Things the opposite sex does that they think are a good look

[BananaMan12]

but actually turn you off??

Trolling around pof and reading some profiles has made me realize there are a lot of things women do that they think will help them attract a mate, but are actually doing the opposite. I assume men are making similar mistakes and would appreciate some women coming in here and pointing that out.



- *** boots... I don't know how they got so fuking popular. Terrible look imo

- bitches who wear jerseys in their profile pics or act like they are huge sports fans.... No you aren't. In fact, you don't know wtf you are talking about and you are hoping some guy will see that and be like "wow, shes not like the rest of the girls" we don't. we see it and think, wtf is this bitch wearing a xxl jersey for? she must be fat and sloppy.

- "im not your average girl" holy fuk. shut the fuk up. Every single girl says that.. so in fact, you are exactly average for that comment.

- "Im more like one of the guys and don't really hang out with other girls" No explanation needed.

- "I have 2 beautiful kids and they ARE MY WHOLE WORLD." - its great you love your kids, but if they are literally all you have then you are one sad boring mofo and I don't want anything to do with you. Nobody wants to see 500 pics of your snot nosed little brats. So stop posting them.

- "im a real bitch. I say whats on my mind to whoever I want whenever I want." - No man likes a loud mouthed kunt.

- short hair.... groce




pls add

[poolshark472]

agree with everything but the first 2. boots/heel-boots are hot and jerseys aren't always bad in my opinion

[BananaMan12]

agree with everything but the first 2. boots/heel-boots are hot and jerseys aren't always bad in my opinion

I love me some heels. and even boots.

Uggs are just terrible though. Sloppy, bland, and sheepish.

a nice fitted jersey... at a ball game. That can be cute. In the mirror with your brothers 3X urlacher jersey is such a turn off to me and obvious attention whoring. We all know that bitch aint a real fan. Women who claim to love football but cant tell you how many players are on that field at any given time drive me nuts.



im adding super angled pics.... Ladies, we can tell you are using angles. It just makes you look insecure.

- the same face in every pic.... I don't care if it is your best pose. You look fuking ridiculous making the same face in 135 pictures.

[HeliBrah]

#1 would be any of these:




Seriously, whenever one of these types of girls tries to strike a conversation I go into with a "what a retarded look" mindset and try to get rid of them.

Close #2 is the line: "I was like <this and that>, but now I am <cured, different, take no bullshît anymore, independent, blabla>". STFU, you think you come across as empowered? No, you don't. You come across as butthurt about your past (most likely your ex) and thus damaged. I don't want no piece of you, go find a therapist.

Hm ... #3 ... I think this type of conversation, which I have had a million times:

- "I am a nice girl"
- "I am not easy and don't do ONS or FWB with guys"
- "oh, I notice your waning interest, because I sound like 100 other bitches in this club"
- "let me sing you the song of my people: look at my tits, look at my ass, look at my vajayjay, its beautiful"
- "HEEEY!!! Why don't you react to my blatant attempt to talk about sex, which I will then deny you, because I only fuk in relationships?"

[sincity88]

Chin hair but no beard. Chit looks like pubes and makes most guys look ungroomed.

Thong flip flops. ****gy

Long hair

Buying random girls drinks hoping to get a number or take her home. Suckers. I told my brother he's never allowed to buy drinks for girls he doesn't know.

[Scorer]

- short hair.... groce

THIS.

Short hair is an instant boner wilter.

No idea why a woman would want to look older and more like a boy.

[GregariousWolf]

Live laugh love

My kids are my world

I hate drama

I'm sassy and sarcastic

Not looking for sex

Strong and independent

I want a man to sweep me off my feet

Skydivepic.jpeg

[BananaMan12]

[QUOTE=HeliBrah;1003319663Close #2 is the line: "I was like <this and that>, but now I am <cured, different, take no bullshît anymore, independent, blabla>". STFU, you think you come across as empowered? No, you don't. You come across as butthurt about your past (most likely your ex) and thus damaged. I don't want no piece of you, go find a therapist.

"[/QUOTE]

this X1hundredmilliontrillion

[Boffothe]

"my daddy taught me how to fight"
-Unless your last name is Gracie, relax. Your dad having taught you how to make a fist when you were ten impresses no one, but I hear this constantly

Ug boots only infuriate me when they insist on buying the real ones that are super expensive. If you're going to buy hideous boots that are comfy, don't try to be fashionable with them

[Granrey]

I hate mostly: Attention whore behaviour, mostly on FB like the stupid girly status updates........

[stsmurf]

Live laugh love

HOLY SH*T THIS!

Also, girls with excessive amount of emoticons in texting / IM's etc. Or follows every single thing said with lol....

[Boffothe]

Also girls with less than three, tiny, super hidden, generic tattoos (stars on the side of the foot, anchor on the hip) who constantly talk about how they're obsessed with tattoos and so addicted to them, up to the point of listing "tattoos" as a hobby

[Violator009]

but actually turn you off??

Trolling around pof and reading some profiles has made me realize there are a lot of things women do that they think will help them attract a mate, but are actually doing the opposite. I assume men are making similar mistakes and would appreciate some women coming in here and pointing that out.



- *** boots... I don't know how they got so fuking popular. Terrible look imo

- bitches who wear jerseys in their profile pics or act like they are huge sports fans.... No you aren't. In fact, you don't know wtf you are talking about and you are hoping some guy will see that and be like "wow, shes not like the rest of the girls" we don't. we see it and think, wtf is this bitch wearing a xxl jersey for? she must be fat and sloppy.

- "im not your average girl" holy fuk. shut the fuk up. Every single girl says that.. so in fact, you are exactly average for that comment.

- "Im more like one of the guys and don't really hang out with other girls" No explanation needed.

- "I have 2 beautiful kids and they ARE MY WHOLE WORLD." - its great you love your kids, but if they are literally all you have then you are one sad boring mofo and I don't want anything to do with you. Nobody wants to see 500 pics of your snot nosed little brats. So stop posting them.

- "im a real bitch. I say whats on my mind to whoever I want whenever I want." - No man likes a loud mouthed kunt.

- short hair.... groce




pls add

though i was the only one that noticed these things, most are spot on...

[Danny1990Sco]

*** boots.

*** = Ugly.

Or when chicks go outside to shops etc with pyjamas on. Like wtf it's 2pm get a wash and put some clothes on ffs!!

[NitrogenWidget]

agree with everything but the first 2. boots/heel-boots are hot and jerseys aren't always bad in my opinion

I consider it a good sign if I can see their footwear.
It means their not trying to hide their body.

[stsmurf]

My Job: "Being the best mommy I can be!!!"

Aka - I have 0 education, living on child support, when my kid hits 18 I'm going to be worthless and all i do is mooch off my ex.

[HeliBrah]

"my daddy taught me how to fight"
-Unless your last name is Gracie, relax.

lol'd hard

I don't get too mad about it though, as some of them just try to give an opening so you can be physical, at least thats my experience sometimes. As in: you hold up a hand in a catching motion and ask her to show her jab. Then I'd usually close my hand to catch her little fist and keep holding it, while I tell her some bullshît like "not bad, you got a punch".

[Fielder]

My Job: "Being the best mommy I can be!!!"

Aka - I have 0 education, living on child support, when my kid hits 18 I'm going to be worthless and all i do is mooch off my ex.

YES! THIS! repped!

[BroMontana]

i hate the recent trend of girls acting nerdy. Even though they would never date an actual nerd.

[aristomeow]

Also girls with less than three, tiny, super hidden, generic tattoos (stars on the side of the foot, anchor on the hip) who constantly talk about how they're obsessed with tattoos and so addicted to them, up to the point of listing "tattoos" as a hobby

Lmao I was like lmao.

Dudes:
As sin mentioned, chin hair and flip flops
Booze in profile picture
Tribal tattoos
Abs in profile picture (a gallery pic is fine)
Sunglasses. I hate all sunglasses on men except aviators
"girls don't add me for sex". I kid you not this happens in guys' profiles. Relax buddy no one is begging for your d.
Pre-faded Jeans...groce
Witty slogan tees...fk off with that bs.

[NitrogenWidget]

"not going to settle"

"If you are just looking for sex, move on" or any complaining about guys only wanting ONS from her while all her profile pics are in ultra low-cut tops & scream "LOOK AT MY TIT'S"

[autrefois]

Lmao I was like lmao.

Dudes:
As sin mentioned, chin hair and flip flops
Booze in profile picture
Tribal tattoos
Abs in profile picture (a gallery pic is fine)
Sunglasses. I hate all sunglasses on men except aviators
"girls don't add me for sex". I kid you not this happens in guys' profiles. Relax buddy no one is begging for your d.
Pre-faded Jeans...groce
Witty slogan tees...fk off with that bs.

I hate sluts who think their opinion holds any merit in Society

[BananaMan12]

GIANT sunglasses


If you think you look better by hiding 2/3rds of your face... then I honestly wont even give you the time of day.

[Danny1990Sco]

I don't understand the flip flop on guys one? the ones that go between the big toe and the 'index' toe ?

I'd also like to add to my list -

- Girls who put so much make up on i swear that they want to become plasterers. Why cake so much crap on your face it's hideous!
- Fake tan/sunbeds.
- Putting make up on while driving. /facepalm.
- Girls driving.
- Every girl i know has a near perfect memory. it pisses me off i can't remember what i had for dinner last week never mind something i said 8 months ago.
- Constant Guilt tripping.
- Girls who smoke. I'm sorry but i could not be with a girl who smokes.
- Girls who go out and get so rat arsed they end up falling asleep and falling over and ****. I'm sorry but no. Just no.
- Your period should be referred to as Blowjob week.
- Y'know actually giving us a Bj without us asking or initiating is awesome.
- As much as i enjoy shopping If you ask us to go shopping you have to at least entertain the idea of having sex in a changing room.
- Female drivers.

I'll add more as there are plenty of things.

[BananaMan12]

Abs in profile picture (a gallery pic is fine)

this is one of those things that women say, but DO NOT mean.

I see it written all the time... If you got a pic of you shirtless in the mirror yadda yadda don't bother. I myself always thought it was really corny and would never REALLY do it. Recently however I decided to try a social experiment and used a pic of me shirtless as my profile pic and got rid of all other pics of me except one. I went from getting a message every day or 2 and a couple views, to multiple messages everyday and 10+ women viewing my profile every day.

explain this woman!

[blackcontrarian]

Duck lips.

"I don't want man, not a boy".

"I hate liars, cheaters, and players".

With the last two, I guarantee my blackness that those girls are bat **** crazy.

[aristomeow]

this is one of those things that women say, but DO NOT mean.

I see it written all the time... If you got a pic of you shirtless in the mirror yadda yadda don't bother. I myself always thought it was really corny and would never REALLY do it. Recently however I decided to try a social experiment and used a pic of me shirtless as my profile pic and got rid of all other pics of me except one. I went from getting a message every day or 2 and a couple views, to multiple messages everyday and 10+ women viewing my profile every day.

explain this woman!

Quality of women, though? That said if a girl is just looking to smush then yeah she'll want to see the goods upfront.

It's not a dealbreaker. It's far too common for us to be able to write you off for it. But if two guys are equally attractive, yet one is topless, and I only have time to respond to one of time, Mr modest can get it.

[aristomeow]

Duck lips.

"I don't want man, not a boy".

"I hate liars, cheaters, and players".

With the last two, I guarantee my blackness that those girls are bat **** crazy.

Ahahaha..i think any profile that speaks of the opposite sex in negative terms (I don't want this or this or this) is crap. How about listing what you do want instead? no one likes jadedness.

[BananaMan12]

Quality of women, though? That said if a girl is just looking to smush then yeah she'll want to see the goods upfront.

It's not a dealbreaker. It's far too common for us to be able to write you off for it. But if two guys are equally attractive, yet one is topless, and I only have time to respond to one of time, Mr modest can get it.

higher quality women. not trying to sound like a douche, but its like the whales see the pic and are either intimidated or think I wont be interested or whatever and don't even bother. The women that have been messaging and viewing me have actually been better looking/non whales than previously.

also the women who pop up in the "other members you might be interested in" thingy have been better looking as well. I really think that POF kind of tries to put people "in your league" in your browse.

edit - by quality I am talking strictly physical.

[blackcontrarian]

Ahahaha..i think any profile that speaks of the opposite sex in negative terms (I don't want this or this or this) is crap. How about listing what you do want instead? no one likes jadedness.

I guess I'm not really jaded, eh?

Yes, I'm just disgusted just reading those profiles. "I want a good man despite having 3 kids by different men... can you save me from my financial woes?"