

Intelligent- can discuss politics and/or philosophy with me.
Atheist.
Funny.

Introverted.
Has some old fashioned values.
Dominant.
Self-aware.
Lifts.
Goes out of his way to make me feel special (doesn't have to splash $.. a cute text message here, cooking my favorite meal.. etc)

funny how some of these things contradict each other..
you want a dominant introvert?
what would that really be like?
" d*mn it woman I told you I dont want to talk about it!!"

[Lunu]

that was a smart one uh ??

Quite the intellectual compliment!

[BrotherWolf]

Quite the intellectual compliment!

And he's a looker as well
in a nerdy Jewish kinda way lol

[Squatticus]

these list always make me rage, like a Russian without vodka...or with vodka Russians sound angry all the time

[Lunu]

these list always make me rage, like a Russian without vodka...or with vodka Russians sound angry all the time

Why?

And he's a looker as well
in a nerdy Jewish kinda way lol

Hey nerds are in apparently. Beauty and the Geek is thriving on tv lol

[SultanaK]

these list always make me rage, like a Russian without vodka...or with vodka Russians sound angry all the time

Don't worry, I'm pretty sure you fit all the things on a few girls' lists out there.