I'm 29 years old and for as long as I've been a teenage and an adult I have been obsessed with teenage girls. I don't know why but there is just something about a teen body and face that drives me wild. Usually it's an older teen at least 16 but occasionally I find myself attracted to older looking 14-15 year olds. This may have been acceptable when I myself was a teenager but I know today it is not.
Fortunately I am not exclusively attracted to teenage girls and also like women in my age group. Still I have always had a preference for teenage girls. I know this is not appropriate and was hoping somebody with a similar problem could help give me some advice on how to perhaps grow out of this obsession. All teenage men like teenage girls but I assume most of them grow out of it when they become adults. I never did grow out of it so what is it you guys did to grow out of it?
I'd like to think I have self-control but if an aesthetically pleasing 16-17 year old were to become flirtatious I honestly don't know if I could resist. Even if that were to never happen it is an inappropriate distraction in my life and one I would like to do away with. I feel like a freak, and a ****phile. It's gotten to the point where people I hang out with give me strange looks when I look at adolescent girls at the mall. One time at the gym the father of a girl even confronted me angrily for glancing at her inappropriately even though I kept my distance. I had to say she looked like someone familiar and it was really embarrassing.
I have to say that all the ******** stuff on the internet has NOT helped and has in fact reinforced my attraction to teenage girls. I fear these attractions cannot be maintained in my professional life. I am a personal trainer and I have had to pass over adolescent female clients out of insecurity in my ability to maintain self-control.
I want to be just like all the other guys my age who are into adult women only, I don't feel normal and I hate it.
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11-10-2012, 01:03 PM #1
Trying to get over my attraction to teenage girls.(SRS)
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11-10-2012, 01:07 PM #9
Freudian psychologist checkin in... your love for teenage girls is actually your repressed homosexuality. Since 46 or so states view homosexuality as a taboo, you enact your fantasy with young teenage girls, who seldom have tits or an ass, similar to men. It is a defense mechanism known as sublimation 100%(srs) look it up.
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11-10-2012, 01:15 PM #23
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you will probably prefer teenage girls your whole life....dunno why guys would deny this, im pretty sure i will. Obviously never do anything about it but i would still be getting turned on by girls that age for as long as i have a ***. Working with dirty old construction guys everyday seeing how they go crazy over them its pretty much inevitable. Dont feel so bad about it homo
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11-10-2012, 01:17 PM #27
Don't worry bro its completely normal, everyone else just keeps it to themselves. Sexual attraction is one thing that is the same for 99% of males, you will one day be 60 years old and find 18 year olds just as attractive physically.
The feminists will jump on this soon though and say all males are naturally peadofiles and its the result of testosterone...so we should all take estrogen not to be 'crazy'.
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11-10-2012, 01:18 PM #28
I didn't bash you, I gave you psychodynamic insight for free.
Sublimation - a defense mechanism that allows us to act out unacceptable impulses by converting these behaviors into a more acceptable form. For example, a person experiencing extreme anger might take up kick-boxing as a means of venting frustration.
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