1st date. Told her I am not paying for her dinner, she's not having it. Wat do/say?

[BraggadocioBrah]

Wow what a kunt.

On the other hand, you shouldn't have said that cuz you came across as a strong a**hole.


You both deserve each other.

If a 9/10 A-hole did this to u. Youd prolly by him lobster and give him some "free desert" afterwards. Mmmmmmm

[BraggadocioBrah]

Guys would happily pay if sex was guaranteed, but it's not the case. You are the greatest sucker if you pay for a women and don't get chit afterwards.

Best solution is:
- just pay for food. When she doesn't return with sex, steal or brake something from her with the same value.

This. Do u think aestetic guys pay?

[Ikeman83]

it's also beta to go on one date per girl with a lot of girls you met online and each time you pay for dinner while get nothing in return

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Which is why dinner as a first date = garbage.

[stOpSKY]

tell her shes a dumb kunt

[murdock604]

This. Do u think aestetic guys pay?

When you're aesthetic, bishes cook you dinner and pour your wine then give you a blowjob. (srs)

[meatlog]

sounds like a ****ing dik op, typical sloot,

[MisterrrM]

Lol, I'm not against paying when you invite a girl, but seriously I would never pay after the way she acted. First she chooses where she wants to go and then her answer of you not wanting to pay is also so ****ed up.

I would ignore her after she said that, ****ing skank.

[Soflogator528]

suck it up *******

you don't look "alpha" you just look like an *******. seriously. just stop being a ******* and buy a damn meal.

[Cyrus7]

I will never pay again for a first date after a horrible experience.

Cliffs:
Girl asks me to go to sushi
agree and go
date is going really well
she offers to pay for all of it
manmode turns on and I pay for all of it
later that week she wants to go see a movie
agree and tell her that she should pay for both of us since I covered sushi
she flips shiieeet and tells me that the guy should pay














feminists finna feminsm

[anonymous]

shes not worth seeing if she expects to get paid for

[INFINITY_BULK]

if you don't want to pay for her meal, don't take her to eat so you can avoid that situation all together. 1st date a man is expected to pay if he asks her out. Too much BS to deal with by trying to make her pay

[SiZzLaX]

haha too funny. I usually don't care if I pay(if im the one asking to hang out). Don't even bring it up.. just ask for seperate bills when the server asks if your done eating.

[Metalhead44]

LOL,because of feminism dumb kunts want it both ways.They want to earn as much as men yet they still want poor saps like op to buy her meals.Equal rights my ass!You should have said "your loss" and moved on so you didn't have to make yourself look pathetic.It looks like you're trying to bargin with her op.

[BeeReM]

But really, she said:
Her: I don't pay for first dates, that's a man's job.

No woman pays for first dates (unless you forgot your wallet, but don't do that either). But it's important to note that she didn't say:
Her: I don't pay for dates, that's a man's job.

General rule, if you asked her out, you pay.

I'd agree with the last sentence if the person in question and the OP had known each other for a long time - they don't.
If a man's job is to do that, then the female's job is to shut her whore mouth and be the man's b1tch. **** gender roles.

[SiZzLaX]

that bad experience you had is all YOUR fault LOL. Don't ever ****ing tell people who "should" pay. Go out knowing that you might have to cover all expenses. If you can't live with that then don't go out period. But I assure you, you WILL meet women that will gladly pay for full meals, drinks, and other activities.. and I have accepted the kind offer. Ive had several women pay for meals etc.

[Amir11]

Guys, I'll give you a perfect way to equally share the cost of a date with a girl on a first date.

Pick her up from her house(this goes without saying(will show her u are somewhat of a gentleman)

Go to the MOVIES...pick the movie and pay for the tickets

Ask her if she's hungry and go to the concession stand, ask her what should WE get...decide with her, if shes a classy nice appreciative girl...as its time to checkout there's a big chance she'll pull out money and pay. If she doesn't budge, look her dead in the eye as you pay and if she still says nothing, then you'll know she's not the type that's really independent or considerate to your level.

Enjoy the movie and try and score some nice kisses and feels, but try n be a little romantic, it's a movie theatre not a drive in.


Brahs doing the dinner dates be ready to pay, just saiyan, can't remember the last time a girl offered to split the bill with me, even If she likes u she won't pay, she might say something like it's on her next dinner.

But guys u also have to understand that u don't wanna be in a poverty relationship where u count pennies n dimes. Go and make $$$$ so At least your mind is free when you take a girl out

[BEARDofNORRIS]

I can't believe all the guys who advocate paying for the first date...

You retards are the reason these hoes still feel entitled. What traditions are these women still following to benefit us?

It's so f*cking sad how much men do just for the hope of getting laid.

[CROxMAG]

Self entitled whore expects you to drive an hour to hefty place AND pay for her dinner. OP you're dodging a bullet here son.

This, lol @ virgins calling you a tightass, can tell just by her responses she is a gold digging sloot, erase conversation and move on.

EDIT: Also, be more of a cheeky kunt. Should have told her you might go as far as letting her only pay half or say the second dinner is on her, it can be an easy way to ensure she continues meeting you.

[BrosefMengele]

She can't be a stupid whore if she's dead jus saiyan.

[BraggadocioBrah]

I can't believe all the guys who advocate paying for the first date...

You retards are the reason these hoes still feel entitled. What traditions are these women still following to benefit us?

It's so f*cking sad how much men do just for the hope of getting laid.

Scarcity mentality. Women know they will get laid with a guy they choose and will still be married oneday. Most guys cant evem find an 18yr old virgin. Pay for dates in 2012............hopefull NOT EVEN ONCE.

[Flareon]

She's obviously a spoilt bch that has all her dinners payed for by WK, if she can't pay for herself, then fuhk her, she's obviously not worth your time.

[jgb99]

Just do cheap dates (i.e. drinks, hiking, cooking a meal at yours, pool/bowling/mini golf etc.) until you're officially dating...then you don't need to worry about this ****.

[turboface]

"alright girl, I'll do the manly thing and pay for you no problem. all you gotta do is the womanly thing and zuk my dik after no questions asked, deal?"

[uw0tm8]

She's obviously a spoilt bch that has all her dinners payed for by WK, if she can't pay for herself, then fuhk her, she's obviously not worth your time.

no, respectful people realize in many cultures if you invite someone somewhere you're buying. its so fuking simple.

no guy gets the girl by asking her to split the bill, or even worse, telling her she has to pay for herself. I've never heard a success story on the misc from someone who did that even tho the advice is spoken like gospel.

[MiscVirgin69]

"when a guy doesnt pay thats a turnoff"

lmao

[ProblemOD]

well you started out with no sexual tension at all, now you managed to make it in the negative


first dates shouldn't be expensive dinner dates, or dinner dates at all. Something cheap like a few drinks or coffee. You can usually tell by them if they will put out next time or not

[Flareon]

no, respectful people realize in many cultures if you invite someone somewhere you're buying. its so fuking simple.

no guy gets the girl by asking her to split the bill, or even worse, telling her she has to pay for herself. I've never heard a success story on the misc from someone who did that even tho the advice is spoken like gospel.

Who said "he" invited her out, they could've agreed on a date together, him not necessarily inviting the girl out, or her saying she wants to eat somewhere with him.
My culture itself has the you invite you pay thing going on, but I personally think it's utter bullchit paying a hundred bucks for a girls food, when she could be easily using you. A coffee is fine, but all this flash restaurant dining, no thanks jeff. I'm not selfish when it comes to money, I happily pay for my friends a lot of the time, but when it comes to girls, no thanks jeff again.

Also no guy gets the girl by telling her to pay for her food, because girls are used to being paid for.

[BEARDofNORRIS]

no, respectful people realize in many cultures if you invite someone somewhere you're buying. its so fuking simple.

no guy gets the girl by asking her to split the bill, or even worse, telling her she has to pay for herself. I've never heard a success story on the misc from someone who did that even tho the advice is spoken like gospel.

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I do it all the time...but I live in Germany. Splitting the check is normal. Women usually don't want the guy to pay for everything.

Jakes on you "chivalrous" American brahs...lol

[matpat3000]

The misc has brainwashed so many people. If you want to tag a hot girl, you have to pay dinner. 99% of the time.

[turboface]

The misc has brainwashed so many people. If you want to tag a hot girl, you have to pay dinner. 99% of the time.

Right, we're the ones who are brainwashed. Totally not you or anything..