Given that we all have insecurities, but for the women who do not work out, or put any time and effort in their appearance, why must they try to put us down.
not that their opinions matter, but sometimes its the ones closest to us. Its sooo annoying. Anyone else has experienced this?
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10-25-2012, 06:53 PM #1Registered User
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10-25-2012, 07:03 PM #2Banned
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Ignore it. Misery loves company.
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10-25-2012, 07:05 PM #3^this, not only is she correct but she is also sexayOriginally Posted by aristomeow
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10-25-2012, 07:09 PM #4Registered User
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You just have to remind yourself that it's not a reflection on you, it's a reflection on them.
Yep.Originally Posted by aristomeow
Nelly is right... he has also been drinking LOL!Originally Posted by Nelly87
^this, not only is she correct but she is also sexay
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10-25-2012, 07:10 PM #5Yet a fluffy MarshMallow
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I don't know what happened exactly, but I can say that some women seriously think that any bit of muscle mass is manly. I was in the locker room one day at the gym, this girl, who is like 5'11" and maybe 110 lbs, was talking to her friend and said something about how she had to tone down her training because her arms were starting to look too manly. Her upper arms are about as thick as my wrists. I've never WTF'd so hard in my life.
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10-25-2012, 07:11 PM #6Ahhh ****, lol. I been caught. Plz forgive me for I am having funOriginally Posted by Botika
"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit." -Will Durant
"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure." - Marianne Williamson
"The only guarantee in life is death, live a life worth dying for." - Me
"He who makes a beast out of himself gets rid of the pain of being a man." - Samuel Johnson
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10-25-2012, 07:50 PM #7S1NN3R G0N3 G00D
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Why not just ignore her and move on, or you can always rub it in and tell her how bad she looks, that will shut her up.Originally Posted by Countrygal99
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10-25-2012, 09:13 PM #8Registered User
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lol dafuq, strong misconception on her part. I cringe when i see super skinny girls, i want to shove a steak down their mouth.Originally Posted by Ma110W
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10-25-2012, 09:17 PM #9Registered User
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That's not nice. Lol.Originally Posted by skamps
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10-25-2012, 09:18 PM #10S1NN3R G0N3 G00D
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I kind of like her idea though.Originally Posted by LiveStrongMona
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Its not important what they say behind my back, what is Important is whether they stop talking and look down when I turn around.
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10-25-2012, 09:25 PM #11I want to shove... imma stop right there,,,Originally Posted by skamps
"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit." -Will Durant
"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure." - Marianne Williamson
"The only guarantee in life is death, live a life worth dying for." - Me
"He who makes a beast out of himself gets rid of the pain of being a man." - Samuel Johnson
"It's not over UNTIL I WIN!" - John-leslie Brown (Son of Les Brown)
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10-25-2012, 09:57 PM #12Registered User
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Biggest issue I have; Its okay for these people to tell us you are to skinny and/or muscular, but the second you turn around and tell them they need to take better care of themselves, you're seen as a bully.Originally Posted by Countrygal99
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10-25-2012, 10:37 PM #13Registered User
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ok ok i'll just shove in a salad with chicken. baby stepsOriginally Posted by LiveStrongMona
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10-25-2012, 10:42 PM #14Sci&Tech
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Not even women can put up with some of the things nonlifter women say.
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10-25-2012, 10:54 PM #15building curves
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yep, my 17 year old daughter. She says eeww to my muscle, and asks why do I go to the gym ALL the time ( I go 6 days average 30-45 mins!) When I say I feel tired she blames it on my healthy diet and exercise (couldn't be juggling work and home).Originally Posted by Countrygal99
When I catch up with friends, they usually comment that I look great, then they all start nitpicking eg. how can i be bothered, blah blah.
Its pretty annoying at times, as its not me who even brings anything up, its usually them...
Its almost like you have to defend and explain why you live healthy and workout to these peopleCheers,
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10-25-2012, 11:24 PM #16This really rustles my jimmies. People have no problem telling you you're too skinny or you need to gain some weight. Imagine if I went around to every out of shape person and said "Wow you're getting really FAT"... don't think I'd have too many friends.Originally Posted by Cherrybomb2
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10-26-2012, 01:09 AM #17Registered User
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Lol, I got drunk last night for the first time in a long time and I am seriously surprised at the things I thought would be good things to verbalize.Originally Posted by Nelly87
I want to shove... imma stop right there,,,
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10-26-2012, 03:41 AM #18Registered User
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Amen.Originally Posted by Vawx
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10-26-2012, 07:10 AM #19Registered User
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I'm pretty fortunate here. There are about 4 people where I work getting themselves into shape and it's good to talk to them about it.
But I know what you mean, my roommate has already told me I picked a horrible time to go on a diet and that she doesn't like all the room my new food takes up.
I just sigh then I go to BB.com and do my best to forget I have a roommate. :P“A free people ought not only be armed and disciplined, but they should have sufficient arms and ammunition to maintain a status of independence from any who might attempt to abuse them, which would include their own government” -George Washington
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10-26-2012, 07:33 AM #20Wearing Muscles 24/7
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Originally Posted by skamps
LOL! Plus a total waste of a good piece of meat!Originally Posted by LiveStrongMona
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10-26-2012, 07:42 AM #21Mr Flexy's Happy Protégé
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You don't look old enough to have a 17YO daughter!Originally Posted by melodyjayne
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10-26-2012, 07:57 AM #22Haha I was drunk when I posted that, good thing I wasn't to blasted otherwise I would not have stopped myself.Originally Posted by Ascendedlife
"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit." -Will Durant
"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure." - Marianne Williamson
"The only guarantee in life is death, live a life worth dying for." - Me
"He who makes a beast out of himself gets rid of the pain of being a man." - Samuel Johnson
"It's not over UNTIL I WIN!" - John-leslie Brown (Son of Les Brown)
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10-26-2012, 08:07 AM #23Wearing Muscles 24/7
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Well good to see you up and at it this morning NellyOriginally Posted by Nelly87
Bad head??
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10-26-2012, 08:27 AM #24Thanks! Naw no hangover here. I don't get themOriginally Posted by danap3681
Well good to see you up and at it this morning Nelly Bad head??.
"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit." -Will Durant
"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure." - Marianne Williamson
"The only guarantee in life is death, live a life worth dying for." - Me
"He who makes a beast out of himself gets rid of the pain of being a man." - Samuel Johnson
"It's not over UNTIL I WIN!" - John-leslie Brown (Son of Les Brown)
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10-26-2012, 08:29 AM #25The Italian Scallion
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just punch them in the faceOriginally Posted by Countrygal99
who says love has to be soft and gentle ?
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10-26-2012, 08:41 AM #26I'm psycho
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Originally Posted by Countrygal99
NOBODY wants to be around insecure whales, other than other insecure whales.
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10-26-2012, 08:52 AM #27Wearing Muscles 24/7
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Because you are still young my friend. Hank Williams Jr. told the truth when he sang "the hangovers hurt more than the use to" LOL!Originally Posted by Nelly87
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10-26-2012, 09:10 AM #28Homey don't play dat.
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Only person I've got crap from thus far has been my MIL, she's very passive agressive about things too. She says she works out (leisurly pedal on the bike in front of the tv while doing triceps extensions with 5lb DBs for MAYBE 15min) And not regularly btw. ANYWAYYY, she made a comment about how I looked too thin and asked if I lost weight, I told her no and that I actually gained weight due to beginning some dumbell training (no cardio) but that my fat % might be down. She got this serious look of discouragement and then a fake smile came over her and she said "eat more wheat, that will make you gain weight" I told her I eat all the carbs I need and that "I am not trying to get fat I am trying to get muscular". She was just pissed because she gained a bunch of weight this month when her husband retired. It didn't hurt my feelings or anything just darn annoying.
Originally Posted by Countrygal99
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10-26-2012, 02:08 PM #29S1NN3R G0N3 G00D
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LOL hey brah I was banned for using the Wh*ale word, be careful now.Originally Posted by Crazymix
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Whaling season is over brah.EX YU Mafia #1 ----Cant Touch Us----
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10-26-2012, 02:16 PM #30Registered User
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OP,Originally Posted by Countrygal99
What happened? I'm curious. Are you thinking of a specific instance or is this a more general question?
I don't generally hang out with people who aren't supportive (well except for some family members who I can't seem to shake LOL)
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