More defined body than boyfriend?

[Fitcollegechick]

I took an interest in fitness about 5 months back, and I have added a lot of toned muscle. Visible to people. My bf has not worked out in a while and is getting soft. Has anyone had experience with this?

[melodyjayne]

Thats bound to happen if you don't train i guess...

[kimm4]

Has anyone had experience with this?

No, I'm positive no one has ever experienced this LOL...

[megdaig]

Sure....my boyfriend is a cop and works nights ..all he does is eat donuts ... errrrr kolaches...and sit in a cruiser all night....







Not real srs...

[thepowerwithin]

Yes.

Now ask me if I care.

[Fawnl]

My husband is less defined than I am. He has never stepped foot in a gym. However he was blessed with good genes and stays thin with no effort.

So we stand in front of the bathroom mirror together flexing and fall all over the place laughing about it.

[ktb007]

Yep, I'm in the fat hubby club...and not one f**k was given

[Tofuffalo]

My husband is less defined than I am. He has never stepped foot in a gym. However he was blessed with good genes and stays thin with no effort.

So we stand in front of the bathroom mirror together flexing and fall all over the place laughing about it.

^ this! Same! He could work out once a month and look like he goes to the gym every day.

[gailh]

drag his butt to the gym! loll

[Fitcollegechick]

He loves my guns though haha

[sgtpeppers]

my boyfriend got me into weightlifting, but now he doesn't even go :/

it is always "i'll start tomorrow".

[girlsagymaholic]

My husband got me into bodybuilding and lifting heavy. Then he stopped going lol... too much work and not enough time.
For 8-9 months I went to the gym 5-6 days a week by myself for 1-2 hours every week never missed a day. Finally he got a new job in October and is back it again with me.


We LOVE it. I didn't mind him being soft, or skinny fat [poor guy was 6ft 2in and probably weighing in at 165-170 maybe even less by the time he was done wandering the mountains for a month during sheep season] but I won't lie.... Him at 190 and lifting heavy and bulking up is pretty awesome. He was really big but lean and cut when we met and seriously his physique made me drool, kiiiind of excited to see it coming back :P

As far as me being more in shape and toned than him for about 6 months before he came back... He loved it and it bothered neither of us.
He's probably the only person in either side of the family that supports my gym habit... so he's a keeper regardless of his own gym habits.

[Fitcollegechick]

My husband got me into bodybuilding and lifting heavy. Then he stopped going lol... too much work and not enough time.
For 8-9 months I went to the gym 5-6 days a week by myself for 1-2 hours every week never missed a day. Finally he got a new job in October and is back it again with me.


We LOVE it. I didn't mind him being soft, or skinny fat [poor guy was 6ft 2in and probably weighing in at 165-170 maybe even less by the time he was done wandering the mountains for a month during sheep season] but I won't lie.... Him at 190 and lifting heavy and bulking up is pretty awesome. He was really big but lean and cut when we met and seriously his physique made me drool, kiiiind of excited to see it coming back :P

As far as me being more in shape and toned than him for about 6 months before he came back... He loved it and it bothered neither of us.
He's probably the only person in either side of the family that supports my gym habit... so he's a keeper regardless of his own gym habits.

I think we both like that I have a rock hard body. It is fun to control him wish I started training earlier

[melodyjayne]

It is fun to control him wish I started training earlier

Control him??

[Fitcollegechick]

Control him??

Use my muscle

[mydawgs]

Use my muscle

How much muscle does it take to do this

[Squatticus]

I think we both like that I have a rock hard body. It is fun to control him wish I started training earlier

trolldar is going off...

[Big_Dip]

My ex was more defined than me but I could still kick her ass in the gym :-)

[melodyjayne]

Use my muscle

Lol like pin him down and take him style?

[Fitcollegechick]

Lol like pin him down and take him style?

Exactly

[stephanielynn76]

I don't know that feel. My hubby is more muscular and hot than when we first met. I'm always trying to keep up with him because I never wanted to be the not-so-fit wife of a very fit man. I, on the other hand, am in MUCH better shape than I was back then (13+ years ago).

[Jleef612]

My hubby and I joined the gym together. It will be one year in January. I have dropped 30 pounds and he has stepped foot maybe 10 ten times. He finally just quit realizing he was wasting his money. He complains about being overweight all the time but isn't willing to put the work in to change that. I'm happy with my new lifestyle but I know I can't persuade him to jump on board.

[Ma110W]

I don't know that feel. My hubby is more muscular and hot than when we first met. I'm always trying to keep up with him because I never wanted to be the not-so-fit wife of a very fit man. I, on the other hand, am in MUCH better shape than I was back then (13+ years ago).

This. I'll always be the chubby one in the relationship. I am also in much better shape than when we first met, but not anywhere near the level of fit that my husband is at.

[Theminatar]

When I first started dating my past girlfriend I was more fit than her. I got her motivated to do something about it and she began to pick up running again and actually trie din Cross Country. I later then stopped weight training and running and pretty much everything. She ended up becoming more tone than I was and I became soft.

Not a single **** was given that day. But She did end up convincing my ass to hit the gym after we broke up. We're still friends.

[bikinikel]

Yep ... but this is a massive problem for me. He used to train...... now he doesnt even eat , let alone go to the gym. He has an all or nothing personality, give 100% effort or zero. Now with 2 yrs no gym (6 yrs together) i start to resent him... its not the person i thought he was!!! He gets pissed too , when i say look at me, or ask about his opinion of my progress. weird 1 ....

[Big_Dip]

Yep ... but this is a massive problem for me. He used to train...... now he doesnt even eat , let alone go to the gym. He has an all or nothing personality, give 100% effort or zero. Now with 2 yrs no gym (6 yrs together) i start to resent him... its not the person i thought he was!!! He gets pissed too , when i say look at me, or ask about his opinion of my progress. weird 1 ....

You might want to end that relationship...

[lpereira5]

You might want to end that relationship...

lol true enough thats no good sounds depressing..

Yeah my ex was like that when we first started dating he was all bodybuilder, but then 3 years later no traning he just ended up being really skinny... and now that we broke up (for other reasons) lol i look at the picture and im like.... wow he's sooo scawny ew.

my current boyfriend, he full on told me he will never step into a gym, but he is fit, he even wants to eat more but i like the way he is . he doesnt even care if i wanna get lean or whatever he said as long as im happy with my body. lol.

[Soccergirl1047]

lol true enough thats no good sounds depressing..

Yeah my ex was like that when we first started dating he was all bodybuilder, but then 3 years later no traning he just ended up being really skinny... and now that we broke up (for other reasons) lol i look at the picture and im like.... wow he's sooo scawny ew.

my current boyfriend, he full on told me he will never step into a gym, but he is fit, he even wants to eat more but i like the way he is . he doesnt even care if i wanna get lean or whatever he said as long as im happy with my body. lol.

hes a keeper